sweetpea2977
@sweetpea2977
6 Years1,000+ Posts
Comments: 2 · Posts: 1548 · Topics: 27
Cancer Love. Spoiled, Entitled & Feeling Rejected? 🤦
I think he's being immature.
He's in his feelings because for some reason he's insecure about you spending the weekend by yourself... I think it's a little ridiculous.
I'll give you the advice I've been given before as I've been too often in similar situations:
Keep communication open, tell him how you feel and explain that sometimes you need space and he's going to have to understand it has nothing negative to do with him.
I find that I can easily upset/offend /hurt water sign males with little effort...without meaning to obvi.
Good luck. 😵
He's in his feelings because for some reason he's insecure about you spending the weekend by yourself... I think it's a little ridiculous.
I'll give you the advice I've been given before as I've been too often in similar situations:
Keep communication open, tell him how you feel and explain that sometimes you need space and he's going to have to understand it has nothing negative to do with him.
I find that I can easily upset/offend /hurt water sign males with little effort...without meaning to obvi.
Good luck. 😵
Posted by Basorexia
I think he's being immature.
He's in his feelings because for some reason he's insecure about you spending the weekend by yourself... I think it's a little ridiculous.
I'll give you the advice I've been given before as I've been too often in similar situations:
Keep communication open, tell him how you feel and explain that sometimes you need space and he's going to have to understand it has nothing negative to do with him.
I find that I can easily upset/offend /hurt water sign males with little effort...without meaning to obvi.
Good luck. 😵
I agree. It's immature 😒 indeed.
That was good advice as I'm trying to keep communication open but he's back to silent treatment. It may backfire on him if he's not careful 🤷
Posted by GC08
“He responded that I didn't want to spend time w him 🤦 I shared that it wasn't personal. Well, Saturday morning came and there was complete silence from him. I was slightly disappointed. Nevertheless, I let him do him, so-to-speak.“
“He admitted today that he infact took it personal and chose to refrain from talking w me because ‘he wanted to respect my wishes.”
You asked for alone time and he gave it to you...what’s the problem? The second you wanted the attention back again he is supposed to jump into that mode again?
😂😂😂 You must be as sensitive as he is. Did I hit a nerve? 🤔
No where did I use the words, "alone time". I was simply compelled to stay home to tackle some personal goals. I didn't think that meant, I couldn't hold a conversation too. Some people can speak on the phone/or text WHILE getting shit done. He chose not to speak because he made my personal endeavor all about him.
Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by GC08
“He responded that I didn't want to spend time w him 🤦 I shared that it wasn't personal. Well, Saturday morning came and there was complete silence from him. I was slightly disappointed. Nevertheless, I let him do him, so-to-speak.“
“He admitted today that he infact took it personal and chose to refrain from talking w me because ‘he wanted to respect my wishes.”
You asked for alone time and he gave it to you...what’s the problem? The second you wanted the attention back again he is supposed to jump into that mode again?
😂😂😂 You must be as sensitive as he is. Did I hit a nerve? 🤔
No where did I use the words, "alone time". I was simply compelled to stay home to tackle some personal goals. I didn't think that meant, I couldn't hold a conversation too. Some people can speak on the phone/or text WHILE getting shit done. He chose not to speak because he made my personal endeavor all about him.click to expand
His feelings got hurt.
You sounded as if you were really happy with him before all this happened. I wouldn't stop dating him just because of that..
Posted by YodiPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by GC08
“He responded that I didn't want to spend time w him 🤦 I shared that it wasn't personal. Well, Saturday morning came and there was complete silence from him. I was slightly disappointed. Nevertheless, I let him do him, so-to-speak.“
“He admitted today that he infact took it personal and chose to refrain from talking w me because ‘he wanted to respect my wishes.”
You asked for alone time and he gave it to you...what’s the problem? The second you wanted the attention back again he is supposed to jump into that mode again?
😂😂😂 You must be as sensitive as he is. Did I hit a nerve? 🤔
No where did I use the words, "alone time". I was simply compelled to stay home to tackle some personal goals. I didn't think that meant, I couldn't hold a conversation too. Some people can speak on the phone/or text WHILE getting shit done. He chose not to speak because he made my personal endeavor all about him.
His feelings got hurt.
You sounded as if you were really happy with him before all this happened. I wouldn't stop dating him just because of that..click to expand
Yes. There is happiness between us. Really didn't mean to hurt him and I shared that w him. I tried to convey to him not to take it personal. But yeah, he did. We'll see what tomorrow brings.
So clingy is crazy now 🤔😏 y'all so quick to drop a mfer..
Send him my way sis.. I'll put that clingy mfer to good use 😅
Send him my way sis.. I'll put that clingy mfer to good use 😅
Posted by GC08Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by GC08
“He responded that I didn't want to spend time w him 🤦 I shared that it wasn't personal. Well, Saturday morning came and there was complete silence from him. I was slightly disappointed. Nevertheless, I let him do him, so-to-speak.“
“He admitted today that he infact took it personal and chose to refrain from talking w me because ‘he wanted to respect my wishes.”
