@Librajean
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Venus in Retrograde? Friday Night Topic
U have a tough decision to make.. if it was between 2 it would be tough but 4? lol maybe chill with one one week , another one another week & 2 in the same week? I mean, u have to get to know them to really choose .. juggling 4 guys is a lot , should cut one loose off the bat.. no matter what you're breaking someone's heart, that's inevitable
Posted by SofiaV87
U have a tough decision to make.. if it was between 2 it would be tough but 4? lol maybe chill with one one week , another one another week & 2 in the same week? I mean, u have to get to know them to really choose .. juggling 4 guys is a lot , should cut one loose off the bat.. no matter what you're breaking someone's heart, that's inevitable
I forgot the Sagittarius...I'm afraid I'm going to cut off my Soul Mate?? Lol
Posted by Librajean
Posted by SofiaV87
U have a tough decision to make.. if it was between 2 it would be tough but 4? lol maybe chill with one one week , another one another week & 2 in the same week? I mean, u have to get to know them to really choose .. juggling 4 guys is a lot , should cut one loose off the bat.. no matter what you're breaking someone's heart, that's inevitable
I forgot the Sagittarius...I'm afraid I'm going to cut off my Soul Mate?? Lol
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There's 5? Hahahaha , ok now you're outta control lol
Posted by MrEmptyBackpack
Don't beat yourself up over it they probably have other options too.
I hope they do, except for the Cancer..he is the one I want.
Posted by SofiaV87
Posted by Librajean
Posted by SofiaV87
U have a tough decision to make.. if it was between 2 it would be tough but 4? lol maybe chill with one one week , another one another week & 2 in the same week? I mean, u have to get to know them to really choose .. juggling 4 guys is a lot , should cut one loose off the bat.. no matter what you're breaking someone's heart, that's inevitable
I forgot the Sagittarius...I'm afraid I'm going to cut off my Soul Mate?? Lol
There's 5? Hahahaha , ok now you're outta control lol
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It's a very strange time!! Lol..
Posted by MiZLeo
I'm having the opposite issue. Usually I have guys flocking to me but seems I'm going through a dry spell. Not worried about it tho, it gives me time to myself and I've been having fun. I am sad about one dissapearance. One of the guys has totally gone MIA. Part of me knows it's for the best but my Leo ego is pouting. Lol
Aww sorry about the dissappearance...I've gone through many dry spells..it is a good time to reflect and think about what you want. Ive been single and dating for almost a full year, I'm narrowing it down to a Cancer I believe we are a perfect match. Except I'm looking for long term, I wonder if that's what he wants too I guess with more conversation and meetings I'll find out. Plus cancers tend to disappear too. I dated one, it was challenging at times but we had so much passion and he was a perfect man to me. Now this cancer seems even more perfect...we will see..
Posted by Librajean
Is there anybody else going through this right now? There are 4 men that are flocking to me right now...one is the Scorpio, one is the cancer another one is the Scorpio and one is an Aquarius. They all are very eligible bachelors, that I think that I can have a very good relationship with. And they're all coming to me right at the same time and I just don't know what to do . They are all very nice, very attractive, have good careers, are difference in many ways that I like. And I just don't know what to do, I don't want to break anybody's heart. And I'm just curious if anyone else is experiencing this right now in Venus Retrograde?Looking for advice, suggestions and anything you want to share 🙂
Well then perhaps this is the time to consider the praticalities such as their work ethics, if they have children, their history of treating women or the women in the lives, health conditions, their social lives, their ways of communications/self expressions, etc.
And then gauge on which one you're vibing/ resonating the most?
This is I think will be applicable when you don't include passion and sexual attractions.
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by Librajean
Is there anybody else going through this right now? There are 4 men that are flocking to me right now...one is the Scorpio, one is the cancer another one is the Scorpio and one is an Aquarius. They all are very eligible bachelors, that I think that I can have a very good relationship with. And they're all coming to me right at the same time and I just don't know what to do . They are all very nice, very attractive, have good careers, are difference in many ways that I like. And I just don't know what to do, I don't want to break anybody's heart. And I'm just curious if anyone else is experiencing this right now in Venus Retrograde?Looking for advice, suggestions and anything you want to share 🙂
Well then perhaps this is the time to consider the praticalities such as their work ethics, if they have children, their history of treating women or the women in the lives, health conditions, their social lives, their ways of communications/self expressions, etc.
And then gauge on which one you're vibing/ resonating the most?
This is I think will be applicable when you don't include passion and sexual attractions.
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That is good advice thank you. That's why I like the cancer...we have been in touch for almost a year no sexual interactions we are just now starting to seriously look into each other's direction..he is a few years younger..I don't think he minds too much.
I haven't had sexual interactions with any of them. That's when I start to fall in love lol so I'm really being careful!!
