Venus in virgo Stubborn logical mindset

been seeing a venus un virgo man for 7 months and he has lots of personal issues in his life (family and money)

we also in different countries (new york vs toronto)

he says its unrealistic for us to workout and wants me as a friend. yet admits to having feelings for me, while he was even saying that. he had tears in his eyes.

he says he doesnt want us to end up hurting eachother lol...

anyways i tried to convince him its realistic and it can work but it was an epic fail and backfired. his sooo stubborn.

So i decided to focus on myself (Career) and told him timing is everything and he should do the same for now, and agreed to being friends (yet we flirt and i make him turn red and blush when we are in person) eyes never lie lol.

you cant just unlove me while im around lol. and he does get jealous when he thinks im talking to someone els....he blows up my phone asking what im doing, and starts pretending he wants to talk about weird stuff lol

i know venus in virgo and slow and scared of getting hurt.



anyways my question is;

is it possible for him to change his mind after time of being close friends and letting me in his shell...i mean he stalks me on social media to see what i am doing, and says he loves me llol and doesnt want me to walk away and wants me in his life and forced me to be his friend then complains why i dont text him as i did like before LOL

Posted by Miaou
He says one thing but does another, where does that leave you? Hoping.

It's incredibly selfish and puts your love life on pause because you obviously have feelings for him

Virgo venus or not...believe what he said:

''he says its unrealistic for us to workout and wants me as a friend.''

Of course it's possible he'll change his mind, will he though?

Anything is possible - astrology or not.

i totally agree with what you said, its why i agreed about being friends. atleast his in my life and that can lead to something more.

i decided to put my love life till end of the year on hold anyways to focus on my career. so its not that bad lol. but after dec i'll be keeping my options opens.

i think his really scared. his a gay guy in a very religious Muslim family. no one knows about him but me, not even one of his friends. i cant imagin what type of life that is....

i guess time will reveal everything

Posted by Miaou

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Posted by Miaou
He says one thing but does another, where does that leave you? Hoping.

It's incredibly selfish and puts your love life on pause because you obviously have feelings for him

Virgo venus or not...believe what he said:

''he says its unrealistic for us to workout and wants me as a friend.''

Of course it's possible he'll change his mind, will he though?

Anything is possible - astrology or not.

i think his really scared. his a gay guy in a very religious Muslim family. no one knows about him but me, not even one of his friends. i cant imagin what type of life that is....

i guess time will reveal everything

Okay...so it's not just the distance that's an obstacle -

That's quite different and complicates things because

...will he ever have the courage to live life as his true self?

I agree, it must be incredibly difficult.

& I understand you're putting your love life on hold anyway ..because of your career but watch out for your own feelings and your own heart.

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dont worry i already got really hurt, cant get any worse.

i guess i made peace with it and gave myself closur and now im feeling better.

i settled for friends because i want him in life and not expecting or waiting on him to change his mind. i was just curious if he will (depending on venus sign)

i told him if he everr wants to give us a real try, im down for it.