You asked for alone time and he gave it to you...what’s the problem? The second you wanted the attention back again he is supposed to jump into that mode again?
😂😂😂 You must be as sensitive as he is. Did I hit a nerve? 🤔
No where did I use the words, "alone time". I was simply compelled to stay home to tackle some personal goals. I didn't think that meant, I couldn't hold a conversation too. Some people can speak on the phone/or text WHILE getting shit done. He chose not to speak because he made my personal endeavor all about him.
You wanted space to get your own personal goals done. He gave you the space and now you are nagging him?
I feel sorry for him, that he has to deal with you.
✌🏼click to expand
Feel sorry for yourself. You misunderstand just as he does 🤭
And nope, no nagging from me. He may be good to me, but I'm the ultimate prize. Deuces!
Posted by Arielle83
So annoying.
My cut off is 3 to 6 months.
I guess his crazy is coming out
😂😂😂 Oh trust, he knows I'll walk. He *does NOT* want that. Hence the texts he recently sent lol
Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by YodiPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by GC08
“He responded that I didn't want to spend time w him 🤦 I shared that it wasn't personal. Well, Saturday morning came and there was complete silence from him. I was slightly disappointed. Nevertheless, I let him do him, so-to-speak.“
“He admitted today that he infact took it personal and chose to refrain from talking w me because ‘he wanted to respect my wishes.”
You asked for alone time and he gave it to you...what’s the problem? The second you wanted the attention back again he is supposed to jump into that mode again?
😂😂😂 You must be as sensitive as he is. Did I hit a nerve? 🤔
No where did I use the words, "alone time". I was simply compelled to stay home to tackle some personal goals. I didn't think that meant, I couldn't hold a conversation too. Some people can speak on the phone/or text WHILE getting shit done. He chose not to speak because he made my personal endeavor all about him.
His feelings got hurt.
You sounded as if you were really happy with him before all this happened. I wouldn't stop dating him just because of that..
Yes. There is happiness between us. Really didn't mean to hurt him and I shared that w him. I tried to convey to him not to take it personal. But yeah, he did. We'll see what tomorrow brings.click to expand
Yeah.. unfortunately we can be hella stubborn when our feelings are hurt. It's best to just talk it out after we've had time to reflect on what happened.
He'll definitely bring it up again and hopefully apologize.. if he's a mature crab.
Posted by Yodi
So clingy is crazy now 🤔😏 y'all so quick to drop a mfer..
Send him my way sis.. I'll put that clingy mfer to good use 😅
He's already put "to good use" 😝 And if anything, he's *crazy* for me in a very good way 😉 I'll always be the prize nevertheless. But attached to my hip, is a no-go. He'll learn.
Posted by YodiPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by YodiPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by GC08
“He responded that I didn't want to spend time w him 🤦 I shared that it wasn't personal. Well, Saturday morning came and there was complete silence from him. I was slightly disappointed. Nevertheless, I let him do him, so-to-speak.“
“He admitted today that he infact took it personal and chose to refrain from talking w me because ‘he wanted to respect my wishes.”
You asked for alone time and he gave it to you...what’s the problem? The second you wanted the attention back again he is supposed to jump into that mode again?
😂😂😂 You must be as sensitive as he is. Did I hit a nerve? 🤔
No where did I use the words, "alone time". I was simply compelled to stay home to tackle some personal goals. I didn't think that meant, I couldn't hold a conversation too. Some people can speak on the phone/or text WHILE getting shit done. He chose not to speak because he made my personal endeavor all about him.
His feelings got hurt.
You sounded as if you were really happy with him before all this happened. I wouldn't stop dating him just because of that..
Yes. There is happiness between us. Really didn't mean to hurt him and I shared that w him. I tried to convey to him not to take it personal. But yeah, he did. We'll see what tomorrow brings.
Yeah.. unfortunately we can be hella stubborn when our feelings are hurt. It's best to just talk it out after we've had time to reflect on what happened.
He'll definitely bring it up again and hopefully apologize.. if he's a mature crab.click to expand
Sounds correct 🙂 We'll talk about it tomorrow. I believe it'll be okay ❤️
Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by Yodi
So clingy is crazy now 🤔😏 y'all so quick to drop a mfer..
Send him my way sis.. I'll put that clingy mfer to good use 😅
He's already put "to good use" 😝 And if anything, he's *crazy* for me in a very good way 😉 I'll always be the prize nevertheless. But attached to my hip, is a no-go. He'll learn.click to expand
Yassss 🙌🏿
That's right gurlll.. learn your man and you got this
Crabs are fast learners too 💪🏿
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by Yodi
So clingy is crazy now 🤔😏 y'all so quick to drop a mfer..
Send him my way sis.. I'll put that clingy mfer to good use 😅
Yes it’s crazy
Doesn’t he have a lifeclick to expand
Well gee I hope so 😅
Seeing eachother on the weekends isn't clingy. They're in the honeymoon faze and this is his first offense.
Clingy has many levels..
