Who is more obsessive pluto or venus in conjunctio

My venus conjunct his pluto I feel like both if us are obsessed with each other. I feel like a fish out if water if I don't see him..
But really which one is more obsessed
His pluto conjucts my pluto and my sun conjucts his sun as well as his pluto
And at last his mars conjucts my sun too
This is a painfull experience please some one explain is there attraction or obsession or is all in my head!!!

Illalupas! I am so sorry you going through this, I hope you enjoy the joys of each other love... Take it slow
I feel like he is obsessed with me, but is in controll more than me.
I am trying very hard to controll my obsession with him I don't wanna give in, but that scares me if I don't take it to the next level it might fade away..
I feel like our relationship can be like fiftey shades of grey. I will submitt to his grace and power, but I can see him becomeing more involved and obsessed I this happens.
I might not be able to run then...
But now I am hurting in my heart..

I think the Venus is more obsessive and the Pluto calls all the shots.

I'd be curious to hear the Pluto side of the story.

Posted by starlover
Pluto is! More obsessive and more controlling and poor ol Venus has the lightness taken out of her if she succumbs

Exhausting!

So how does Venus bring the lightness back after this experience?

But how did you get away to begin with? It seems possible to get away physically, but mentally is where the real difficulty lies...

It's not only venus and pluto!!
Our major planets being so close to each other, like mars and sun conjunct
Sun and sun conjuct and
Pluto and Pluto conjunct
I am wondering is he obsessed like I am? or the other planets don't play the role like pluto and venus.. Is it that whenever he sees me he show interest in a subtle way? He might not feel the same way...
I am sobbing and my heart is aching, but I feel like he feels the same way!!
I didn't know I was this crazy..