whatisthisallabout
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I don't have hard time distinguishing love n lust ..but for me, lust doesn't happen without love. I think lust is something eventual.
For me, lust has extreme highs and lows, uncertainty, greedy, a feeling of impermanence.
Love is calming, protective, stable, sacrificing, lasting.
Its kind of like a storm at sea vs a beautiful lake. That's whats going on inside me anyway.
Love is calming, protective, stable, sacrificing, lasting.
Its kind of like a storm at sea vs a beautiful lake. That's whats going on inside me anyway.
There is no difference between love and lust...and friendship, and love for cheeseburgers....our delineations are just wishful thinking.
Posted by TeenaI think I am similar.
I don't have hard time distinguishing love n lust ..but for me, lust doesn't happen without love. I think lust is something eventual.
Posted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?
Posted by CanthalTiltare those examples of love?
Puppy love
Roofie love
Mark wahlberg lying awake in a dark room in fear love
Posted by LibraLovesHimI like the analogue of stormy sea vs. beautiful lake 🙂
For me, lust has extreme highs and lows, uncertainty, greedy, a feeling of impermanence.
Love is calming, protective, stable, sacrificing, lasting.
Its kind of like a storm at sea vs a beautiful lake. That's whats going on inside me anyway.
Posted by bricklemarkreally? do you feel turned on by the thought of cheesburgers—!!!! 😱
There is no difference between love and lust...and friendship, and love for cheeseburgers....our delineations are just wishful thinking.
Posted by d0s3rSo how about love? How do you know if the feelings are love or lust?Posted by whatisthisallaboutlol im the other way around. feelings come from lust. lust comes from beauty. beauty = mind and appearancePosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?click to expand
Posted by DonJohnI have to agree with you on Virgo. I don't know much about Taurus girls but I have witnessed my Virgo friend fall in love like that. It's hard to understand cause when that happened, every time she barely knew the guy. When the guy didn't call, she whinned, cried, and listened to the saddest love songs all day every day, etc. and yes, she'd tell us how much she's in love.
taurus and virgo.
you dick them good. they in love.
Posted by TerramineLightvoidI guess it is more common for a guy to feel physically attracted to a girl even if he doesn't have romantic feelings for her?Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?
That is called Demisexual.
Personally I can be attracted regardless but if I develop feelings for you it becomes more intensely focused on you.
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Posted by d0s3rso it sounds like lust always comes with love, but lust can stand alone? Is that right?Posted by whatisthisallaboutlove and lust are both feelings... love can be exclusive of lust but lust always has love. lust is love and arousementPosted by d0s3rSo how about love? How do you know if the feelings are love or lust?Posted by whatisthisallaboutlol im the other way around. feelings come from lust. lust comes from beauty. beauty = mind and appearancePosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?click to expand
Posted by whatisthisallaboutNo but l use the word love, in the same way l use it for good friends and lovers.Posted by bricklemarkreally? do you feel turned on by the thought of cheesburgers—!!!! 😱
There is no difference between love and lust...and friendship, and love for cheeseburgers....our delineations are just wishful thinking.click to expand
Posted by bricklemarkSo do you feel the same about your friends and lovers? Are you an aqua? I heard that for aquas there is a fine line between friendly love and romantic love.Posted by whatisthisallaboutNo but l use the word love, in the same way l use it for good friends and lovers.Posted by bricklemarkreally? do you feel turned on by the thought of cheesburgers—!!!! 😱
There is no difference between love and lust...and friendship, and love for cheeseburgers....our delineations are just wishful thinking.click to expand
Posted by WonderWoman14Do you mean you feel the physical desire first and then you begin to love the person? 😕Posted by d0s3rThis is me alsoPosted by whatisthisallaboutlol im the other way around. feelings come from lust. lust comes from beauty. beauty = mind and appearancePosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?click to expand
Posted by d0s3rI see. how about the feeling of butterflies?Posted by whatisthisallaboutyeah smth like that. basically love for family, friends, sexual partners, it's all love.Posted by d0s3rso it sounds like lust always comes with love, but lust can stand alone? Is that right?Posted by whatisthisallaboutlove and lust are both feelings... love can be exclusive of lust but lust always has love. lust is love and arousementPosted by d0s3rSo how about love? How do you know if the feelings are love or lust?Posted by whatisthisallaboutlol im the other way around. feelings come from lust. lust comes from beauty. beauty = mind and appearancePosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?