Posted by LiveAndLove
I don't know, I think it's making me more impulsive which is not good. I asked my Cap if he wanted to go to Vegas and let's get just married a few days ago. He just laughed at me ? First time I ever proposed to someone and I was mostly serious. What a commitment phobe lol.
Maybe you can make your proposal more formal? Get a ring..take him to a nice dinner, really get his attention...tell him why you love him. Now Caps usually like to make the first move in these matters so u can also keep subtly hinting like you did? 😉
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Posted by Librajean
Is there anybody else going through this right now? There are 4 men that are flocking to me right now...one is the Scorpio, one is the cancer another one is the Scorpio and one is an Aquarius. They all are very eligible bachelors, that I think that I can have a very good relationship with. And they're all coming to me right at the same time and I just don't know what to do . They are all very nice, very attractive, have good careers, are difference in many ways that I like. And I just don't know what to do, I don't want to break anybody's heart. And I'm just curious if anyone else is experiencing this right now in Venus Retrograde?Looking for advice, suggestions and anything you want to share 🙂
Well then perhaps this is the time to consider the praticalities such as their work ethics, if they have children, their history of treating women or the women in the lives, health conditions, their social lives, their ways of communications/self expressions, etc.
And then gauge on which one you're vibing/ resonating the most?
This is I think will be applicable when you don't include passion and sexual attractions.
That is good advice thank you. That's why I like the cancer...we have been in touch for almost a year no sexual interactions we are just now starting to seriously look into each other's direction..he is a few years younger..I don't think he minds too much.
I haven't had sexual interactions with any of them. That's when I start to fall in love lol so I'm really being careful!!
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That's good to hear now that you have the inclination toward him.
Can help slimming down the options.
Why are you being careful, if I may ask?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Cancer man left me thread created in 4 monthsWho wants to make bets now
Don't be jelly...😉
lol...that's why I'm being careful with him..plus I'm older and wiser than him 😉
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Posted by MrEmptyBackpack
Don't beat yourself up over it they probably have other options too.
I hope they do, except for the Cancer..he is the one I want.
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Ooooooooo oooohhhhhhhhhhh&
Yikes
Ummmnmnmmmm
Good luck
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Dont start your abuse...it's too early. Yawn
And I'm having a nice morning ?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Cancer man left me thread created in 4 monthsWho wants to make bets now
Don't be jelly...😉
lol...that's why I'm being careful with him..plus I'm older and wiser than him 😉
Ok so you're going to momma bear him
Good luck with the babysitting
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Thanks love...
He isn't that young and he is a macho man..
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Posted by MrEmptyBackpack
Don't beat yourself up over it they probably have other options too.
I hope they do, except for the Cancer..he is the one I want.
[Oooo [oooooooo
Ooooooooo oooohhhhhhhhhhh&
Yikes
Ummmnmnmmmm
Good luck
—?
Dont start your abuse...it's too early. Yawn
And I'm having a nice morning ?
Lol ok fine next time. Keep us up to date
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Ok ?
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by Librajean
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Posted by Librajean
Is there anybody else going through this right now? There are 4 men that are flocking to me right now...one is the Scorpio, one is the cancer another one is the Scorpio and one is an Aquarius. They all are very eligible bachelors, that I think that I can have a very good relationship with. And they're all coming to me right at the same time and I just don't know what to do . They are all very nice, very attractive, have good careers, are difference in many ways that I like. And I just don't know what to do, I don't want to break anybody's heart. And I'm just curious if anyone else is experiencing this right now in Venus Retrograde?Looking for advice, suggestions and anything you want to share 🙂
Well then perhaps this is the time to consider the praticalities such as their work ethics, if they have children, their history of treating women or the women in the lives, health conditions, their social lives, their ways of communications/self expressions, etc.
And then gauge on which one you're vibing/ resonating the most?
This is I think will be applicable when you don't include passion and sexual attractions.
That is good advice thank you. That's why I like the cancer...we have been in touch for almost a year no sexual interactions we are just now starting to seriously look into each other's direction..he is a few years younger..I don't think he minds too much.
I haven't had sexual interactions with any of them. That's when I start to fall in love lol so I'm really being careful!!
That's good to hear now that you have the inclination toward him.
Can help slimming down the options.
Why are you being careful, if I may ask?
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Because I'm really looking for someone I can have a long term relationship with and I don't know if he is there, he is pretty free spirited. I'm guessing born after July 9th, loves to travel etc. which is fine, he can live his life I will live mine. He already suggested us going to Russia together. So it could be fun dating a world traveler. As I read before let the cancer man date you. Best advice.
I'm being careful because I'm so passionate..I have Scorpio tendencies..
