Worst Zodiac Matches

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I've seen Cancer Capricorn work well amongst the opposite signs.

Worst? Well I was born in the year of the Dog and dated a guy born yr of the Dragon. Chinese astrology said the pairing would argue all the time... in reality... that was putting it mildly. Despite our compatible western signs, Taurus/Cap, Dog/Dragon are opposites too and we couldnt see eye to eye... everything went up in flames. evvvuuuuurrrryyyyyything.

Any other Dogs try to date a Dragon?
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I am a Cancer, and was dating/getting to know a Cap. In the beginning, he was so sweet. Affectionate, smart, very straight forward on what he wants and is looking for. Had a lot going for him, then later on things got bad and went to worse. He got negative,very negative... started to lecture me like I was his child, he would call me just to rant sometimes. I stopped talking to him and when he'd get back in touch with me he'd act like he didn't know why.. things went ok. I thought we were headed back in the wrong direction, then he continued with the ranting.I really felt like how could someone who claims to care about me, say such nasty things to put me down.. again we'd stop talking. He'd say he knows I had a guy over, which I did but it wasn't my boyfriend and I don't even know how he knew cause he lives in another city. Then the last straw. He said I wrote some bad stuff about him on my myspace. I don't know how he even looked at my profile cause it's private but I never wrote anything... but I just started to notice he makes big drama about things like.. he likes it or something. He would yell at me about stupid, or very small things. When I broke it off for the last time, I had a lot held in and it came out full force like a hard blow, not like I meant it to and well it got ugly. He doesn't take responsibility for his wrong doing though and I found out later he tried to turn some of my friends on me.. overall it was a bad experience with a Cap. But I feel Cap men can be good providers, hard working ,intelligent, great debaters, loyal people. I think he was just a special case. I would take a chance with another Cap. I meant to add they go back and forth between calling you their girlfriend and their friend.
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I've seen Cancer Capricorn work well amongst the opposite signs.

Worst? Well I was born in the year of the Dog and dated a guy born yr of the Dragon. Chinese astrology said the pairing would argue all the time... in reality... that was putting it mildly. Despite our compatible western signs, Taurus/Cap, Dog/Dragon are opposites too and we couldnt see eye to eye... everything went up in flames. evvvuuuuurrrryyyyyything.

Any other Dogs try to date a Dragon?



Dog/Dragon is equivalent to Libra/Aries.
Have experiences with Dragons as well, they're worse than worse!

That said,
worst matches (those excluding sexes means both inclusive):

Cancer female/Aries male
Cancer female/ Capricorn male
Cancer/Libra
Aries/Libra
Aries/Virgo
Aries female/ Capricorn male
Gemini/ Taurus
Sag female/ Pisces male
Libra/Pisces
Aqua/ Pisces (they bring out the worst in each other)

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Shiiit I didn't mean to hide my post lol

Oh well...It had something to do with Caps I've dated or have been involved with, but I wanted to add that I forgot about my Cap crush from a few months ago lol What a friggen hottaaay! If I was single, I soo would have been up for that. He is an Aqua cusper, maybe that helps lol
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I find Cap and Aqua to be alike in some ways, it can be a good match, but Aqua may find it too boring.. and will break out of the Cap's structure..
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I'm a Cappy, Cancer rising with a Sag moon..

I've been in three long term relationships, with Aries, Pisces and Gemini. The worst was my first, the Gem. He was unfaithful, and lied, frequently. We clashed, a LOT. My Aries was all over the place emotionally, so I had a hard time dealing with that.. my Pisces was my longest relationship, that was very 50/50 for me. He could be really amazing one minute, and really mean the next. I never knew what to expect. That said, people I could have potentially dated have been Libras and Cancers. I get along swimmingly with both of these signs, but they are way too flighty for me, even though I can't help but adore them. With Libra's disappearing act, and Cancer's shells? I would go nuts.
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Posted by CapriciousCappy
I'm a Cappy, Cancer rising with a Sag moon..

