Men! How do you feel about kissing/making out?

I personally love a good kissing/making out session BUT in my experience (after you've already had sex in the relationship) it seems to me that men are into it when they think it will lead to sex and when you're saying "goodnight" after a date.
Maybe I dont kiss as well as I think? Am I meeting the wrong men? Whats the story w/ you guys? Also if you like to kiss & make-out please tell your Sun & Moon sign if you know. Thanks!
I also posted this in Relationships forum but thought this might be a better place to get some answers 🙂
btw: I am Virgo/Cancer moon (hence the oral luv?)

You know, I always find that interesting...before exclusivity, making out was the best! After exclusivity, making out is almost non-existent for me..that sucks, because I like kissing passionately and stuff.. I like sex too...but it's interesting how you dont do half the things you used to do when you were just dating.

I'm sure this is one of those things where you have to 'lead by example' though.

yeah, I thought about it this morning and wondered if its not just natural that once the 'barrier' has been broken, kissing naturally leads to sex cuz it defs makes u both 'hot' but, I love sensual, playful and passionate kissing - just for funsies!

I got some really great responses to this in the Relationships forum - go figure! thought it'd be a hotter topic here..