lust is what makes your heart race and your blood flow
someone's thoughts can be arousing until they show their face, or vice versa ¯\_(ツ)_/¯click to expand
Posted by DonJohnI think that's true. I have both virgo n taurus friends who said they fell in love after they had good sex.
taurus and virgo.
you dick them good. they in love.
Posted by whatisthisallaboutAnd I think, as Terraminelightvoid said, it can be called demisexual. That's what I can make of it as well.Posted by TeenaI think I am similar.
I don't have hard time distinguishing love n lust ..but for me, lust doesn't happen without love. I think lust is something eventual.click to expand
Posted by d0s3ryou wanna feed them??Posted by whatisthisallabouthmmm i get those when i wanna screw someone but also if i wanna feed them. idk what that isPosted by d0s3rI see. how about the feeling of butterflies?Posted by whatisthisallaboutyeah smth like that. basically love for family, friends, sexual partners, it's all love.Posted by d0s3rso it sounds like lust always comes with love, but lust can stand alone? Is that right?Posted by whatisthisallaboutlove and lust are both feelings... love can be exclusive of lust but lust always has love. lust is love and arousementPosted by d0s3rSo how about love? How do you know if the feelings are love or lust?Posted by whatisthisallaboutlol im the other way around. feelings come from lust. lust comes from beauty. beauty = mind and appearancePosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?
lust is what makes your heart race and your blood flow
someone's thoughts can be arousing until they show their face, or vice versa ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
what bout you thoclick to expand
Posted by TeenaI frustrate guys a lot because of that. When they ask me if I am attrated to them, I usually say something like, "oh yea, I like your face." or "you are good looking", but what they want to hear is if I feel hot for them and of course I don't since I don't get turned on just because a guy is nice and physically attractive.Posted by whatisthisallaboutAnd I think, as Terraminelightvoid said, it can be called demisexual. That's what I can make of it as well.Posted by TeenaI think I am similar.
I don't have hard time distinguishing love n lust ..but for me, lust doesn't happen without love. I think lust is something eventual.
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Posted by d0s3rnice. I think guys like to meet someone like you 🙂Posted by whatisthisallaboutif i like him and he is sexy, yesPosted by d0s3ryou wanna feed them??Posted by whatisthisallabouthmmm i get those when i wanna screw someone but also if i wanna feed them. idk what that isPosted by d0s3rI see. how about the feeling of butterflies?Posted by whatisthisallaboutyeah smth like that. basically love for family, friends, sexual partners, it's all love.Posted by d0s3rso it sounds like lust always comes with love, but lust can stand alone? Is that right?Posted by whatisthisallaboutlove and lust are both feelings... love can be exclusive of lust but lust always has love. lust is love and arousementPosted by d0s3rSo how about love? How do you know if the feelings are love or lust?Posted by whatisthisallaboutlol im the other way around. feelings come from lust. lust comes from beauty. beauty = mind and appearancePosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?
lust is what makes your heart race and your blood flow
someone's thoughts can be arousing until they show their face, or vice versa ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
what bout you thoclick to expand
Posted by TerramineLightvoidYeah I consider myself a demisexual. I can become infatuated with someone very quickly but it never evolves because it's apparent we're not compatible once it settles in.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?
That is called Demisexual.
Personally I can be attracted regardless but if I develop feelings for you it becomes more intensely focused on you.
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During that stage I'll kind of lust over them but it's because I believe I really like them when I don't even know them. Inside a real committed relationship I obviously lust way more over my partner.