Posted by Librajean
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Posted by Librajean
Is there anybody else going through this right now? There are 4 men that are flocking to me right now...one is the Scorpio, one is the cancer another one is the Scorpio and one is an Aquarius. They all are very eligible bachelors, that I think that I can have a very good relationship with. And they're all coming to me right at the same time and I just don't know what to do . They are all very nice, very attractive, have good careers, are difference in many ways that I like. And I just don't know what to do, I don't want to break anybody's heart. And I'm just curious if anyone else is experiencing this right now in Venus Retrograde?Looking for advice, suggestions and anything you want to share 🙂
Well then perhaps this is the time to consider the praticalities such as their work ethics, if they have children, their history of treating women or the women in the lives, health conditions, their social lives, their ways of communications/self expressions, etc.
And then gauge on which one you're vibing/ resonating the most?
This is I think will be applicable when you don't include passion and sexual attractions.
That is good advice thank you. That's why I like the cancer...we have been in touch for almost a year no sexual interactions we are just now starting to seriously look into each other's direction..he is a few years younger..I don't think he minds too much.
I haven't had sexual interactions with any of them. That's when I start to fall in love lol so I'm really being careful!!
That's good to hear now that you have the inclination toward him.
Can help slimming down the options.
Why are you being careful, if I may ask?
Because I'm really looking for someone I can have a long term relationship with and I don't know if he is there, he is pretty free spirited. I'm guessing born after July 9th, loves to travel etc. which is fine, he can live his life I will live mine. He already suggested us going to Russia together. So it could be fun dating a world traveler. As I read before let the cancer man date you. Best advice.
I'm being careful because I'm so passionate..I have Scorpio tendencies..
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If I were you, i'd just jump in. Coz adventure!
But I mean. Cancers are .... Well. They are uh...
#secret 😆
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by Librajean
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Posted by Librajean
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by Librajean
Is there anybody else going through this right now? There are 4 men that are flocking to me right now...one is the Scorpio, one is the cancer another one is the Scorpio and one is an Aquarius. They all are very eligible bachelors, that I think that I can have a very good relationship with. And they're all coming to me right at the same time and I just don't know what to do . They are all very nice, very attractive, have good careers, are difference in many ways that I like. And I just don't know what to do, I don't want to break anybody's heart. And I'm just curious if anyone else is experiencing this right now in Venus Retrograde?Looking for advice, suggestions and anything you want to share 🙂
Well then perhaps this is the time to consider the praticalities such as their work ethics, if they have children, their history of treating women or the women in the lives, health conditions, their social lives, their ways of communications/self expressions, etc.
And then gauge on which one you're vibing/ resonating the most?
This is I think will be applicable when you don't include passion and sexual attractions.
That is good advice thank you. That's why I like the cancer...we have been in touch for almost a year no sexual interactions we are just now starting to seriously look into each other's direction..he is a few years younger..I don't think he minds too much.
I haven't had sexual interactions with any of them. That's when I start to fall in love lol so I'm really being careful!!
That's good to hear now that you have the inclination toward him.
Can help slimming down the options.
Why are you being careful, if I may ask?
Because I'm really looking for someone I can have a long term relationship with and I don't know if he is there, he is pretty free spirited. I'm guessing born after July 9th, loves to travel etc. which is fine, he can live his life I will live mine. He already suggested us going to Russia together. So it could be fun dating a world traveler. As I read before let the cancer man date you. Best advice.
I'm being careful because I'm so passionate..I have Scorpio tendencies..
If I were you, i'd just jump in. Coz adventure!
But I mean. Cancers are .... Well. They are uh...
#secret 😆
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They are what—? Lol
Posted by Librajean
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by Librajean
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Posted by Librajean
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by Librajean
Is there anybody else going through this right now? There are 4 men that are flocking to me right now...one is the Scorpio, one is the cancer another one is the Scorpio and one is an Aquarius. They all are very eligible bachelors, that I think that I can have a very good relationship with. And they're all coming to me right at the same time and I just don't know what to do . They are all very nice, very attractive, have good careers, are difference in many ways that I like. And I just don't know what to do, I don't want to break anybody's heart. And I'm just curious if anyone else is experiencing this right now in Venus Retrograde?Looking for advice, suggestions and anything you want to share 🙂
Well then perhaps this is the time to consider the praticalities such as their work ethics, if they have children, their history of treating women or the women in the lives, health conditions, their social lives, their ways of communications/self expressions, etc.
And then gauge on which one you're vibing/ resonating the most?
This is I think will be applicable when you don't include passion and sexual attractions.
That is good advice thank you. That's why I like the cancer...we have been in touch for almost a year no sexual interactions we are just now starting to seriously look into each other's direction..he is a few years younger..I don't think he minds too much.
I haven't had sexual interactions with any of them. That's when I start to fall in love lol so I'm really being careful!!
That's good to hear now that you have the inclination toward him.
Can help slimming down the options.
Why are you being careful, if I may ask?
Because I'm really looking for someone I can have a long term relationship with and I don't know if he is there, he is pretty free spirited. I'm guessing born after July 9th, loves to travel etc. which is fine, he can live his life I will live mine. He already suggested us going to Russia together. So it could be fun dating a world traveler. As I read before let the cancer man date you. Best advice.
