Want to know/learn more about libra man character

How can/will I know if he has truly fallen inlove with me... can someone please (share) tell me that - what signs to look for (act when is, or falls inlove)? And what kind of women they usually like/prefer and go after + how they want the realationship to be/contain...? What is the maximum turn'on for you guys - can you be attracted to a sort of "playful" type of women...?

Libras love cultural diversity, spontaneity, picnics with puppies in the park, icecream on a hot day, fine dining at classy restaurants, warm 'n fuzzy hugs, snuggles, dances in the Rio's streets, exciting and unusual sex in fairytale places with candles, wooden spice scents, rose petals and sensual, (perhaps even exotic) mood music. We love new and exciting changes in fashion, and most of all--note-- we love to play the field- (Try to keep his attention on you, because libras love everything that's pretty)=) Challenge him.

We highly believe in chivalry, and will romance you to a fault, but only if we are persuing you. Watch for the compliments that he will pour out for you, and the doors that will be opened for you. If he is in love with you, he will spend endless amounts of time searching for loving, warm, and special somethings to give to you as heartfelt, soulful gifts. Dinner and dancing is a must for a libra, and with this, expect the unexpected. We never like doing the same things for long. He will be sure keep all of your rendevous romantic and tasteful for you, because for him- relationships are special and meaningful.

As for your question- Are libras playful? Absolutely!!! ... we LUV playful mates equally as much. Watch for the magic he will create all only just for you- if you are what he wants, and you are good to him, he will be only yours.

You'll have a blast with him. He will want to provide for you, everything that your heart so desires... just so that you have the opportunity to experience life the way that it should be experienced... as a fairytale princess.

One word of advice--- keep it light. Libras like to sometimes pick up more things than can fit into their arms at once, so they end up skillfully juggling things in order to lovingly meet the needs of each. We're sometimes a little stressed, and always, always overbooked, but if you can keep it light, he will be sure to please you beyond your wildest dreams...

funny..my ex libra wasnt like that.. he played with my emotions and lied bout everything. I guess theres something wrong with him..

My ex was a Libra and he wasn't actually very romantic in action although he liked the idea of it. He wanted life to be kind of magical and lovely and passionate and he disapproved highly of anything that didn't symbolise that. He got depressed and unhappy whenever things got a bit dull. This unhappiness also brought out a nasty side which you would never have known was there if you had never crossed him. If you were'nt being what he wanted and he thought he could somehow make you be by telling you what was wrong with you. And it wasn't just me he did it to, anyone in his immediate environment that upset his ideal existance of harmony and perfection would cop it too. So I guess if you don't get a depressive one life with them would be pretty amazing and you could learn how to experience it in a colourful and interesting way.

And oh yeah if you want specific advice, be mysteriously sexy or intriguing even if it is only for him. eg Go out for dinner at a fancy resturant and then as he is dropping you off let him know you were not wearing underwear. He will think you are daring and raunchy. Always look good but right for the occasion and never let him know if you just want to sit around eating chocolate and watching crappy TV. Say you spend your spare time doing something creative. Suddenly invite him on trips to amazing or exciting places. Of course if you are not like that naturally don't try to hard or you will lose yourself. If you have to change to please someone they are not your true love and it will fall apart when the reality shines through.