I feel Aquarius lust
Posted by whatisthisallaboutLOL!! Sounds just like me. I don't remember saying any guy that he's hot. When I did think someone is hot, it's not like I wanna get physically intimate with them or something. I might be totally talking about their face or "the look" as a whole in general.And yeah, looks or even good personality wouldn't turn me on. I need love.Posted by TeenaI frustrate guys a lot because of that. When they ask me if I am attrated to them, I usually say something like, "oh yea, I like your face." or "you are good looking", but what they want to hear is if I feel hot for them and of course I don't since I don't get turned on just because a guy is nice and physically attractive.Posted by whatisthisallaboutAnd I think, as Terraminelightvoid said, it can be called demisexual. That's what I can make of it as well.Posted by TeenaI think I am similar.
I don't have hard time distinguishing love n lust ..but for me, lust doesn't happen without love. I think lust is something eventual.
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I have never felt lust or love for a single individual. My love is too impersonal. Lust for ideas, love for change... that I have.
Posted by libralotusHow do you find out if you are compatible or not when you are infatuated? 😕Posted by TerramineLightvoidYeah I consider myself a demisexual. I can become infatuated with someone very quickly but it never evolves because it's apparent we're not compatible once it settles in.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?
That is called Demisexual.
Personally I can be attracted regardless but if I develop feelings for you it becomes more intensely focused on you.
During that stage I'll kind of lust over them but it's because I believe I really like them when I don't even know them. Inside a real committed relationship I obviously lust way more over my partner.
I feel Aquarius lustclick to expand
I am curious because when I am infatuated, I feel I tend to ignore the red flags....
Posted by TeenaExatly! I don't know how to explain to a guy that I find him physically attractive, but it does not mean I have a desire to kiss him or do anything more 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutLOL!! Sounds just like me. I don't remember saying any guy that he's hot. When I did think someone is hot, it's not like I wanna get physically intimate with them or something. I might be totally talking about their face or "the look" as a whole in general.And yeah, looks or even good personality wouldn't turn me on. I need love.Posted by TeenaI frustrate guys a lot because of that. When they ask me if I am attrated to them, I usually say something like, "oh yea, I like your face." or "you are good looking", but what they want to hear is if I feel hot for them and of course I don't since I don't get turned on just because a guy is nice and physically attractive.Posted by whatisthisallaboutAnd I think, as Terraminelightvoid said, it can be called demisexual. That's what I can make of it as well.Posted by TeenaI think I am similar.
I don't have hard time distinguishing love n lust ..but for me, lust doesn't happen without love. I think lust is something eventual.
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Posted by TerramineLightvoidAre you a Leo? Your view of Love reminds me of leos I know 🙂Posted by d0s3rPosted by TerramineLightvoidtell me what love is then big boiPosted by d0s3rPosted by whatisthisallaboutlol im the other way around. feelings come from lust. lust comes from beauty. beauty = mind and appearancePosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?
None of which is love.
Also, if feelings come from lust. Then what about when you are already in love and lust someone else? Don't even try to say you fuckin fall for the new person Herpderp
i don't believe in exclusive soulmates soz
I don't either. At all. I don't believe there is someone out there that from birth was destined to be with you. You can find someone who just happened to develop in all the ways to create the most intense connection and experience possible. But even that isn't love, actually.
The way it goes is. Everybody is scrambling to find love. They chase their urges and compellings, only to meet a dead end.
What we learn the hard way is. It was never about any of that at all. Some of us don't really understand until we lose everything. Our looks, health, etc. But love is simply the moment you decide "I am going to make this person more important to me than myself" and then you uphold that of your own volition forever.
True love is specifically when you reach the realization that all that other stuff doesn't really matter in the grand scheme. That ultimately you can live without it, and you're going to lose it all always in the end. But love will be there anyways.
Trust me. Ask any elder. Most of them parrot this. That they don't care about that shit at all, and they really mean it. Even if earlier on in life they were total sluts. Elders know what young people don't, because they are living exactly what I'm talking about. They're growing old, losing their libidos, their sexual appeal/looks, their ambition, etc.