I've been in three long term relationships, with Aries, Pisces and Gemini. The worst was my first, the Gem. He was unfaithful, and lied, frequently. We clashed, a LOT. My Aries was all over the place emotionally, so I had a hard time dealing with that.. my Pisces was my longest relationship, that was very 50/50 for me. He could be really amazing one minute, and really mean the next. I never knew what to expect. That said, people I could have potentially dated have been Libras and Cancers. I get along swimmingly with both of these signs, but they are way too flighty for me, even though I can't help but adore them. With Libra's disappearing act, and Cancer's shells? I would go nuts.



I think it's obvious who has the problem here. 😉

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I've seen Cancer Capricorn work well amongst the opposite signs.

Worst? Well I was born in the year of the Dog and dated a guy born yr of the Dragon. Chinese astrology said the pairing would argue all the time... in reality... that was putting it mildly. Despite our compatible western signs, Taurus/Cap, Dog/Dragon are opposites too and we couldnt see eye to eye... everything went up in flames. evvvuuuuurrrryyyyyything.

Any other Dogs try to date a Dragon?



Dog/Dragon is equivalent to Libra/Aries.
Have experiences with Dragons as well, they're worse than worse!

That said,
worst matches (those excluding sexes means both inclusive):

Cancer female/Aries male
Cancer female/ Capricorn male
Cancer/Libra
Aries/Libra
Aries/Virgo
Aries female/ Capricorn male
Gemini/ Taurus
Sag female/ Pisces male
Libra/Pisces
Aqua/ Pisces (they bring out the worst in each other)

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I was thnking Libra/Pisces...
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I've often heard Pisces/Libra aren't a great match, which rather baffled me since they seem to want a lot of the same things in a relationship... then I've run into places that state that it tends to work well for *older* relationships, after age 30 or so.. and yeah, I can see that. I'm a different person than I was in my 20s, and so is he. Libra and Pisces are both peace-loving and seek harmony, deep love, and committed relationships, so it works pretty well for me and my Libra.

That might also have something to do with my being on the Aqua-Pisces cusp, though - said to be well-suited with Libra II's because of the Aqua influence. (And in practice, that's true.) Amusingly enough, the last four girlfriends my Libra has had over the last ten years or so, one was a (crazy!) Sag... and the other THREE (including me) were all born the third week of February... the week of the Cusp of Sensitivity - though technically, one was an Aqua, and two of us were Pisces.. well Pisces-Aquas lol Like a true Libra, he stays friends with ALL of his ex's, so I know all these girls... the other Pisces girl makes me look frickin' SANE, and that's a major feat! The Aqua girl is way too detached for me to assume she's crazy. Oh, that's amusing too -- apparently, my Libra secretly likes "crazy" LOL

I've also found that over the years, since I was a teenager.. I've dated significantly more VIRGO men than any other sign. By a LONG shot! Really, it's like a deadly attraction we're powerless to resist. The breakups are generally civil (if painful) and we remain friendly. It "just didn't work out" -- so opposites attract (it's common in Astrology) but it is very difficult indeed to hold it together with your polar opposite!

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^ libra/pisces has been bad for this libra for sure.

pisces say they want the same things. but they really want to suffer. and if you don't make them suffer, they will make you suffer...and libras like to make people happy. so it can be hard to accept making someone happy by being a bitch to them.

the pisces i fell in love with, i realized right when i met him that he needed that dynamic. and i just wasn't willing to give it to him. if i'd known how bad he'd've hurt me for not giving it, i would've moved on. damn.
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^^^^^^^^^ i see more opposite pairings than anything




yeah,we pair...but do we last? I've not seen it.




