I’m in love with two guys

Had up and down relationship with a cancer guy for 2 years sex was good and he really loved me, Met a stable Capricorn guy he’s fun sex is good, cares about me, hard worker we’ve been dating for a year. But I’m still talking to Cancer guy behind my Capricorn boyfriends back while he’s at work. I’ve been lusting the Cancer on and off for months. So The cancer wants me to meet up with him after work should I go? Just to get it out of my system. Or should I just end it forever. Or break up with the Capricorn guy who I love and I know he loves me.

P.s similar experience would help.

You sound lovely.

Nooooo... Surely you dont love both equally? Make a list of all the pros and cons of each lmfao

-Virgo SN

choose neither, i was in a similar situation and im not with either. instead met a different person who is much well suited for me that i wouldnt be able to have these thoughts when im with him

I love my Cap sooo much, the Cancer isn’t even somebody I can imagine a relationship with anymore. My cap is just so serious that’s what I hate and the cancer is loose no strings attached but his drive is Zero and he’s selfish. Does are the pros and cons. But I’ve been keeping this secret from my boyfriend of talking to my ex, I guess I’m also wondering should I ever tell him or will being honest just make things worst?

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Nooooo... Surely you dont love both equally? Make a list of all the pros and cons of each lmfao

-Virgo SN

Posted by Lionheart917

Stay single lol

Posted by Jade_Alexander

Cap= safe

Cancer = exciting

Be alone for awhile

Cancer wants to meet up

I want meet up too and see what happens, but I feel so bad it will hurt my Cap If ever found out. I don’t want him to know I cheated. I want to marry my Cap one day but I need to make sure the Cancer guy is truly not met for me.

Since we're about astrology here, I am lmao-ing at your choice of fucking around with two sun signs that are mirror opposites of each other. Have fun with that.

must be so hard for u LOL

Nice multiaccounts badge.

Posted by Cherry123

I love my Cap sooo much, the Cancer isn’t even somebody I can imagine a relationship with anymore. My cap is just so serious that’s what I hate and the cancer is loose no strings attached but his drive is Zero and he’s selfish. Does are the pros and cons. But I’ve been keeping this secret from my boyfriend of talking to my ex, I guess I’m also wondering should I ever tell him or will being honest just make things worst?

Yea it definitely sounds like you need to be with someone else. My ex was too serious like that but now I have a man who can be serious when need be, he has lots of drive, responsible but we can also be goofy as fuck and make each other laugh. With those two extremes, I def recommend finding someone else. Someone who's in the middle like some of the other comments have mentioned

Mines a Cap dominant Cancer, that's what you need 😉

Be careful girl or you'll end up losing them both.

Posted by Cherry123

So The cancer wants me to meet up with him after work should I go? Just to get it out of my system. Or should I just end it forever. Or break up with the Capricorn guy who I love and I know he loves me.

IDK if I would call it love if your thinking about fucking an ex behind his back and have been in communication with said ex this whole time.

Miss me with that kinda love...

FYI I’m a Aquarius. I told my Cancer ex we couldn’t keep doing this anymore, the lies and secrets are messing with head and heart, at first he was like ok I understand, then he started accusing me of playing with his mind and emotions, but when I asked him does he even love he said I have love for you and i really really like you. WTF. I think he’s trying to manipulate me into feeling guilty for cutting him off. I always kept it honest with him that we were only hooking up because the sex was good and I had feelings for him, mostly the feeling part. And yes I still end up having had sex with him and I also had sex with my Cap on the same day. But it wasn’t the same with the cancer it wasn’t anything, I felt just pressure and then laying there I felt just regrets. My Cap felt good and safe and he lasts longer and he genuinely knows how to please me. I am just a selfish low life, I really cry now and I can’t imagine how i made such a stupid decision. My ex wasn’t who I was meant to be with and I cheated the one who I am supposed to be with playing a games.

I’m stuck with keep my secret and hope it never gets out and be the best girlfriend and one day wife.

Or tell him everything now.

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Cancer wants to meet up

I want meet up too and see what happens, but I feel so bad it will hurt my Cap If ever found out. I don’t want him to know I cheated. I want to marry my Cap one day but I need to make sure the Cancer guy is truly not met for me.

I'm pretty sure that you are Kittens at this point.

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Posted by Cherry123

Had up and down relationship with a cancer guy for 2 years sex was good and he really loved me, Met a stable Capricorn guy he’s fun sex is good, cares about me, hard worker we’ve been dating for a year. But I’m still talking to Cancer guy behind my Capricorn boyfriends back while he’s at work. I’ve been lusting the Cancer on and off for months. So The cancer wants me to meet up with him after work should I go? Just to get it out of my system. Or should I just end it forever. Or break up with the Capricorn guy who I love and I know he loves me.

P.s similar experience would help.

Whats your venus?

Gemini?😂

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Posted by Cherry123

Had up and down relationship with a cancer guy for 2 years sex was good and he really loved me, Met a stable Capricorn guy he’s fun sex is good, cares about me, hard worker we’ve been dating for a year. But I’m still talking to Cancer guy behind my Capricorn boyfriends back while he’s at work. I’ve been lusting the Cancer on and off for months. So The cancer wants me to meet up with him after work should I go? Just to get it out of my system. Or should I just end it forever. Or break up with the Capricorn guy who I love and I know he loves me.