I'm being careful because I'm so passionate..I have Scorpio tendencies..
If I were you, i'd just jump in. Coz adventure!
But I mean. Cancers are .... Well. They are uh...
#secret 😆
They are what—? Lol
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It's a code for you to go faster! 😉
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by Librajean
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by Librajean
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by Librajean
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by Librajean
Is there anybody else going through this right now? There are 4 men that are flocking to me right now...one is the Scorpio, one is the cancer another one is the Scorpio and one is an Aquarius. They all are very eligible bachelors, that I think that I can have a very good relationship with. And they're all coming to me right at the same time and I just don't know what to do . They are all very nice, very attractive, have good careers, are difference in many ways that I like. And I just don't know what to do, I don't want to break anybody's heart. And I'm just curious if anyone else is experiencing this right now in Venus Retrograde?Looking for advice, suggestions and anything you want to share 🙂
Well then perhaps this is the time to consider the praticalities such as their work ethics, if they have children, their history of treating women or the women in the lives, health conditions, their social lives, their ways of communications/self expressions, etc.
And then gauge on which one you're vibing/ resonating the most?
This is I think will be applicable when you don't include passion and sexual attractions.
That is good advice thank you. That's why I like the cancer...we have been in touch for almost a year no sexual interactions we are just now starting to seriously look into each other's direction..he is a few years younger..I don't think he minds too much.
I haven't had sexual interactions with any of them. That's when I start to fall in love lol so I'm really being careful!!
That's good to hear now that you have the inclination toward him.
Can help slimming down the options.
Why are you being careful, if I may ask?
Because I'm really looking for someone I can have a long term relationship with and I don't know if he is there, he is pretty free spirited. I'm guessing born after July 9th, loves to travel etc. which is fine, he can live his life I will live mine. He already suggested us going to Russia together. So it could be fun dating a world traveler. As I read before let the cancer man date you. Best advice.
I'm being careful because I'm so passionate..I have Scorpio tendencies..
If I were you, i'd just jump in. Coz adventure!
But I mean. Cancers are .... Well. They are uh...
#secret 😆
They are what—? Lol
It's a code for you to go faster! 😉
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Lay it out...please ?What are they?
I'm going to go faster...yep! ? But what are you trying to tell me.. just lay it out there!
There must be one of them you have stronger feelings for... the one you already miss after you part and can picture meeting up anytime anywhere
Posted by Librajean
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by Librajean
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Posted by Librajean
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by Librajean
Posted by DepthAndDeath
Posted by Librajean
Is there anybody else going through this right now? There are 4 men that are flocking to me right now...one is the Scorpio, one is the cancer another one is the Scorpio and one is an Aquarius. They all are very eligible bachelors, that I think that I can have a very good relationship with. And they're all coming to me right at the same time and I just don't know what to do . They are all very nice, very attractive, have good careers, are difference in many ways that I like. And I just don't know what to do, I don't want to break anybody's heart. And I'm just curious if anyone else is experiencing this right now in Venus Retrograde?Looking for advice, suggestions and anything you want to share 🙂
Well then perhaps this is the time to consider the praticalities such as their work ethics, if they have children, their history of treating women or the women in the lives, health conditions, their social lives, their ways of communications/self expressions, etc.
And then gauge on which one you're vibing/ resonating the most?
This is I think will be applicable when you don't include passion and sexual attractions.
That is good advice thank you. That's why I like the cancer...we have been in touch for almost a year no sexual interactions we are just now starting to seriously look into each other's direction..he is a few years younger..I don't think he minds too much.
I haven't had sexual interactions with any of them. That's when I start to fall in love lol so I'm really being careful!!
That's good to hear now that you have the inclination toward him.
Can help slimming down the options.
Why are you being careful, if I may ask?
Because I'm really looking for someone I can have a long term relationship with and I don't know if he is there, he is pretty free spirited. I'm guessing born after July 9th, loves to travel etc. which is fine, he can live his life I will live mine. He already suggested us going to Russia together. So it could be fun dating a world traveler. As I read before let the cancer man date you. Best advice.
I'm being careful because I'm so passionate..I have Scorpio tendencies..
If I were you, i'd just jump in. Coz adventure!
But I mean. Cancers are .... Well. They are uh...
#secret 😆
They are what—? Lol
It's a code for you to go faster! 😉
Lay it out...please ?What are they?
I'm going to go faster...yep! ? But what are you trying to tell me.. just lay it out there!
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Of course not nor will I be able to. After all he's an individual, right?
What's the point of me telling you?
It must come from your own radar, come in contact one-on-one directly to him. Because you're the one who is dealing with him.
