What should I do with this Aries ?

Hello everyone,

I need your opinion on this one.

I'm a Libra woman and I dated this Aries Man for 3 months, he ended with me a month ago as he's moving to New York for a year. We both knew this from the start and have agreed that we both didn't want to be in a relationship as I just got out of one before I met him.

As time goes by, we talked everyday. He always texted me first even though it was random at times.

He took turns making plans and it ended up with me planning most of our dates as I had much better ideas. He enjoyed all of our dates, we both did. I think we never asked the question as we both know it couldn't go anywhere.

We has one small misunderstanding when we were dating as he was travelling to Amsterdam with his friends and before he went. We went out for this romantic dinner beside the beach. We both got really drunk over few bottles of wine. Long story short. In my head I wanted a fridge magnet and I thought I said it him.. but I didn't. When he returned home he didn't have a fridge magnet and he was clueless as to why I was confused.

He remembers everything, Including what I wore on our first date. so he was annoyed that I would think that he would forget such things. I know.. silly me ! but this became one of our things that we always laughed about. He referred to (Ross & Rachel in friends, where Rachel never forgives him). Anyway, I needed to include this in so you would get a better understanding later why.

For me, I wasn't head over heels at the start but the more time I spent with him. I realized I really like him, I didn't say anything because be both never said anything emotional. There were times I wanted say something cute but I knew both of us wouldn't be the type to say cute things.

I thought he liked me as well as I went out with his friends, he introduced me to everyone. We even joked to his friends that we weren't going out, I was okay with it. I've accepted since day one that he's going to New York so. I never gave him the impression that I wanted more. He knew.

So over 3 months period, closer to the time he ended. We both did so many things together. We laughed so much. Over one weekend, He seemed a bit off. I didn't bother him. I knew he's the type that needed space. but 2 days gone by and I didn't get any calls or texts of him. So I asked him how his weekend was.

He said, He couldn't do it anymore. He said It's nothing to do with me. He just doesn't to use anyone's time. I told him that's fine. I knew it had to end sooner or later. so I went to his place picked up few things I left behind and gave his few of his belonging that he left in my place.

He greeted with a smile like nothing happened, He then told me about his trip to Canada for a week like the way he went on was like the way we always spoke to each other. I went along with it and didn't get upset until I saw a bag with all my stuff in it.

I cried as I really did like him, I tried not to make a scene as I never expressed any loving emotions with him due to the situation we were in. He was upset that I was upset. I told him it was okay and it really was. I just really liked and I couldn't say it because I knew this was going nowhere from day one so why should I bother saying it.

For the whole we were together (Dating) We never placed any label on it. So I asked if there was anyone else and he got very offended by this and He said no, It was just me. I left his place in good terms. We hugged and said our goodbye, I joked about his upcoming trip and I thought that was the end of it.

But..

He texted me straight after as he couldn't get over me questioning him talking to someone else and he said this.

If there it was anyone it would be me but he just doesn't want any one at the moment.

I was beyond upset I saw this text, I didn't know what to say. so I didn't say anything.

He wouldn't stop texting me until I told him It was fine.

So that was it. I respected his decision. He was always honest and nice to me and that was one the main things I liked about him. I knew he liked me and I believed what he said was true. Sometimes you just have to let it go and I did.

A month later.. my best friend returned home from her holidays. She bought me a fridge magnet. We laughed so much because I told her about the story I gave this Aries Man such a hard time over it. I don't know what got into me, I sent him a picture of my best-friend holding a magnet as a joke.

He replied back straight away and we laughed about it again and made so many jokes. We talked for a bit and he told me about Canada and asked me questions about my upcoming holidays. It was like the old times, but I knew in the back of my head he ended this. So I didn't continue the conversation and left it.

Few days later, He liked my photos on Instagram and I thought about him non stop when I was out.

I texted him again a week after on a night out when I was drunk. I asked him to come over, he didn't see the message till morning time. He said he would have if he was awake. So I said I don't mind him coming over now and He did. I even told him that he doesn't have to come over. He said he wants to !!

He came over and we talked for 2 minutes and after that he couldn't keep his hands of me. He was never the type to say much when it comes to (Romantic Things) but I knew by his body language he missed me. We watch 3 movies and ate junk food like the good old times.

I had to my other friends that evening and so did he. As I was walking him out I said have a nice evening and he said you too !..

So this was yesterday and I'm waiting for him to text me 😢

I don't know what do you think ? was it just a one time thing. What should I do ?