And in being placed in what was previously thought to be a losing position. They see that Love doesn't HAVE to be about all of that. One can consciously choose to stick with someone, without it being the end of the world. Meanwhile you still get to have someone to keep you company, and you get to say that you have someone who stuck by you. That someone values you simply because you are you. That they wouldn't pick anyone else even if that anyone else was exactly like you.click to expand
Posted by TerramineLightvoidIt is very hard for me to love someone I don't like. I dislike my parents and I do not feel I love them... =.=Posted by libralotusPosted by TerramineLightvoidYeah I consider myself a demisexual. I can become infatuated with someone very quickly but it never evolves because it's apparent we're not compatible once it settles in.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?
That is called Demisexual.
Personally I can be attracted regardless but if I develop feelings for you it becomes more intensely focused on you.
During that stage I'll kind of lust over them but it's because I believe I really like them when I don't even know them. Inside a real committed relationship I obviously lust way more over my partner.
I feel Aquarius lust
Hm. Except love isn't even necessarily about knowing a person. Just like it doesn't even mean you have to like someone.
I don't like my mother. I don't like my sister. They are annoying pains in the ass. But I love them, so I can be in their presence and interact with them and co-operate anyways.
Love is of Consciousness. Consciousness is not Thought, Feeling, or anything but simply Awareness and Comprehension.
When you comprehend what someone is, and from there. You accept and embrace that. That is love. Acceptance and embracing. Which true love is when you accept that person in specific no matter how they change or grow.
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Posted by whatisthisallabout#Demisexualproblems 😄Posted by TeenaExatly! I don't know how to explain to a guy that I find him physically attractive, but it does not mean I have a desire to kiss him or do anything more 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutLOL!! Sounds just like me. I don't remember saying any guy that he's hot. When I did think someone is hot, it's not like I wanna get physically intimate with them or something. I might be totally talking about their face or "the look" as a whole in general.And yeah, looks or even good personality wouldn't turn me on. I need love.Posted by TeenaI frustrate guys a lot because of that. When they ask me if I am attrated to them, I usually say something like, "oh yea, I like your face." or "you are good looking", but what they want to hear is if I feel hot for them and of course I don't since I don't get turned on just because a guy is nice and physically attractive.Posted by whatisthisallaboutAnd I think, as Terraminelightvoid said, it can be called demisexual. That's what I can make of it as well.Posted by TeenaI think I am similar.
I don't have hard time distinguishing love n lust ..but for me, lust doesn't happen without love. I think lust is something eventual.
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Posted by CanthalTiltHow about examples of lust? :pPosted by whatisthisallaboutYasPosted by CanthalTiltare those examples of love?
Puppy love
Roofie love
Mark wahlberg lying awake in a dark room in fear loveclick to expand
Posted by june_rVery interesting! You have never fallen in love yet?
I have never felt lust or love for a single individual. My love is too impersonal. Lust for ideas, love for change... that I have.
Posted by TeenaHow do you explain it? I am curious. I feel very uncomfortable when this guy I have hung out with for a few times tried to kiss me. He asked me if I liked him/if I liked spending time with him. I told him I did. But I do not feel like to kiss him at all. Hugs are ok 😆Posted by whatisthisallabout#Demisexualproblems 😄Posted by TeenaExatly! I don't know how to explain to a guy that I find him physically attractive, but it does not mean I have a desire to kiss him or do anything more 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutLOL!! Sounds just like me. I don't remember saying any guy that he's hot. When I did think someone is hot, it's not like I wanna get physically intimate with them or something. I might be totally talking about their face or "the look" as a whole in general.And yeah, looks or even good personality wouldn't turn me on. I need love.Posted by TeenaI frustrate guys a lot because of that. When they ask me if I am attrated to them, I usually say something like, "oh yea, I like your face." or "you are good looking", but what they want to hear is if I feel hot for them and of course I don't since I don't get turned on just because a guy is nice and physically attractive.Posted by whatisthisallaboutAnd I think, as Terraminelightvoid said, it can be called demisexual. That's what I can make of it as well.Posted by TeenaI think I am similar.
