Scorpio Venus: Do we love the short lived??

Ok.. So this is a morbid question but do you believe that having a Scorpio Venus could lead to love and death being linked? Or falling in love with those who will die soon?
Several of those who I've fallen in love with have later died young, tragic deaths. I've also got a knack for adopting rescue pets who have short lives (due to illnesses that they were born with that I don't know about) and even finding injured animals right before they die (this one REALLY starts to feel not only very depressing but almost paranormal. My fianc? has pointed out that whenever there's an animal tragedy, I seem to find it.)
Is it a curse or a blessing if you seem to be the one to usher those to the other side? Do you think there's a venus scorpio link?
I also have premature ovarian failure (meaning no babies for me). Which seems like a love and death connection as well.
Have you or someone you've known had this dark shadow?

Sun-Sagittarius
Moon-Aquarius
Rising-Cancer
Venus-Scorpio
Mars-Capricorn

Not loving them to death! ahahahah... Naw.. I just mean the possibility that we're somehow drawn to those who are going to cross over soon. Thanks for the response.. funny stuff 😉