I can think of one example off the top of my head, of an Aquarius/Leo pairing. They have been together for 4 years and are still going strong. They are pretty much a match made in heaven! I see it working, but yeah, it is pretty rare to see opposites together for too long. I didn't last long with any Leos I dated lol
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i love men with a strong aqua placement! their weirdness sync up so well with mine! we get each other while the rest of the world is baffled. i think opposites can work out incredibly as long as both parties are mature, stable, and their EQ is high.
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@ curious visitor

First, Pisces are whack-job insane. Most Pisces men are even more messed up than Pisces women. Must be all that feminine emotional feelings and sensitivity stuff which isn't generally considered "manly" for a guy. Stereotypical gender roles make it harder on a sweet, sensitive ("feminine") Pisces man, unless his (Libra) woman and he are both comfortable with HER being more "manly"... But also Libras are people-pleasers, like to make others happy, like Pisces do. So a Libra woman who is soft and feminine and a Pisces man who is also sensitive, both of them trying to please the other, to let the other lead where they will gladly follow.. well it's a mess. Esp in their 20s, before the Pisces or the Libra has matured, changed, evolved, worked on personal issues and weaknesses/challenges. I've found that Pisces women ("allowed" to be feminine & sensitive) and Libra men (who temper the loving nature with a bit of gentle leading - LOL, right?) work better than the other way around, but NOT at young ages!

I dated a Libra in HS. We were young, things went badly. I tried again to date one yrs later in college - the mess was worse. I felt Libras probably weren't for me, REFUSED to date another one, took yrs to even try one again. The next was "half-grown".. almost 30, changing/growing, but not QUITE there. Lots of AMAZING Libra qualities but still a young, immature Libra male in many ways (the ways that make people dislike Libras, esp the men!) I've changed SO much since my early 20s, my old self would not recognize my new self! I think it's the same for anyone of any sign when they mature. Now I'm nearing 40, VERY happy with a Libra man my age. We've both grown and changed over the years, and so are ready for a very deep, loving, harmonious relationship. It may not be the EASIEST relationship ever, but it certainly isn't my HARDEST either! LOL

Not all Pisces are martyrs; not all martyrs are Pisces. If HE wanted to "suffer" at your hands, that could have been any number of things; his Rising, his Moon, his Venus. His childhood, life style , relationships (esp with Mom), experiences. A chemical imbalance, mental problems, depression. Anything really. It may have NOTHING to do with his being Pisces. But to be perfectly honest, as a 24 yr old Libra gal - your best match generally would NOT be a 20-30 year old Pisces male! LOL ('Cuz Ian's perfect, but taken *wink*)
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Posted by sortilege85
taurus/scorpio- Mom and dad... till this day they've been married till about 50 years and still hate each other.
cancer/capricorn- grandma and grandpa married till both died while hating each other.
cancer/capricorn- a good pal from my group of friends who married his wife but still resented each others actions.
scorpio/pisces- two scorpio friends i knew had a bad experience with their girls... and since their scorpio they can't forget that shit after 20 years.

Yup, it always the cultural backround and wedlock that keep opposites together.


I can agree with the cancer/capricorn. Though they compliment each other in many ways, and there is an attraction. But, its difficult to keep it up long. The cap I dealt with was great and was also sensitive, but in the end he made me responsible for his bad childhood and was so psychotic I couldn't deal with him, not long term. Its possible to work, but you just gotta work VERY hard, and I don't believe a relationship should have to feel like work. That's where you find love, comfort, and can relax.
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Posted by sortilege85
taurus/scorpio- Mom and dad... till this day they've been married till about 50 years and still hate each other.
cancer/capricorn- grandma and grandpa married till both died while hating each other.
cancer/capricorn- a good pal from my group of friends who married his wife but still resented each others actions.
scorpio/pisces- two scorpio friends i knew had a bad experience with their girls... and since their scorpio they can't forget that shit after 20 years.

Yup, it always the cultural backround and wedlock that keep opposites together.


They really hate each other? I can't understand couples staying married if they really hate each other unless maybe they don't believe in divorce.

My aunt and uncle are a libra/aries couple and have been married over 30 years and don't hate eahc other. In fact they seem to argue very little. Most of the opposites I know (though theres not many) don't seem to argue very much or hate each other at all.