I don't have hard time distinguishing love n lust ..but for me, lust doesn't happen without love. I think lust is something eventual.
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Posted by CanthalTilthahaha. I only have 1 grandparent left. I will make sure you are not around her lolPosted by whatisthisallaboutThigh gap lustPosted by CanthalTiltHow about examples of lust? :pPosted by whatisthisallaboutYasPosted by CanthalTiltare those examples of love?
Puppy love
Roofie love
Mark wahlberg lying awake in a dark room in fear love
Sexy neck lust
Grandpa lust
Grandma lustclick to expand
Posted by whatisthisallabout*shrug*
What signs have a hard time distinguishing between love and lust?
Wat signs can easily distinguish the two? 😕
I wouldn't know.
Posted by CanthalTiltGo away!!! You don't understand anyway?Posted by Teena#fauxsexualsPosted by whatisthisallabout#Demisexualproblems 😄Posted by TeenaExatly! I don't know how to explain to a guy that I find him physically attractive, but it does not mean I have a desire to kiss him or do anything more 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutLOL!! Sounds just like me. I don't remember saying any guy that he's hot. When I did think someone is hot, it's not like I wanna get physically intimate with them or something. I might be totally talking about their face or "the look" as a whole in general.And yeah, looks or even good personality wouldn't turn me on. I need love.Posted by TeenaI frustrate guys a lot because of that. When they ask me if I am attrated to them, I usually say something like, "oh yea, I like your face." or "you are good looking", but what they want to hear is if I feel hot for them and of course I don't since I don't get turned on just because a guy is nice and physically attractive.Posted by whatisthisallaboutAnd I think, as Terraminelightvoid said, it can be called demisexual. That's what I can make of it as well.Posted by TeenaI think I am similar.
I don't have hard time distinguishing love n lust ..but for me, lust doesn't happen without love. I think lust is something eventual.
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Posted by TerramineLightvoidThis is so true. I mentioned the same point in some other thread before. You don't need to like someone to love them yeah.Posted by libralotusPosted by TerramineLightvoidYeah I consider myself a demisexual. I can become infatuated with someone very quickly but it never evolves because it's apparent we're not compatible once it settles in.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?
That is called Demisexual.
Personally I can be attracted regardless but if I develop feelings for you it becomes more intensely focused on you.
During that stage I'll kind of lust over them but it's because I believe I really like them when I don't even know them. Inside a real committed relationship I obviously lust way more over my partner.
I feel Aquarius lust
Love doesn't even mean you have to like someone.
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Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by june_rVery interesting! You have never fallen in love yet?
I have never felt lust or love for a single individual. My love is too impersonal. Lust for ideas, love for change... that I have.click to expand
I've fallen in love with words, actions, gestures... but people? I love having penpals, I encourage them to write and they share with me their most intimate thoughts. I fall in love with everything that is shared but can you say I fall in love with the person behind the screen? if I do, then that love is certainly not being exclusive but given to a lot of faceless individuals. Is kind of like a detached, maybe universal, love.
Posted by whatisthisallaboutLol!! I don't think this is sexuality related tbh. I agree it's very awkward when someone asks you if you like them n enjoy spending time with them. (Will anyone ever say "no" anyway... Considering it's rude—?) I think it's about being able to draw boundaries. I give off this "easy" vibe to guys initially I guess. I just try not to be rude n laugh many things off just to avoid offending people. But I think eventually I make the boundaries more clear by my behavior or in the process of "getting to know". I wouldn't even hug guys in general. I still did have people *asking* me if they can kiss me or you-know-what. But no one made any physical advances directly..not the people I already know atleast.Posted by TeenaHow do you explain it? I am curious. I feel very uncomfortable when this guy I have hung out with for a few times tried to kiss me. He asked me if I liked him/if I liked spending time with him. I told him I did. But I do not feel like to kiss him at all. Hugs are ok 😆Posted by whatisthisallabout#Demisexualproblems 😄Posted by TeenaExatly! I don't know how to explain to a guy that I find him physically attractive, but it does not mean I have a desire to kiss him or do anything more 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutLOL!! Sounds just like me. I don't remember saying any guy that he's hot. When I did think someone is hot, it's not like I wanna get physically intimate with them or something. I might be totally talking about their face or "the look" as a whole in general.And yeah, looks or even good personality wouldn't turn me on. I need love.Posted by TeenaI frustrate guys a lot because of that. When they ask me if I am attrated to them, I usually say something like, "oh yea, I like your face." or "you are good looking", but what they want to hear is if I feel hot for them and of course I don't since I don't get turned on just because a guy is nice and physically attractive.Posted by whatisthisallaboutAnd I think, as Terraminelightvoid said, it can be called demisexual. That's what I can make of it as well.Posted by TeenaI think I am similar.
