Lost Libra

Hi!

I am writing to ask for your advice about a man that I am in Love with very much!

We met sometime ago over the internet and have become, I think, very close! I think he would agree that we are almost twin souls! We keep in touch everyday; actually, I keep in touch with him more than my own family!! I try and meet his needs because I think he misses me as much as I miss him, and we depend on each other for support and we are still trying to figure each other out. I think I know him already pretty well; I think he on the other hand has alot of unanswered questions about me. I understand!!!

I am a little on the reserved side with men because I don't trust them. I have my own reasons! So I have not opened up as much as he wants me to. I really do want to with this man; I want to trust! I loved him from the moment I noticed him. He was like nobody I have ever known before. He is very intelligent, mysterious, imaginative, very funny, handsome (I have pictures) and he is a good father! I know this for sure because when we started e-mailing each other privately he sent pictures of his kids! That got me pretty much hooked! I thought that was sweet!

Here is the problem, I think things have been moving along fine, but I think they have heated up alot more and it's getting more romantic and a little more serious. I am already gone, but I still have no idea who he really is. This scares me!!! I have never heard his voice, I don't have a phone number so I can call, I don't even know his last name or where he lives!!! I have put up a few road blocks recently because I want to know what are the facts!?! If I loan someone my car or money I want to know what they are going to do with it!! If I give him my heart I DEFINTELY want to know what they intend to do with it!! Do you understand— I am willing to be patient with him and give him all the time he needs. I know that he has not had it so good with realtionships before either, so I understand!!!

I hope we can get pass the mistrust and there have been words spoken in anger, but I would rather get them out of the way now then later on when it is too late!! I don't see any problems, not really, just the part about needing to get a little closer! We need to touch one another. Maybe hear a real voice?! I hope we can keep trying and not give up. I think we can heal each other's pain with alot of love and time. I am hoping we can start the story over. It is too beautiful to end it here!!!

What would you do if you were in my shoes?

Hope to hear some good advice!

Love,
Lost Libra

PS: We have known each other 6-7 months.

We have come to know each other much better in the last 2 months.

Hope this clarifies matters more!

Got to run now!

Lost Libra

Hi KennyG,

I would say that yes there are lots of ways to fall in love over the internet. It happens all the time! You may not be able to see their physical beauty but there are many ways to LOVE someone. And yes you should always be careful!!! That's up front!
Lib chic

Yes, I believe I know who she is. I hope she knows what she is doing—? She is not a bad person she just sometimes gets going in the wrong direction. She'll be ok, and I talk to her all the time about it. Sometimes she listens but other times she is going to do what she wants to do, and that is it! For love is not to be anaylized. She has made it this far in life and is doing prett damn good. I think the good Lord has her! I hope so anyway!!! Besides she is so happy lately. I haven't seen her like this in years! so, I'll let her be!

Lib chic.