I was just trying to help. The more weight must come from you. I trust you know that. 🙂
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Posted by Librajean
Is there anybody else going through this right now? There are 4 men that are flocking to me right now...one is the Scorpio, one is the cancer another one is the Scorpio and one is an Aquarius. They all are very eligible bachelors, that I think that I can have a very good relationship with. And they're all coming to me right at the same time and I just don't know what to do . They are all very nice, very attractive, have good careers, are difference in many ways that I like. And I just don't know what to do, I don't want to break anybody's heart. And I'm just curious if anyone else is experiencing this right now in Venus Retrograde?Looking for advice, suggestions and anything you want to share 🙂
Well then perhaps this is the time to consider the praticalities such as their work ethics, if they have children, their history of treating women or the women in the lives, health conditions, their social lives, their ways of communications/self expressions, etc.
And then gauge on which one you're vibing/ resonating the most?
This is I think will be applicable when you don't include passion and sexual attractions.
That is good advice thank you. That's why I like the cancer...we have been in touch for almost a year no sexual interactions we are just now starting to seriously look into each other's direction..he is a few years younger..I don't think he minds too much.
I haven't had sexual interactions with any of them. That's when I start to fall in love lol so I'm really being careful!!
That's good to hear now that you have the inclination toward him.
Can help slimming down the options.
Why are you being careful, if I may ask?
Because I'm really looking for someone I can have a long term relationship with and I don't know if he is there, he is pretty free spirited. I'm guessing born after July 9th, loves to travel etc. which is fine, he can live his life I will live mine. He already suggested us going to Russia together. So it could be fun dating a world traveler. As I read before let the cancer man date you. Best advice.
I'm being careful because I'm so passionate..I have Scorpio tendencies..
If I were you, i'd just jump in. Coz adventure!
But I mean. Cancers are .... Well. They are uh...
#secret 😆
They are what—? Lol
It's a code for you to go faster! 😉
Lay it out...please ?What are they?
I'm going to go faster...yep! ? But what are you trying to tell me.. just lay it out there!
Of course not nor will I be able to. After all he's an individual, right?
What's the point of me telling you?
It must come from your own radar, come in contact one-on-one directly to him. Because you're the one who is dealing with him.
I was just trying to help. The more weight must come from you. I trust you know that. 🙂
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Okay basically you are saying he is a man waiting to be taken..ok good. I'm ready to tie him up and make him mine he he he jk.
I just wanted to hear your take on things. I love different perspectives 🙂) I appreciate your input ..thank you..
🙂
Why are we such hoez
Posted by Fragrance
There must be one of them you have stronger feelings for... the one you already miss after you part and can picture meeting up anytime anywhere
No...I'm really trying to keep emotions out and look at it logicall..the cancer has me the most interested though..
Posted by libralotus
Why are we such hoez
Ummmm I'm not a hoe? Lol
It's the Libra epidemic...we are wanted. I think right now I'm happy, doing well in life, I'm simple I bring no drama to the table. I'm independent!! I smile a lot and laugh. I'm strong and feminine. These are things men look for...
I have not had sex with any of these men. I repeat I'm keeping an aspirin between my knees. That's why I'm really trying to weigh this out..
I thought it was said that it's best not to start anything right now due to venus in retrograde...
Something about relationships won't last during this time?
Posted by Walkergrl
I thought it was said that it's best not to start anything right now due to venus in retrograde...Something about relationships won't last during this time?
When is it over? That is why it's strange that these bachelors are showing up. I'm keeping it very light.
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Is there anybody else going through this right now? There are 4 men that are flocking to me right now...one is the Scorpio, one is the cancer another one is the Scorpio and one is an Aquarius. They all are very eligible bachelors, that I think that I can have a very good relationship with. And they're all coming to me right at the same time and I just don't know what to do . They are all very nice, very attractive, have good careers, are difference in many ways that I like. And I just don't know what to do, I don't want to break anybody's heart. And I'm just curious if anyone else is experiencing this right now in Venus Retrograde?Looking for advice, suggestions and anything you want to share 🙂
Well then perhaps this is the time to consider the praticalities such as their work ethics, if they have children, their history of treating women or the women in the lives, health conditions, their social lives, their ways of communications/self expressions, etc.
And then gauge on which one you're vibing/ resonating the most?
This is I think will be applicable when you don't include passion and sexual attractions.
That is good advice thank you. That's why I like the cancer...we have been in touch for almost a year no sexual interactions we are just now starting to seriously look into each other's direction..he is a few years younger..I don't think he minds too much.
I haven't had sexual interactions with any of them. That's when I start to fall in love lol so I'm really being careful!!
That's good to hear now that you have the inclination toward him.
Can help slimming down the options.
Why are you being careful, if I may ask?
Because I'm really looking for someone I can have a long term relationship with and I don't know if he is there, he is pretty free spirited. I'm guessing born after July 9th, loves to travel etc. which is fine, he can live his life I will live mine. He already suggested us going to Russia together. So it could be fun dating a world traveler. As I read before let the cancer man date you. Best advice.
I'm being careful because I'm so passionate..I have Scorpio tendencies..
If I were you, i'd just jump in. Coz adventure!