I don't have hard time distinguishing love n lust ..but for me, lust doesn't happen without love. I think lust is something eventual.
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I think you are somewhat like me. Maybe you don't wanna be rude. Umm..just try saying a stern no in that moment..n maybe immediately get back to some light-hearted conversation n then casually mention sometime later that that's not what you're intending to do with him ... I think this is what I'd do? But yeah... if you can, you can be upfront about it and get little nasty maybe .
Posted by CanthalTiltplz post a picture of yourself in the grandpa costume! 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutI could always put on a grandpa costumePosted by CanthalTilthahaha. I only have 1 grandparent left. I will make sure you are not around her lolPosted by whatisthisallaboutThigh gap lustPosted by CanthalTiltHow about examples of lust? :pPosted by whatisthisallaboutYasPosted by CanthalTiltare those examples of love?
Puppy love
Roofie love
Mark wahlberg lying awake in a dark room in fear love
Sexy neck lust
Grandpa lust
Grandma lustclick to expand
Posted by PanelaHow about your own experience?Posted by whatisthisallabout*shrug*
What signs have a hard time distinguishing between love and lust?
Wat signs can easily distinguish the two? 😕
I wouldn't know.
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Posted by june_rDo you have a lot of dxp crushes :pPosted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by june_rVery interesting! You have never fallen in love yet?
I have never felt lust or love for a single individual. My love is too impersonal. Lust for ideas, love for change... that I have.
I've fallen in love with words, actions, gestures... but people? I love having penpals, I encourage them to write and they share with me their most intimate thoughts. I fall in love with everything that is shared but can you say I fall in love with the person behind the screen? if I do, then that love is certainly not being exclusive but given to a lot of faceless individuals. Is kind of like a detached, maybe universal, love.click to expand
What is your sign? 🙂
Posted by whatisthisallaboutI forgot the question.Posted by PanelaHow about your own experience?Posted by whatisthisallabout*shrug*
What signs have a hard time distinguishing between love and lust?
Wat signs can easily distinguish the two? 😕
I wouldn't know.
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Posted by TeenaMuch appreciated! XXOOPosted by whatisthisallaboutLol!! I don't think this is sexuality related tbh. I agree it's very awkward when someone asks you if you like them n enjoy spending time with them. (Will anyone ever say "no" anyway... Considering it's rude—?) I think it's about being able to draw boundaries. I give off this "easy" vibe to guys initially I guess. I just try not to be rude n laugh many things off just to avoid offending people. But I think eventually I make the boundaries more clear by my behavior or in the process of "getting to know". I wouldn't even hug guys in general. I still did have people *asking* me if they can kiss me or you-know-what. But no one made any physical advances directly..not the people I already know atleast.Posted by TeenaHow do you explain it? I am curious. I feel very uncomfortable when this guy I have hung out with for a few times tried to kiss me. He asked me if I liked him/if I liked spending time with him. I told him I did. But I do not feel like to kiss him at all. Hugs are ok 😆Posted by whatisthisallabout#Demisexualproblems 😄Posted by TeenaExatly! I don't know how to explain to a guy that I find him physically attractive, but it does not mean I have a desire to kiss him or do anything more 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutLOL!! Sounds just like me. I don't remember saying any guy that he's hot. When I did think someone is hot, it's not like I wanna get physically intimate with them or something. I might be totally talking about their face or "the look" as a whole in general.And yeah, looks or even good personality wouldn't turn me on. I need love.Posted by TeenaI frustrate guys a lot because of that. When they ask me if I am attrated to them, I usually say something like, "oh yea, I like your face." or "you are good looking", but what they want to hear is if I feel hot for them and of course I don't since I don't get turned on just because a guy is nice and physically attractive.Posted by whatisthisallaboutAnd I think, as Terraminelightvoid said, it can be called demisexual. That's what I can make of it as well.Posted by TeenaI think I am similar.
