Saturn Conjunct Venus experiences?

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I have a pisces venus conjunct my saturn in pisces and I struggle with some of the things like trouble with expressing my feelings, repressing my feelings and not even knowing how I feel sometimes or why I feel that way. I guess to not feel hurt I've always kind of just tried to numb myself and not feel anything my entire life. I'm also afraid of feeling, like I'm scared of liking someone too much or getting too obsessed with them. I'm also a scorpio moon so it's not healthy to suppress my feelings

I've always experienced this but I think this aspect might explain the reason for it.

Anyone else have this aspect or have similar experiences?

If so, please give any advice on how to not be afraid of feeling and experiences. I feel like this is an obstacle for me in relationships because I've never been in a serious relationship before but yet I'm afraid of what it holds.
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I have a pisces venus conjunct my saturn in pisces and I struggle with some of the things like trouble with expressing my feelings, repressing my feelings and not even knowing how I feel sometimes or why I feel that way. I guess to not feel hurt I've always kind of just tried to numb myself and not feel anything my entire life. I'm also afraid of feeling, like I'm scared of liking someone too much or getting too obsessed with them. I'm also a scorpio moon so it's not healthy to suppress my feelings

I've always experienced this but I think this aspect might explain the reason for it.

Anyone else have this aspect or have similar experiences?

If so, please give any advice on how to not be afraid of feeling and experiences. I feel like this is an obstacle for me in relationships because I've never been in a serious relationship before but yet I'm afraid of what it holds.

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I've known sb with this. Idk if is result of this aspect, but love was taken seriously and this person was very private, too much. To open up was extremely difficult, which lead to misunderstandings, I think the key is meeting another person with water placement (moon and/or Venus) with some Saturn positive aspects maybe, so that you can make something stable grow with sb who can understand you, and then be open to your partner.

Saturn aspects point out late bloomers, so is quite normal I think, don't worry. With time love will come.
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I have it. It's more about expressing love and feeling like you aren't worthy of love. You have to learn to love yourself ❤️

http://hniizato.com/saturn-venus-conjunction-square-opposition/
Yeah, I'm definitely work on some of the things mentioned in the article. It's hard sometimes though ?
I'll tell you one thing though, we age backwards ?
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That's true, this person has more planets conj. Saturn and looks very young; I have many Saturn squares and the same. We may find more difficult loving ourselves but damn, we have reasons to do it.😏
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I have it. It's more about expressing love and feeling like you aren't worthy of love. You have to learn to love yourself ❤️

http://hniizato.com/saturn-venus-conjunction-square-opposition/
Yeah, I'm definitely work on some of the things mentioned in the article. It's hard sometimes though ?
I'll tell you one thing though, we age backwards ?
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What do you mean by that? Like we get less mature as we grow older? I'm not really sure about this yet since I'm still pretty young. It's also funny cause I'm a capricorn and capricorns supposedly are more mature than their peers when they're young but become more fun and let loose when they're older lol.
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I have a pisces venus conjunct my saturn in pisces and I struggle with some of the things like trouble with expressing my feelings, repressing my feelings and not even knowing how I feel sometimes or why I feel that way. I guess to not feel hurt I've always kind of just tried to numb myself and not feel anything my entire life. I'm also afraid of feeling, like I'm scared of liking someone too much or getting too obsessed with them. I'm also a scorpio moon so it's not healthy to suppress my feelings

I've always experienced this but I think this aspect might explain the reason for it.

Anyone else have this aspect or have similar experiences?

If so, please give any advice on how to not be afraid of feeling and experiences. I feel like this is an obstacle for me in relationships because I've never been in a serious relationship before but yet I'm afraid of what it holds.

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I've known sb with this. Idk if is result of this aspect, but love was taken seriously and this person was very private, too much. To open up was extremely difficult, which lead to misunderstandings, I think the key is meeting another person with water placement (moon and/or Venus) with some Saturn positive aspects maybe, so that you can make something stable grow with sb who can understand you, and then be open to your partner.

Saturn aspects point out late bloomers, so is quite normal I think, don't worry. With time love will come.

