So this cancer has tried hard to pursue me in the past. We went on a couple dates and it fizzled out. I was lukewarm about him and he said he was chicken. We went on to marry other people. I am divorced. He is separated but living with his wife still because they have kids together and she is mentally ill and has no means to make money or family to depend on. I get it. I had similar situation for a year before I finally filed. He courted me hard core for a couple mos. and we flirted a lot and then I told him I wasn’t comfortable with sleeping together it didn’t feel right and he got upset. I said let’s talk later about it. We never did so I squashed it and said I’ll see what happens he’ll either find a solution or not. He was polite and things were awkward via text. We continued to text and it was better but then he stopped responding to my texts for about 11 days. So I text and said hey checking to see how things are going. He said good we chatted back and forth and then five days later no contact again. So I text him if you’re not feeling this that’s cool but I thought our friendship would warrant letting me know. He text five days later he was confused because I said I didn’t want to get hurt by sleeping w him or casually dating while he was still married so he felt I was creating the space and so I let him know how I felt about him. No response again... not sure what is going on but mostly not sure how I can figure out if he is over it or just scared.