I don't have hard time distinguishing love n lust ..but for me, lust doesn't happen without love. I think lust is something eventual.
I think you are somewhat like me. Maybe you don't wanna be rude. Umm..just try saying a stern no in that moment..n maybe immediately get back to some light-hearted conversation n then casually mention sometime later that that's not what you're intending to do with him ... I think this is what I'd do? But yeah... if you can, you can be upfront about it and get little nasty maybe .
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Posted by TerramineLightvoidLucky her! Why is she an ex? Why did you let her go? ðŸ˜Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by TerramineLightvoidAre you a Leo? Your view of Love reminds me of leos I know 🙂Posted by d0s3rPosted by TerramineLightvoidtell me what love is then big boiPosted by d0s3rPosted by whatisthisallaboutlol im the other way around. feelings come from lust. lust comes from beauty. beauty = mind and appearancePosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?
None of which is love.
Also, if feelings come from lust. Then what about when you are already in love and lust someone else? Don't even try to say you fuckin fall for the new person Herpderp
i don't believe in exclusive soulmates soz
I don't either. At all. I don't believe there is someone out there that from birth was destined to be with you. You can find someone who just happened to develop in all the ways to create the most intense connection and experience possible. But even that isn't love, actually.
The way it goes is. Everybody is scrambling to find love. They chase their urges and compellings, only to meet a dead end.
What we learn the hard way is. It was never about any of that at all. Some of us don't really understand until we lose everything. Our looks, health, etc. But love is simply the moment you decide "I am going to make this person more important to me than myself" and then you uphold that of your own volition forever.
True love is specifically when you reach the realization that all that other stuff doesn't really matter in the grand scheme. That ultimately you can live without it, and you're going to lose it all always in the end. But love will be there anyways.
Trust me. Ask any elder. Most of them parrot this. That they don't care about that shit at all, and they really mean it. Even if earlier on in life they were total sluts. Elders know what young people don't, because they are living exactly what I'm talking about. They're growing old, losing their libidos, their sexual appeal/looks, their ambition, etc.
And in being placed in what was previously thought to be a losing position. They see that Love doesn't HAVE to be about all of that. One can consciously choose to stick with someone, without it being the end of the world. Meanwhile you still get to have someone to keep you company, and you get to say that you have someone who stuck by you. That someone values you simply because you are you. That they wouldn't pick anyone else even if that anyone else was exactly like you.
Libra Sun. Although what you're saying makes sense. In retrospect what I'm saying isn't even something most Libras express.
But I do have 1 Leo placement in my whole chart. My Midheaven.
So it actually makes a shit ton of sense because. What I'm saying is what I've learned the hard way through life, even if it is somewhat recent. I came to this realization with my last ex. I love her and only her and will only ever lover her forever.
I learned true love through her because I love her truly.
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Posted by TeenaWow! So you can love someone and don't bit like them?Posted by TerramineLightvoidThis is so true. I mentioned the same point in some other thread before. You don't need to like someone to love them yeah.Posted by libralotusPosted by TerramineLightvoidYeah I consider myself a demisexual. I can become infatuated with someone very quickly but it never evolves because it's apparent we're not compatible once it settles in.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?
That is called Demisexual.
Personally I can be attracted regardless but if I develop feelings for you it becomes more intensely focused on you.
During that stage I'll kind of lust over them but it's because I believe I really like them when I don't even know them. Inside a real committed relationship I obviously lust way more over my partner.