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I do take love seriously...I'm a romantic at heart with high ideals and expectations of how a romantic relationship should feel like and be. I also don't just let anyone into my inner world, who I really am and my true thoughts/opinions. I think I do need to meet someone who will like me enough for me and who's patient enough to stay long enough to allow me to really open up.. Recently I've just been hit with a fear of ending up alone and not meeting the right person for me lol.

Also, what do you mean by Saturn positive aspects? Like someone who has anything but a conjunction/square/opposition?
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Tomas Berdych is a Venus conj Saturn, l noticed this placement years ago, he's a very reserved, but good looking guy. He has a beautiful model for a gf, and he got an endorsement with a fashion brand...it's a very powerful association for venus, and it works a lot better than Mars. I see it as a boosted version of Libra, l wouldnt mind a bit of that.
Trust me, you don't want it ? There's a lot more hidden features that come with the aspect that people don't see unless the person tells you about it. One of the outer features is maturity and responsibility though
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I have it. It's more about expressing love and feeling like you aren't worthy of love. You have to learn to love yourself ❤️

http://hniizato.com/saturn-venus-conjunction-square-opposition/
Yeah, I'm definitely work on some of the things mentioned in the article. It's hard sometimes though ?
I'll tell you one thing though, we age backwards ?
What do you mean by that? Like we get less mature as we grow older? I'm not really sure about this yet since I'm still pretty young. It's also funny cause I'm a capricorn and capricorns supposedly are more mature than their peers when they're young but become more fun and let loose when they're older lol.
I mean we look younger as we get older. Beauty comes with time
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Ohh, I guess I'll see about that haha
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Well, I have Venus square Saturn and I read it in terms of relationship. It's more like 'work in progress' sort of thing. Don't consider it as a bad aspect at all (there are none tbh) but it needs proper attention. Instead of suppressing your feelings, how about you put yourself out there and be more expressive about how you feel? You may feel vulnerable but that's something you gotta overcome. Take all the time you need but don't let go any opportunity only to regret later that you could've but couldn't coz you failed to overcome your OWN feelings/insecurities.

You're not alone. We all gotta face it.
Thanks 🙂 It's definitely always a work in progress. I feel like I've already let go off some opportunities because I was insecure, afraid, and didn't know what to do. I guess I got to work on not doing that anymore.
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I have a pisces venus conjunct my saturn in pisces and I struggle with some of the things like trouble with expressing my feelings, repressing my feelings and not even knowing how I feel sometimes or why I feel that way. I guess to not feel hurt I've always kind of just tried to numb myself and not feel anything my entire life. I'm also afraid of feeling, like I'm scared of liking someone too much or getting too obsessed with them. I'm also a scorpio moon so it's not healthy to suppress my feelings

I've always experienced this but I think this aspect might explain the reason for it.

Anyone else have this aspect or have similar experiences?

If so, please give any advice on how to not be afraid of feeling and experiences. I feel like this is an obstacle for me in relationships because I've never been in a serious relationship before but yet I'm afraid of what it holds.

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I've known sb with this. Idk if is result of this aspect, but love was taken seriously and this person was very private, too much. To open up was extremely difficult, which lead to misunderstandings, I think the key is meeting another person with water placement (moon and/or Venus) with some Saturn positive aspects maybe, so that you can make something stable grow with sb who can understand you, and then be open to your partner.

Saturn aspects point out late bloomers, so is quite normal I think, don't worry. With time love will come.


I do take love seriously...I'm a romantic at heart with high ideals and expectations of how a romantic relationship should feel like and be. I also don't just let anyone into my inner world, who I really am and my true thoughts/opinions. I think I do need to meet someone who will like me enough for me and who's patient enough to stay long enough to allow me to really open up.. Recently I've just been hit with a fear of ending up alone and not meeting the right person for me lol.

Also, what do you mean by Saturn positive aspects? Like someone who has anything but a conjunction/square/opposition?

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Yes, I also noticed this person knows life is not a fairytale, but still holds onto dreams. I see both positive and negative traits of Pisces and Saturn. Yes, patience is very important but sometimes this "closure" leads to doubts. The key is finding sb who can understand and support you, is better to be alone than with sb who doesn't benefit you.

Yes, softer aspects, which supposedly bring "good" saturnian qualities, at least, less conflict.