But I mean. Cancers are .... Well. They are uh...
#secret 😆
They are what—? Lol
It's a code for you to go faster! 😉
Lay it out...please ?What are they?
I'm going to go faster...yep! ? But what are you trying to tell me.. just lay it out there!
Of course not nor will I be able to. After all he's an individual, right?
What's the point of me telling you?
It must come from your own radar, come in contact one-on-one directly to him. Because you're the one who is dealing with him.
I was just trying to help. The more weight must come from you. I trust you know that. 🙂
Okay basically you are saying he is a man waiting to be taken..ok good. I'm ready to tie him up and make him mine he he he jk.
I just wanted to hear your take on things. I love different perspectives 🙂) I appreciate your input ..thank you..
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Go Libra! ?
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Is there anybody else going through this right now? There are 4 men that are flocking to me right now...one is the Scorpio, one is the cancer another one is the Scorpio and one is an Aquarius. They all are very eligible bachelors, that I think that I can have a very good relationship with. And they're all coming to me right at the same time and I just don't know what to do . They are all very nice, very attractive, have good careers, are difference in many ways that I like. And I just don't know what to do, I don't want to break anybody's heart. And I'm just curious if anyone else is experiencing this right now in Venus Retrograde?Looking for advice, suggestions and anything you want to share 🙂
Well then perhaps this is the time to consider the praticalities such as their work ethics, if they have children, their history of treating women or the women in the lives, health conditions, their social lives, their ways of communications/self expressions, etc.
And then gauge on which one you're vibing/ resonating the most?
This is I think will be applicable when you don't include passion and sexual attractions.
That is good advice thank you. That's why I like the cancer...we have been in touch for almost a year no sexual interactions we are just now starting to seriously look into each other's direction..he is a few years younger..I don't think he minds too much.
I haven't had sexual interactions with any of them. That's when I start to fall in love lol so I'm really being careful!!
That's good to hear now that you have the inclination toward him.
Can help slimming down the options.
Why are you being careful, if I may ask?
Because I'm really looking for someone I can have a long term relationship with and I don't know if he is there, he is pretty free spirited. I'm guessing born after July 9th, loves to travel etc. which is fine, he can live his life I will live mine. He already suggested us going to Russia together. So it could be fun dating a world traveler. As I read before let the cancer man date you. Best advice.
I'm being careful because I'm so passionate..I have Scorpio tendencies..
If I were you, i'd just jump in. Coz adventure!
But I mean. Cancers are .... Well. They are uh...
#secret 😆
They are what—? Lol
It's a code for you to go faster! 😉
Lay it out...please ?What are they?
I'm going to go faster...yep! ? But what are you trying to tell me.. just lay it out there!
Of course not nor will I be able to. After all he's an individual, right?
What's the point of me telling you?
It must come from your own radar, come in contact one-on-one directly to him. Because you're the one who is dealing with him.
I was just trying to help. The more weight must come from you. I trust you know that. 🙂
Okay basically you are saying he is a man waiting to be taken..ok good. I'm ready to tie him up and make him mine he he he jk.
I just wanted to hear your take on things. I love different perspectives 🙂) I appreciate your input ..thank you..
🙂
Go Libra! ?
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Lol 🙂 ??
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I thought it was said that it's best not to start anything right now due to venus in retrograde...Something about relationships won't last during this time?
When is it over? That is why it's strange that these bachelors are showing up. I'm keeping it very light.
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I don't think it's complete until May sometime. Or perhaps the worst of it is over after April 18th? There's another thread (several) on this topic, posted.
I'm laying low and refuse to entertain the idea of meeting someone right now. Just taking time out for myself, self-healing, etc...
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There must be one of them you have stronger feelings for... the one you already miss after you part and can picture meeting up anytime anywhere
No...I'm really trying to keep emotions out and look at it logicall..the cancer has me the most interested though..
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Yay! Better than being equally interested in all of them ? I know Venus retro is a tricky period but better invest more time in getting to know the Cancer and don't send positive signals to the other guys...
I have a friend that I seem to only get along with during retrogrades, saw a few signs today that they're a liar (for no reason) gonna make it easier to slide off towards the end of the retrogradeeeee
Besides that a lot of weird... stuff happening on the back end w/ the cancer guy situation :/
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There must be one of them you have stronger feelings for... the one you already miss after you part and can picture meeting up anytime anywhere
No...I'm really trying to keep emotions out and look at it logicall..the cancer has me the most interested though..
Yay! Better than being equally interested in all of them ? I know Venus retro is a tricky period but better invest more time in getting to know the Cancer and don't send positive signals to the other guys...
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Yes!! Agreed !! ?
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I have a friend that I seem to only get along with during retrogrades, saw a few signs today that they're a liar (for no reason) gonna make it easier to slide off towards the end of the retrogradeeeeeBesides that a lot of weird... stuff happening on the back end w/ the cancer guy situation :/
Do you mean this has been going on with a Cancerman your dating?
