Ye Olde Disappearing Act

This topic was created in the Astrology forum by 2N3R on Saturday, January 11, 2014 and has 3 replies.

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13 Years1,000+ Posts

I don't think this is a Taurus thing based on what I've seen posted. Apparently, Libras and Capricorns do it, too, and probably other signs. The difference is whether or not they actually tell you about it. For example, that "being flaky blah blah" when you agree on a date and the other person either never shows or suddenly calls to cancel. That's disrespectful disappearing, but it's still disappearance. Another situation is if a person finds reasons to not be with you and verbalizes it, ie, "My week is packed/ I must do this". They're trying to disappear by telling you to fuck off using nicer words. I hope eyes and minds are opened by what I've posted, because it's clearly not confined to just one sign though of coarse, they probably won't. 😆

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If you know where he's at, you can ask for an explanation as long as you remember that he doesn't need to give you one. Mind you, I disappeared myself from an Aries because she seemingly ran out of things to talk about as soon as she got a boyfriend. She wouldn't even bother to ask how anyone else felt or what they have going on in their life, and if you tried to discuss something serious, she'd make a joke of it and then make the conversation about herself. I put up with this shit for a year or two. Basically, we tolerate certain things for a long ass time and after a certain point, we become exhausted and vanish. There is always a reason.

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13 Years500+ PostsScorpio

My one and only Gemini girl friend tends to flake often
example:
i'll set up some sort of get together with some of my friends and at the last minute she'll be like "I can't make it tonight!, sorry" with no explanation on why.... and i've already gotten past the point of even asking her why.
So I think i'd throw Gems in this category.