I'm sorry to hear about your relationships above. We really aren't brutes in the area of love. We are really good people who would love the opprotunity to provide a world of euphoria for our lovers. It could be that you didn't love the right Libras, or that Libra is just not right for you. I really don't want to insult you, or to bring ill thought, but after reading the above comments, I do feel the need to tell you that Libran men and women alike can be sugary sweet with lovers, but they can also be just as apathetic about a lover as they are about the crust on the bottom of their shoes. This is why I said that magic will happen for you, if the Libra is in love with YOU. If he/ she senses that he/ she is not thrillling you, or is not thrilled by you, (usually because you are not as receptive to pleasurable gestures as they'd hoped you would be), then you could vey well experience our cold side. It is only our defense mechanism for protecting our hearts. The same is true, if the Libra is losing interest in the relationship because of emotional unfulfillment, or if he/ she was not interested in the relationship from the beginning, you will again soon see our defense mechanism- a cold, hard exterior--- I'm sorry to say that we're not going to be as sweet after having shown you that side of us, beacuse we will not be able to trust you. Relationships are very important to Libras. We love everyone, but we romance only the special ones. You must have experienced some part of this at some point in your relationship. You see, we will not make magic for just anyone, because we spend exhausting amounts of time and energy not only making sure that our s*** works, but also trying to make it as light, wonderful, romantic and fun as possible. The Libra male and female alike will want to be very generous with their affections (mind, body and soul), if they think that perfection can be achieved with a lover. It may be that the Libras in question were probably ready to pour out their love for you, but were not satisfied after testing you to see if you were receptive to their Libran love. It clearly did not work in the Libran's eyes--maybe the case was that the timing was all wrong-- but the end result is always the same when that happens. We'll want out. Libras will not sacrifice their hearts for lovers that will cause them pain, because of our very sensitive nature prevents us from keeping our sanity if we stay. If a Libra sees that his/her emotional well- being is in danger of being compromised, then he/ she will close up his/ her emotions to the lover completely. After that, there is no hope for the lover, we will never trust them fully again- no matter what happens. There will always be that door of escape that will be propped open, ready for our escape in our minds- usually we try to fix whatever is wrong before that happens, but if it doesn't we work, well... we want to leave and we will, (even if only mentally and emotionally for a while before physically...) On the flip side, if the lover does not pose a threat to our emotional well- being, then we will show them the maximum beauty of love, and we will stop at nothing to make our lovers happy. I hope that your relationship did not scare you away from us for ever- maybe someone else will make you happy. Our lovers' happiness means alot to us, and we measure ourselves with the same severity as we measure our lovers. We do really need our scales to stay balanced when we commit to love. We are super sensitive to hurt. If you have experienced stalemate with your libra, talk to them about it. If you want your relationship, it may not be too late to save it. Otherwise, your Libra's heart will turn to stone for you. You must consider your Libra's feelings-- and in turn, your Libra will be more than happy to provide you with all the suppport, emotional comfort and the pleasures that life can give. You'll see that if you just tried. We are very receptive to our lover's needs even before ou

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how do you know if they love you? you have to become a telepath. The feeling tone, the dilation of the pupils the eyes, the movement of the hands, the intangible communication of an emotional fact that- if he faced it would embarrass him immensely. BE PATIENT .Nobody blushes like a air sign. If your in love with one of these impossible charmers and your sure its meant to be, go on and propose what ever, up to and including marriage, he'll be glad you took the intiative, but watch out for his perverse streak that if it all goes wrong, that you were the one who made all the decisions or your never hear the end of it.

Just to clarify- the messages by 216.164 were written by me Libra Female... I should have signed this at the end of the posts. I'm sorry Libran men.

To 195.186, I don't know what you meant by, "I am a real LIBRA man means", but if this was offensive to you please accept my apologies. =)

that should read,
I don't understand what you meant by, " I'm a real LIBRA man"

I dont know where everybody gets the idea that we librans are all 'sugary and sweet'! While many appear to be that on the outside i can tell you for one thing, i am not sugary and sweet on the inside. I am a girl who knows what she wants and how to get it (most of the time). I will stop at nothing to get what i want.
I think the cliche, "an iron fist in a velvet glove", says it all with us libran girlies.

In support of the poster who said we can be 'perverse' and cold, i agree with that. Once i am turned off i wont be turned on again. Once i go 'cold' on someone, its all over red rover.

I am also quite perverse in that i sometimes rip the rug out from underneath peoples feet just for the sake of it. I dont think im cruel, just a little perverse. I cant help it, its like if things are too unbalanced, i feel like i need to even up the score a little. You must remember that we are the only inanimate sign in the zodiac so we can be a little cold sometimes.

I know that my ultimate loyalty lies with my principles regardless of the circumstances. If someone has done the wrong thing then they've done the wrong thing regardless of who they are.

On the other hand, however, i have been known to stand out against crowds and groups of people in defence of a single person (usually a lover) i am extremely loyal to the one i love in the eyes of adversity (if it ever occurs).

Oh yeah, im a nitpicker too (in reference to one of the original posters on this thread). I am fiesty but fun.

Well, so much for sugary sweet!!! I think the guys might be different though, us girlies definately wear the pants.

Libran girls ROCK!

PS. I am a rooster too, cockadoodledoo!!!

Well no wonder you are the way you are--born in the rooster year! I wouldn't want to fight with you! I agree with you that we are the iron fist under a velvet glove but I don't agree that we're "cold". That's kinda harsh to say about Librans in general--I never once knew a cold or frigid Libran. I think we're pretty warmhearted but, however, at the same time we're not doormats either. If there's any one quality that I think we're known for, it's fairness. We want what is just and fair. I know I do. We tend to deal with many that are very unfair it seems.

(smiles)...Iron fist in a velevt glove... yup that about sums it up, I think!

I agree that we can isolate ourselves and be cantankerous when we are pushed, but we're really not that way all the time- I'm willing to step out on a limb and say, for the most part we usually just want to be pleasant, and we are, but we're not doormats.