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I thought it was said that it's best not to start anything right now due to venus in retrograde...Something about relationships won't last during this time?
When is it over? That is why it's strange that these bachelors are showing up. I'm keeping it very light.
I don't think it's complete until May sometime. Or perhaps the worst of it is over after April 18th? There's another thread (several) on this topic, posted.
I'm laying low and refuse to entertain the idea of meeting someone right now. Just taking time out for myself, self-healing, etc...
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That's probably a good idea for you then...I'm not worried about Retrograde too much, because after all I am single. I'm doing the same healing relaxing focusing on me, so far the cancer man is the one that compliments that. The others are so intense such an urgency— I'm like just chill...
I want to live my life simply in peace. I just came back from yoga lol
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I thought it was said that it's best not to start anything right now due to venus in retrograde...Something about relationships won't last during this time?
When is it over? That is why it's strange that these bachelors are showing up. I'm keeping it very light.
I don't think it's complete until May sometime. Or perhaps the worst of it is over after April 18th? There's another thread (several) on this topic, posted.
I'm laying low and refuse to entertain the idea of meeting someone right now. Just taking time out for myself, self-healing, etc...
That's probably a good idea for you then...I'm not worried about Retrograde too much, because after all I am single. I'm doing the same healing relaxing focusing on me, so far the cancer man is the one that compliments that. The others are so intense such an urgency— I'm like just chill...
I want to live my life simply in peace. I just came back from yoga lol
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Single here too. Getting ready to go out and shoot some pool.
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I'm having the opposite issue. Usually I have guys flocking to me but seems I'm going through a dry spell. Not worried about it tho, it gives me time to myself and I've been having fun. I am sad about one dissapearance. One of the guys has totally gone MIA. Part of me knows it's for the best but my Leo ego is pouting. Lol
Aww sorry about the dissappearance...I've gone through many dry spells..it is a good time to reflect and think about what you want. Ive been single and dating for almost a full year, I'm narrowing it down to a Cancer I believe we are a perfect match. Except I'm looking for long term, I wonder if that's what he wants too I guess with more conversation and meetings I'll find out. Plus cancers tend to disappear too. I dated one, it was challenging at times but we had so much passion and he was a perfect man to me. Now this cancer seems even more perfect...we will see..
Cancers dissapear? I've never had that issue with them. I know a tone of cancers. They are usually very clingy.
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Yeah I haven't either lol, I'm just stating what I've read here...
venus retrograde was bad earlier in the week but i seem to have a better grip on things now, I actually feel pretty good today . actually it's the opposite, 5 guys were talking to me and want to take me out.
I messaged them, none of them responded :0
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Is there anybody else going through this right now? There are 4 men that are flocking to me right now...one is the Scorpio, one is the cancer another one is the Scorpio and one is an Aquarius. They all are very eligible bachelors, that I think that I can have a very good relationship with. And they're all coming to me right at the same time and I just don't know what to do . They are all very nice, very attractive, have good careers, are difference in many ways that I like. And I just don't know what to do, I don't want to break anybody's heart. And I'm just curious if anyone else is experiencing this right now in Venus Retrograde?Looking for advice, suggestions and anything you want to share 🙂
You have to remember men play they are all good but the bottom line is a lot of them just want to sleep with you. What are you looking for... and it it was one to have a real future you may try to make sure they are friends... first and so on... that is the funny thing many men will not actually be your friend with out the prospect of banging you. So in reality women have not realized that many men are basically saying your are not worth be a friend with out the prospect of sleeping with you. If you can't know them on the friend level first what does that say about you.
I would also remember that libras are the signs known for having crushes with more then one person... so much they can't decide and then they often just shoot themselves in the foot.
You are also only judging them about and what you know about them which is not as important as how they treat you consistently over time. Honestly Mercury retro is coming up... so you have to remember it is also not the best time to enter a relationship. It maybe better to actually tell them it is not that you would not not be interested but you want to know them with out being pressured or forced into a relationship.
Piscesmoon
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Posted by Spotlessmind
I have a friend that I seem to only get along with during retrogrades, saw a few signs today that they're a liar (for no reason) gonna make it easier to slide off towards the end of the retrogradeeeeeBesides that a lot of weird... stuff happening on the back end w/ the cancer guy situation :/
Do you mean this has been going on with a Cancerman your dating?