I feel Aquarius lust
Love doesn't even mean you have to like someone.
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Let me google it...
Posted by GemitatiYeah Gemitati...it happens.It may sound weird...but I've been there.So I know.Posted by TeenaWow! So you can love someone and don't bit like them?Posted by TerramineLightvoidThis is so true. I mentioned the same point in some other thread before. You don't need to like someone to love them yeah.Posted by libralotusPosted by TerramineLightvoidYeah I consider myself a demisexual. I can become infatuated with someone very quickly but it never evolves because it's apparent we're not compatible once it settles in.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?
That is called Demisexual.
Personally I can be attracted regardless but if I develop feelings for you it becomes more intensely focused on you.
During that stage I'll kind of lust over them but it's because I believe I really like them when I don't even know them. Inside a real committed relationship I obviously lust way more over my partner.
I feel Aquarius lust
Love doesn't even mean you have to like someone.
Let me google it...click to expand
Posted by TeenaWe need to start writing that book!Posted by GemitatiYeah Gemitati...it happens.It may sound weird...but I've been there.So I know.Posted by TeenaWow! So you can love someone and don't bit like them?Posted by TerramineLightvoidThis is so true. I mentioned the same point in some other thread before. You don't need to like someone to love them yeah.Posted by libralotusPosted by TerramineLightvoidYeah I consider myself a demisexual. I can become infatuated with someone very quickly but it never evolves because it's apparent we're not compatible once it settles in.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?
That is called Demisexual.
Personally I can be attracted regardless but if I develop feelings for you it becomes more intensely focused on you.
During that stage I'll kind of lust over them but it's because I believe I really like them when I don't even know them. Inside a real committed relationship I obviously lust way more over my partner.
I feel Aquarius lust
Love doesn't even mean you have to like someone.
Let me google it...click to expand
50/50! Ok?
Posted by GemitatiHaha!!! We sure should!!! 😄Posted by TeenaWe need to start writing that book!Posted by GemitatiYeah Gemitati...it happens.It may sound weird...but I've been there.So I know.Posted by TeenaWow! So you can love someone and don't bit like them?Posted by TerramineLightvoidThis is so true. I mentioned the same point in some other thread before. You don't need to like someone to love them yeah.Posted by libralotusPosted by TerramineLightvoidYeah I consider myself a demisexual. I can become infatuated with someone very quickly but it never evolves because it's apparent we're not compatible once it settles in.Posted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by TerramineLightvoidhaha, I have a hard time distinguishing between infatuation and love lol
Most people cannot identify love regardless. Hell you are assuming that you can OP. It isn't just Lust people confuse for love. But also Infatuation, Attraction, Connection, Relation, Experience, Benefit, Compatability, etc.
Unconditional Love is the only real love. Everything else is extra. You can identify it when you don't need anything from a person to love them. You just do and always will, through thick and thin.
but I don't lust over people no matter how physical attractive they are unless I have feelings for them. weird?
That is called Demisexual.
Personally I can be attracted regardless but if I develop feelings for you it becomes more intensely focused on you.
During that stage I'll kind of lust over them but it's because I believe I really like them when I don't even know them. Inside a real committed relationship I obviously lust way more over my partner.
I feel Aquarius lust
Love doesn't even mean you have to like someone.
Let me google it...
50/50! Ok?click to expand
Posted by CanthalTiltPosted by whatisthisallaboutPosted by CanthalTiltplz post a picture of yourself in the grandpa costume! 😆Posted by whatisthisallaboutI could always put on a grandpa costumePosted by CanthalTilthahaha. I only have 1 grandparent left. I will make sure you are not around her lolPosted by whatisthisallaboutThigh gap lustPosted by CanthalTiltHow about examples of lust? :pPosted by whatisthisallaboutYasPosted by CanthalTiltare those examples of love?
Puppy love
Roofie love
Mark wahlberg lying awake in a dark room in fear love
Sexy neck lust
Grandpa lust
Grandma lust
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hahah, you forgot the hat, glasses, and the sweater!
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