Negativity!!!

Geez, why do I let people push my buttons!?? I really hate that about myself!! I was in a great mood and one little thing changed that! I need to stop letting things bother me so easily. I am way, way too sensitive!

I use to be alot more jealous too. I have curbed that alot, but still find it creeping back occassionaly, but it does let me know that the person I am having these feelings over is a serious matter in my life, or I wouldn't even care. I think it is a fear of losing something that I love.

152, I have that exact same problem of letting little things people say or do get to me way to much. I just wanted you to know you're not alone! : )

phoenix

Thanks! Phoenix, I also hate going to bed upset! I don't do well when someone ignores me, especially when it is obvious! I guess that just makes me a demanding person doesn't it?

Oh hey, I feel ya there 152...in fact I would almost rather someone hate me than ignore me! No, you're not demanding (...but if the person who is ignoring you is who I *think* it is, maybe it's like really late since he's in another country and he'll reply tomorrow? Our tomorrow, that is)

lol : )

"(...but if the person who is ignoring you is who I *think* it is, maybe it's like really late since he's in another country and he'll reply tomorrow? Our tomorrow, that is)"

What———??!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! who is this person from another country that I am waiting to hear from LOL! Lord, I was confused before and now ? Ok, start splainin Lucy!

When I said I hated being ignored, it was about giving advice and then being ignored. That is the only thing I meant! What are you talking about!LOL

No, I got plenty of attention from the one I wait to hear from! That is until I ran my mouth about something and now I get what I asked for!

hahahahahahahahahahahah, oh my holy goodness, that was funny!! Wow talking over a computer is great and all but look what happens sometimes! LOL.

Okay, yes I got ya on the being ignored thing, but where I got it wrong was when I thought that you were talking about hating to be ignored in reference to a certain someone you and I were discussing in a previous post...someone you used to get along with on the boards but now you're having trouble with. Get my drift? If not, we will just drop it because it isn't important since I was wrong about who you were upset with for ignoring you! lol, wow, my bad and sorry about all the crazy confusion darlin'...

phoenix : )

What happened that pushed your buttons? I'm nosy.

People look for the "soft" spot, "weakest point" in a person and use it against them. The person that hurt you knows how to "get to you" so to speak. and your love for them must be extremely strong to allow it to happen to you. Just let them know how you feel about it AT THAT MOMENT. Don't wait it out or ponder and keep it to yourself because it will accumulate to the point of you bursting out EVERYTHING and they won't know what hit them.

Don't feel bad about being way too sensitive because that is a excellent trait to possess. It makes you humble, down-to-earth, and loving.

If this bothers you so maybe you can borrow my backbone because at times I think I have too much of it..🙂

ML

"The person that hurt you knows how to "get to you" so to speak. and your love for them must be extremely strong to allow it to happen to you."

Yes! He really has a hold on me! I love him and I want to marry him!

at the moment I would be satisfied if he let me know he loved me too! I don't feel the need to rush into anything, but I would like to know where I stand!

...and I do feel a little anxious most of the time because I don't know! I'm always wondering how many other women he has feeling the same way I do! This is always on my mind, and it is very distracting! I'm usually either high as a kite or off somewhere in tears! Right now I am very happy, I will try real hard to stay here.