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The friend thats being a liar is a Gem
Additionally, weird stuff has been happening with the Cancer guy that I WAS dating, haven't spoken to him in a while
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Posted by Librajean
Is there anybody else going through this right now? There are 4 men that are flocking to me right now...one is the Scorpio, one is the cancer another one is the Scorpio and one is an Aquarius. They all are very eligible bachelors, that I think that I can have a very good relationship with. And they're all coming to me right at the same time and I just don't know what to do . They are all very nice, very attractive, have good careers, are difference in many ways that I like. And I just don't know what to do, I don't want to break anybody's heart. And I'm just curious if anyone else is experiencing this right now in Venus Retrograde?Looking for advice, suggestions and anything you want to share 🙂
You have to remember men play they are all good but the bottom line is a lot of them just want to sleep with you. What are you looking for... and it it was one to have a real future you may try to make sure they are friends... first and so on... that is the funny thing many men will not actually be your friend with out the prospect of banging you. So in reality women have not realized that many men are basically saying your are not worth be a friend with out the prospect of sleeping with you. If you can't know them on the friend level first what does that say about you.
I would also remember that libras are the signs known for having crushes with more then one person... so much they can't decide and then they often just shoot themselves in the foot.
You are also only judging them about and what you know about them which is not as important as how they treat you consistently over time. Honestly Mercury retro is coming up... so you have to remember it is also not the best time to enter a relationship. It maybe better to actually tell them it is not that you would not not be interested but you want to know them with out being pressured or forced into a relationship.
Piscesmoon
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Oh yes I know, I've been around the block a few times..
With all of the Retrogrades going on I should single then for how long? I try not to take it too seriously and affect my life too much I just keep it in the back of my help and it helps me understand things as they happen. There will always be another Retrograde...
Thank you for your input..had an interesting conversation with my Cancer guy last night boy was he being feisty!! Moody...we are getting together today..we will see..
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Are you a trans?
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Not going to answer me? Chicken...lol
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I'm having the opposite issue. Usually I have guys flocking to me but seems I'm going through a dry spell. Not worried about it tho, it gives me time to myself and I've been having fun. I am sad about one dissapearance. One of the guys has totally gone MIA. Part of me knows it's for the best but my Leo ego is pouting. Lol
Aww sorry about the dissappearance...I've gone through many dry spells..it is a good time to reflect and think about what you want. Ive been single and dating for almost a full year, I'm narrowing it down to a Cancer I believe we are a perfect match. Except I'm looking for long term, I wonder if that's what he wants too I guess with more conversation and meetings I'll find out. Plus cancers tend to disappear too. I dated one, it was challenging at times but we had so much passion and he was a perfect man to me. Now this cancer seems even more perfect...we will see..
Cancers dissapear? I've never had that issue with them. I know a tone of cancers. They are usually very clingy.
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Have u had the experience of them being very fiesty when feeling insecure? We are getting together tomorrow and he has been working on his house that he just bought and is feeling insecure about his appearance..was being a reall stinker last night. I just laughed it off...
I even told him I'm a really nice person you should be nice to me, he said oh yeah right. I laughed...but thought huh?? I'm just writing it off to him being tired and cranky. I think he needs a little love in his life as I do..
We'll see...
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I'm having the opposite issue. Usually I have guys flocking to me but seems I'm going through a dry spell. Not worried about it tho, it gives me time to myself and I've been having fun. I am sad about one dissapearance. One of the guys has totally gone MIA. Part of me knows it's for the best but my Leo ego is pouting. Lol
Aww sorry about the dissappearance...I've gone through many dry spells..it is a good time to reflect and think about what you want. Ive been single and dating for almost a full year, I'm narrowing it down to a Cancer I believe we are a perfect match. Except I'm looking for long term, I wonder if that's what he wants too I guess with more conversation and meetings I'll find out. Plus cancers tend to disappear too. I dated one, it was challenging at times but we had so much passion and he was a perfect man to me. Now this cancer seems even more perfect...we will see..
Cancers dissapear? I've never had that issue with them. I know a tone of cancers. They are usually very clingy.
Have u had the experience of them being very fiesty when feeling insecure? We are getting together tomorrow and he has been working on his house that he just bought and is feeling insecure about his appearance..was being a reall stinker last night. I just laughed it off...
I even told him I'm a really nice person you should be nice to me, he said oh yeah right. I laughed...but thought huh?? I'm just writing it off to him being tired and cranky. I think he needs a little love in his life as I do..
We'll see...
Fiesty is a nice word for it. When they are insecure they can be downright miserable to be around. Pretty much what ruined my marriage. I couldn't stand him being so insecure and depressing all the time. Therapy didn't help. It is exhausting emotionally for the other person. I find the male cancers are more like this than the females. Females are a different creature all together. Both can have a harsh tongues tho.
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I'm preparing myself for him being an ass until I give him the reassurance I find him attractive...
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Is there anybody else going through this right now? There are 4 men that are flocking to me right now...one is the Scorpio, one is the cancer another one is the Scorpio and one is an Aquarius. They all are very eligible bachelors, that I think that I can have a very good relationship with. And they're all coming to me right at the same time and I just don't know what to do . They are all very nice, very attractive, have good careers, are difference in many ways that I like. And I just don't know what to do, I don't want to break anybody's heart. And I'm just curious if anyone else is experiencing this right now in Venus Retrograde?
Looking for advice, suggestions and anything you want to share 🙂