This is the magic ingredient

A lot of people think the Sun and Moon is the most important consideration in relationships. I would like to set the record straight here.
The trine aspects definitely makes it easier to connect and there is more of an empathic understanding, however the key to attraction is Venus and Mars. Your Venus has to be positive or understanding to his/her Mars and your Mars with his/her Venus.
We hear of many couples that should not in essence get on, but do and end up very happy for many years. House placements is just as important- 5th and 7th houses, as well as the 8th to a certain degree. The 4th house to have a basic idea how both feel about family and kids for example.

In a nutshell, get your Venus and Mars checked. That is where the love, the sex, the marriage, the compatibility and the essence of your connection is based.
My two cents. 🙂

ok how is this:

Mine:
Mars - Pisces
Venus - Gemini

His:
Mars - Pisces
Venus - Aries

I'm getting so much info and can't process it all lol

will do. i'm sure i'm going about this all wrong. trying to pick up bits n pieces, liek trying to understand the ocean 1 grain of sand at a time. UGH frustrating.

i'm gemini, i don't comprehend small doses of anything.. cept drama :-p

Chocolatte' i like other things that keep my blood pumping... so drama not needed or welcome here lol

Man, this has got to be like the 374872837585th thread on Mars/Venus.

ME:
Mars- Aries
Venus- Virgo

HIM:
Mars-Leo
Venus-Cancer

I'd love it if you could tell me what you think of this match up!

Hi everyone,
Please look at the link below. I am going on the assumption here that you are all able to figure out whether your two signs conjunct, forms a trine, oppose one another or is a square. This should be able to give a very basic idea of the energy your love planets create, as well as some of the challenges.
http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/venusmarsaspects.html