Men of the zodiac

Whats your Sun, Moon, Venus.... Do you find that immediately after a relationship you need female (or male) attention. To what degree? Just talking? Hooking up? Flirtation.

Ive found that nearly every guy ive dated immediately needed a hook up, or attention to feel better. Except for my Cap ex.

::: crickets::: Fine then! haha

Yes they do...Moreso than women in my experience

Posted by MyStarsShine
Yes they do...Moreso than women in my experience

I wonder if it comes from a place of insecurity? Should we take offense? Does it indicate their feelings were fickle? Talking with coworkers about it. Varying opinions.

Posted by DickButt
Taurus

Scorp

Aries

Nope. I can't handle more than one. I have tunnel vision. I also have high blood pressure.

The lady was asking about after ....

Posted by heliumfiasco

Posted by MyStarsShine
Yes they do...Moreso than women in my experience

I wonder if it comes from a place of insecurity? Should we take offense? Does it indicate their feelings were fickle? Talking with coworkers about it. Varying opinions.

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Could be a mix of those things

Insecurity, yes. I know men that just can't be without so move on very quickly, not so much fickle but neediness

Posted by Capz
Capz the godz

He was a solid individual. Only flaw was his depression.

Taurus

Capricorn

Aries

I need some space and solitude to myself immediately after.

Posted by earlorg16
Taurus

Capricorn

Aries

I need some space and solitude to myself immediately after.

That sounds healthy.....

Posted by earlorg16
Taurus

Capricorn

Aries

I need some space and solitude to myself immediately after.

Indeed it does sound healthy.

The exs that did this were Libra, Scorpio and Cancer.

Ive also done this once, but it was immature and backfired on me.

Ive just noticed it a lot with men.

Posted by heliumfiasco


Ive found that nearly every guy ive dated immediately needed a hook up, or attention to feel better.

That's hardly surprising.

A woman gets lots of attention, almost each day, whether she is single or not and whether it's through eye contact and social media or by being approached directly. Women are used to it and they can have sex and even relationships if they are willing to so it doesn't do wonders for them if they flirt at times or get compliments even after a relationship.

With men it's different. When the average guy breaks up with his gf, he loses somebody he most likely had to work for in order to be with her. He is not going to get as much attention as the average girl, even worse, a single guy seems less attractive to women than guys in relationships. Men on the other side consider attractive single women more attractive than those who are committed. So yeah, many men will try to flirt and hook up if possible, unless they have been left heartbroken because it takes time to get over it.

And all of this results in some interesting patterns:

I think lesser attention is the reason why lots of men can build a crush on women they barely know easily, cause they are not used to get all the attention from different women at the same time. Women on the other side are more likely to fall in love once they sleep with a guy. They don't fall in love just by looking at a guy. But if a guy sleeps with a woman he adores the magic might be over because he realizes her pussy is not made of gold at all. He can relax finally. 😉

So as a man I have found out that it's easy to get distracted once different women pay attention to you. If you "date" or see as many women as possible at the same time you won't become dependent on just one girl, you will build up your confidence and become more indipendent towards women.

I am TheSag and this is my oppinion.

Thank you. ♥

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Posted by heliumfiasco


Ive found that nearly every guy ive dated immediately needed a hook up, or attention to feel better.

That's hardly surprising.

A woman gets lots of attention, almost each day, whether she is single or not and whether it's through eye contact and social media or by being approached directly. Women are used to it and they can have sex and even relationships if they are willing to so it doesn't do wonders for them if they flirt at times or get compliments even after a relationship.

With men it's different. When the average guy breaks up with his gf, he loses somebody he most likely had to work for in order to be with her. He is not going to get as much attention as the average girl, even worse, a single guy seems less attractive to women than guys in relationships. Men on the other side consider attractive single women more attractive than those who are committed. So yeah, many men will try to flirt and hook up if possible, unless they have been left heartbroken because it takes time to get over it.

