It seems like they're the biggest hypocrites on the planet and always think if you don't do it their way, that it's wrong. They're very full of themselves and seem to have a "holier than thou" attitude when it comes to doing things as well. If you make a mistake, you get berated and yelled at. If they make that same mistake later on and you call them out, they shrug it off as if it was a minor error. I honestly can't stand them. Like as long as it gets done, just let me do it my own way.
It's the "Do As I Say; Not As I Do" placement from hell ...
What I used to do is simply shove both of their hypocritical, sanctimonous faces right in their own butter. Repeatedly. That'll piss 'em off. There will be fight. Do. Not. Back. Down. But rest assured after everybody and everyone has said their piece, it'll take about 90 minutes or so before the Virgo Mooners will start acting like nothing ever happened. Don't hold it against them. That's just their way of trying to break the ice and reconcile but they're too proud and self-critical to admit it mainly because there's a small part of them that just doesn't want to appear weak, gutless, and spineless and give people the satisfaction that what was said or did to them during the argument actually hurt them -- especially if you made a very valid and credible point.
I'm a Virgo Moon and yeah I overthink and analyze far too much, but I have a Libra Sun and I know better than to openly nag/criticize others. The Libra Sun tells me to let it go, because I'll probably explode if I repressed everything.
Virgo Moon is a tough placement to have for the individual, but I've found other ones to be kind/conscientious/intelligent, but maybe I'm biased.
I feel like the Sun represents how one wants their lives to look, how they ideally want to be, in terms of ego/identity. Whereas the Moon represents the fuel or fulfillment needed to emotionally drive a person.
If you were to look at Sun/Moon combinations alone, it provides some insight into why people behave in a certain way.
So for my Libra Sun/Virgo Moon -- my Virgo Moon needs something to work on and/or analyze, and only when I get that, it helps me achieve the balance my Libra Sun craves. And when I'm not getting that, the worse side of my Libra Sun shows.