This Is Why You’re Afraid Of Love....

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Posted by Gobby

Posted by LostinmyMind11

Posted by Gobby

Bullshit! It's because most people are fucked-up and, in some way, and unpredictable (especially in the long-term). That's enough to put anyone off committing...



But is that really how you feel? 😜

Not how I feel but the sad reality. My rose tinted glasses fell off, and smashed into pieces, years ago...

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I feel you on that!
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This part is very true for me!

You’re eternal singledom not only stems from your fear of the humdrum but because you feel like you have to fiercely guard your freedom. You’re innately restless and nomadic, scared to be in one place for too long. You can’t stand still, and you’ve ran before when you’ve felt yourself getting too close to another person. Your commitment issues aren’t so much a fear of commitment as they are that you associate commitment with being trapped in monotony. You’re afraid love only means you will be slowed down by someone else and you don’t want to sacrifice the things you consider most dear. To have to give up traveling, meeting new people, and having new experiences, would mean to have to give up the life you love.

You’re afraid of love because you don’t want another person to feel like the old ball and chain. The truth is, you’re aware that if anyone has anything to fear it’s your significant other, not the other way around. They have to put up with you because you won’t be the one doing the tolerating. The only right way is your way. You need someone who’ll let you thrive and shine, and will let you do all those things you want, and who will be along for the ride.

While you have a reputation for being a player when it comes to love you’re extremely devoted