And all of this results in some interesting patterns:

I think lesser attention is the reason why lots of men can build a crush on women they barely know easily, cause they are not used to get all the attention from different women at the same time. Women on the other side are more likely to fall in love once they sleep with a guy. They don't fall in love just by looking at a guy. But if a guy sleeps with a woman he adores the magic might be over because he realizes her pussy is not made of gold at all. He can relax finally. 😉

So as a man I have found out that it's easy to get distracted once different women pay attention to you. If you "date" or see as many women as possible at the same time you won't become dependent on just one girl, you will build up your confidence and become more indipendent towards women.

I am TheSag and this is my oppinion.

Thank you. ♥

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Interesting! Makes sense! I appreciate the input 🙂

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by MyStarsShine
Yes they do...Moreso than women in my experience

Not really

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Not men like you, maybe, but i have seen it happen a lot with people

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by MyStarsShine
Yes they do...Moreso than women in my experience

Not really

Not men like you, maybe, but i have seen it happen a lot with people

lol I used to be that way when I was a lil younger

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At what age did you grow out of it?

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by MyStarsShine
Yes they do...Moreso than women in my experience

Not really

Not men like you, maybe, but i have seen it happen a lot with people

lol I used to be that way when I was a lil younger

At what age did you grow out of it?

29

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Interesting. After your Saturn return?

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio

Posted by MyStarsShine
Yes they do...Moreso than women in my experience

Not really

Not men like you, maybe, but i have seen it happen a lot with people

lol I used to be that way when I was a lil younger

At what age did you grow out of it?

29

Interesting. After your Saturn return?

My Saturn?

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Yes Saturn return....it happens between ages 28 and 29.5.

Posted by TheSag

Posted by heliumfiasco


Ive found that nearly every guy ive dated immediately needed a hook up, or attention to feel better.

That's hardly surprising.

A woman gets lots of attention, almost each day, whether she is single or not and whether it's through eye contact and social media or by being approached directly. Women are used to it and they can have sex and even relationships if they are willing to so it doesn't do wonders for them if they flirt at times or get compliments even after a relationship.

With men it's different. When the average guy breaks up with his gf, he loses somebody he most likely had to work for in order to be with her. He is not going to get as much attention as the average girl, even worse, a single guy seems less attractive to women than guys in relationships. Men on the other side consider attractive single women more attractive than those who are committed. So yeah, many men will try to flirt and hook up if possible, unless they have been left heartbroken because it takes time to get over it.

And all of this results in some interesting patterns:

I think lesser attention is the reason why lots of men can build a crush on women they barely know easily, cause they are not used to get all the attention from different women at the same time. Women on the other side are more likely to fall in love once they sleep with a guy. They don't fall in love just by looking at a guy. But if a guy sleeps with a woman he adores the magic might be over because he realizes her pussy is not made of gold at all. He can relax finally. 😉

So as a man I have found out that it's easy to get distracted once different women pay attention to you. If you "date" or see as many women as possible at the same time you won't become dependent on just one girl, you will build up your confidence and become more indipendent towards women.

I am TheSag and this is my oppinion.

Thank you. ♥

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Hmm total sagittarius mindset

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Posted by MyStarsShine
Yes they do...Moreso than women in my experience

Not really

Not men like you, maybe, but i have seen it happen a lot with people

lol I used to be that way when I was a lil younger

At what age did you grow out of it?

29

Interesting. After your Saturn return?

My Saturn?

Yes Saturn return....it happens between ages 28 and 29.5.

Oh ok i guess so lol

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It's interesting to check the ephemeris to see exactly when you went through it...just check the degree natal Saturn is in and then when it returned on the ephemeris

Posted by heliumfiasco

Posted by MyStarsShine
Yes they do...Moreso than women in my experience

I wonder if it comes from a place of insecurity? Should we take offense? Does it indicate their feelings were fickle? Talking with coworkers about it. Varying opinions.

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Codependency.