P.s similar experience would help.

Let this learn ya to multi-date and not be too keen on commitment.

Posted by Koinu

Why not do two at the same time?

Kidding aside, Cap finds out about this and you will discover a new object in this universe colder than ice.

Posted by Impulsv

Posted by Cherry123

Had up and down relationship with a cancer guy for 2 years sex was good and he really loved me, Met a stable Capricorn guy he’s fun sex is good, cares about me, hard worker we’ve been dating for a year. But I’m still talking to Cancer guy behind my Capricorn boyfriends back while he’s at work. I’ve been lusting the Cancer on and off for months. So The cancer wants me to meet up with him after work should I go? Just to get it out of my system. Or should I just end it forever. Or break up with the Capricorn guy who I love and I know he loves me.

P.s similar experience would help.

Hey pass up you Capricorn

A Scorpio woman will appreciate him better.

Probably the worst betrayal talking to ex while he’s working hard at work to provide with you

Go back to the cancer

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Posted by Cherry123

Had up and down relationship with a cancer guy for 2 years sex was good and he really loved me, Met a stable Capricorn guy he’s fun sex is good, cares about me, hard worker we’ve been dating for a year. But I’m still talking to Cancer guy behind my Capricorn boyfriends back while he’s at work. I’ve been lusting the Cancer on and off for months. So The cancer wants me to meet up with him after work should I go? Just to get it out of my system. Or should I just end it forever. Or break up with the Capricorn guy who I love and I know he loves me.

P.s similar experience would help.

Let this learn ya to multi-date and not be too keen on commitment.

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Posted by Aquaman2

Cancer and cap deserves a better woman. 🙂

It happens your probably guilty of it time at one time.

Look everybody I came here for advice. I’m hurting and I feel already like a penny with a hole in it that worthless. But I really want be able to live in my on own hell of a decision of not wanting to tell him.

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Posted by Cherry123

Had up and down relationship with a cancer guy for 2 years sex was good and he really loved me, Met a stable Capricorn guy he’s fun sex is good, cares about me, hard worker we’ve been dating for a year. But I’m still talking to Cancer guy behind my Capricorn boyfriends back while he’s at work. I’ve been lusting the Cancer on and off for months. So The cancer wants me to meet up with him after work should I go? Just to get it out of my system. Or should I just end it forever. Or break up with the Capricorn guy who I love and I know he loves me.

P.s similar experience would help.

Let this learn ya to multi-date and not be too keen on commitment.

Is this a Aquarius thing am I doomed to forever have little crush’s then kick guys to the curb. Is it bad to want my cake and eat it too as long as nobody is really getting hurt aside from ego and trust. Like I would be fine if he was sleeping with other girls as long as I didn’t know. Or he wasn’t in my face with it.

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This has nothing to do with astrology. Poor life choices is a person issue, not an astrology thing. Also, you are tagged for multi accounts, I doubt you are even an Aqua.

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Posted by Cherry123

Had up and down relationship with a cancer guy for 2 years sex was good and he really loved me, Met a stable Capricorn guy he’s fun sex is good, cares about me, hard worker we’ve been dating for a year. But I’m still talking to Cancer guy behind my Capricorn boyfriends back while he’s at work. I’ve been lusting the Cancer on and off for months. So The cancer wants me to meet up with him after work should I go? Just to get it out of my system. Or should I just end it forever. Or break up with the Capricorn guy who I love and I know he loves me.

P.s similar experience would help.

Let this learn ya to multi-date and not be too keen on commitment.

Is this a Aquarius thing am I doomed to forever have little crush’s then kick guys to the curb. Is it bad to want my cake and eat it too as long as nobody is really getting hurt aside from ego and trust. Like I would be fine if he was sleeping with other girls as long as I didn’t know. Or he wasn’t in my face with it.

This has nothing to do with astrology. Poor life choices is a person issue, not an astrology thing. Also, you are tagged for multi accounts, I doubt you are even an Aqua.

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Posted by Cherry123

Cancer wants to meet up

I want meet up too and see what happens, but I feel so bad it will hurt my Cap If ever found out. I don’t want him to know I cheated. I want to marry my Cap one day but I need to make sure the Cancer guy is truly not met for me.

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Posted by Cherry123

I love my Cap sooo much, the Cancer isn’t even somebody I can imagine a relationship with anymore. My cap is just so serious that’s what I hate and the cancer is loose no strings attached but his drive is Zero and he’s selfish. Does are the pros and cons. But I’ve been keeping this secret from my boyfriend of talking to my ex, I guess I’m also wondering should I ever tell him or will being honest just make things worst?

If you loved the Cap you wouldn't be lusting after an old flame that you can't even imagine being with.. Like listen to yourself.. You should be alone and figure your shit out.

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Cancer wants to meet up

I want meet up too and see what happens, but I feel so bad it will hurt my Cap If ever found out. I don’t want him to know I cheated. I want to marry my Cap one day but I need to make sure the Cancer guy is truly not met for me.

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