Atleast, personally, I try to be pleasant to other people unless they have done something that made me activate my defense system... then I'm not so trusting. I may even pick apart their actions and analyse their behavioural patterns until I understand what they were trying to get across to me. In the end, if I find that I had no cause to be defensive, I drop my guard- otherwise, I'll just move away from the offender. ..And yes, Librans like others, have been known to cause a scene once or twice in defense of someone or something, but this is not our everyday behaviour. I find that fire signs usually warm up my cold nature when I'm icy, and other air signs are comforting- especially Aquarians... even if we do spend some time trying to help them understand us.=)

Thanks everybody for lots of exciting and giving advices/answers (please excuse my language).

Well, our realationship is pretty fresh and new... but, a little sad and unwanted because we have not ended our realitionships we both are stuck into yet (he's married).

He wants to be with me, but I'm so confused right now and have backed out a little bit. Longdistance makes us long for each other so much............. we both know that we are beeing immoral, but can't get out of the trap we have come into (made for our selfs). Looking forward to more replays; good and "bad" - I can take it. And I still want to know what signs to look for if he is really serious about me/this (inlove)... + what kind of women libra men usually prefer (I'm 25, he's 35). Want to add that he also have been backing out a bit lately, beacuse I said I need some space and to think things over, and he respect that... but it seems that it's VERY hard for him; after 2-6 weeks he contacts me again and tells me how much he misses me, wants to be with me... feels so CLOSE to me... and have fellings that he have never had before etc.! He can't let go of me he says, he have tried but just can't (seems he's hurting)... is this a typical libra thing, holding on so much if you think you have met the ONE, or what is he up to/doing? I have to say that I know he's not a lier, haven't been hiding anything for me - he has been honest about everything since day one... but as I said, lately he has been holding back a little bit (just like me) and know acting very cautious... guess we both are insecure about each other... think it's time for us to meet again and just talk, talk and talk... what a mess! I don't really know him, so can someone please give som more advice and what to look for/how to handle him?
Again, thanks everybody in advance.

Hey, he says he misses you. If he has called after 2-6 weeks its not just a one night stand.

As for how to act, just be yourself. I cant think of anything else to tell you (Im a libra female but ive told you what i think of libra men and how they are to their lovers).

You need to communicate with HIM. Its fine talking to us but at the end of the day, its a relationship between you and him. You need to bond physically, mentally and emotionally.

Its good that you are excercising caution, it is like an investment, i wish i had have done that in the past!!!

Call him.

Seeya,
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I have been involved with a Libran male for about seven years. He is in the military and just made Sgt.Maj. I really do not know how. He is very selfish in the bedroom, only thinks about what he wants, very selfish in his needs otherwise also. I fell in love with his soft voice and Rob Lowe's looks. He was hard working and had no bad habits, except what he needed at the moment. After all these years I finally had to let him go completely. I am a capricorn and need a hard working and a romantic man who looks after my needs for a change. No more Libra's for me.

Arent there any libra woman out there who have had a relationship with a Gemini Man cause i dont know any.And why does it seem like libra women are never attracted to gemini men.Kind of off subject.sorry.

I LOVE Gemini men! I'll take a Gem man any day....
Strangely, I don't meet enough Gemini men--I don't know why. I worked with a Gem male once and absolutely loved him--great personality and very fair in his decisions.

Me too!!! Excellent for Libra woman.

I agree. I haven't met too many Libra women (they are never single anyway lol). I think they are great though! The women that are usually attracted to me are Pisces and Leos.

I wouldnt touch a gemini if you paid me; too unpredictable! I like someone who is safe but exciting. I like the personality of gemini's but too scarey, i need to feel secure.

so libra women dont like there men unpredictable and exciting like gemini's.Then who does?
I seem to attract aries.

Thanx for the feed back and please send more!!!

Here it comes......I was married to one (May 28, 1960) and he was unpredictable, but only as far as work and not taking care of his end of the responsibilites. He was also mean, cruel, and vindictive. He ended up getting his payback. His next wife reduced him to a little boy. Pretty sad sight to see a full grown man getting yelled at in public and taking it!!! I can handle a man with unpredictable moods as long as he takes care of business. I will carry my end but not anyone else! I will,however, support someone who falls on hard times not of their own making such as, illness etc...but a strong, healthy man can work and keep a job more then 2 months!

I'm really sorry that it didn't work out for you both. It's always sad when such a sacred union like marriage is not long lived.

..And as for Gems? I've actually only dated one in my life. He was okay. I didn't have many problems with him.
We were younger, so we didn't spend lots of time together. I guess I got lucky that time.

please more.More!