Posted by peaceandtranquility_96Posted by GC08Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by GC08
“He responded that I didn't want to spend time w him 🤦 I shared that it wasn't personal. Well, Saturday morning came and there was complete silence from him. I was slightly disappointed. Nevertheless, I let him do him, so-to-speak.“
“He admitted today that he infact took it personal and chose to refrain from talking w me because ‘he wanted to respect my wishes.”
You asked for alone time and he gave it to you...what’s the problem? The second you wanted the attention back again he is supposed to jump into that mode again?
😂😂😂 You must be as sensitive as he is. Did I hit a nerve? 🤔
No where did I use the words, "alone time". I was simply compelled to stay home to tackle some personal goals. I didn't think that meant, I couldn't hold a conversation too. Some people can speak on the phone/or text WHILE getting shit done. He chose not to speak because he made my personal endeavor all about him.
You wanted space to get your own personal goals done. He gave you the space and now you are nagging him?
I feel sorry for him, that he has to deal with you.
✌🏼
Yikes, that was a little harsh. I mean, I think this a beautiful thing. Dating allows two people to come together and learn more about what they need in a relationship. They both just have different needs pertaining to "time spent together". OP likes space and her man likes time spent. I think if she feels the communication is a little difficult, this is something to consider before taking the relationship further.click to expand
❤️
Posted by peaceandtranquility_96Posted by Yodi
So clingy is crazy now 🤔😏 y'all so quick to drop a mfer..
Send him my way sis.. I'll put that clingy mfer to good use 😅
Hahaha! I like clingy too! But, I'm a crab! what can I say? Saggies like to be freely expressive and not held down. They hate being smothered.click to expand
Yo.. I completely understand where sweetpea is coming from. I like a mixture of both..
To me this situation doesn't warrant a break up. If he bitch slapped her then yeah.. leave his azz but all he did was ignored her for a day. Shyt happens lol
Posted by peaceandtranquility_96
Cancers are usually very sympathetic to their partner's needs. I think he may just feel a little rejected and he took it the wrong way. Cancers can act like little babies at times and come off passive aggressive. I've done it many times. However, cancers truly just want to share their time with those they care about. They don't let others into their shell easily. I think if you just have an open and honest conversation with him, he'll be sympathetic to your needs.
❤️
Posted by YodiPosted by peaceandtranquility_96Posted by Yodi
So clingy is crazy now 🤔😏 y'all so quick to drop a mfer..
Send him my way sis.. I'll put that clingy mfer to good use 😅
Hahaha! I like clingy too! But, I'm a crab! what can I say? Saggies like to be freely expressive and not held down. They hate being smothered.
Yo.. I completely understand where sweetpea is coming from. I like a mixture of both..
To me this situation doesn't warrant a break up. If he bitch slapped her then yeah.. leave his azz but all he did was ignored her for a day. Shyt happens lolclick to expand
❤️
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTownPosted by sweetpea2977
😂😂😂 You must be as sensitive as he is. Did I hit a nerve? 🤔
Her reply would be just like mine. To be honest, that Cancer guy should leave you.
Btw, no you did not hit a nerve. You hit something else.click to expand
As if your measly opinion matters 🤭
Here's a fact for you: He won't 😝
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTownPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTownPosted by sweetpea2977
😂😂😂 You must be as sensitive as he is. Did I hit a nerve? 🤔
Her reply would be just like mine. To be honest, that Cancer guy should leave you.
Btw, no you did not hit a nerve. You hit something else.
As if your measly opinion matters 🤭
Here's a fact for you: He won't 😝
I know he won't. That's why I feel bad for him.click to expand
Feel bad for yourself. Your envy reeks.
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
I don't envy. You misunderstood my post. You did nothing wrong. I like Sags, but I'm not 20 anymore. I know my Cancer Sag stuff.
🤔 Yeah. Confusing. But, okay.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by YodiPosted by Black-MambaPosted by Yodi
So clingy is crazy now 🤔😏 y'all so quick to drop a mfer..
Send him my way sis.. I'll put that clingy mfer to good use 😅
Yes it’s crazy
Doesn’t he have a life
Well gee I hope so 😅
Seeing eachother on the weekends isn't clingy. They're in the honeymoon faze and this is his first offense.
Clingy has many levels..
He is being a jerk cause she wants me time
How come crabs don’t self reflectclick to expand
He's dead azz wrong for getting mad but we don't always self reflect in the heat of the moment. It comes after we (or maybe just me) removed ourself from the situation.
Let's see what happens tomorrow. I can admit when I'm wrong..
Posted by GC08
She made this thread with her “he hit a nerve” cause he didn’t talk to her and took some probably much needed shell time. 🐚
& he’s the clingy one?? What tf??
😂😂😂 Yeah, he's the clingy one.
Posted by Bumblebebe
Cancer clingy ness is good natured 🙂🙂 they don’t mean any ill intention
I would agree. It was his shutting down for the whole day, following my decision, that didn't sit right. I was considerate enough to give him a heads up but, he just didn't take it well.
Posted by BumblebebePosted by sweetpea2977Posted by Bumblebebe
Cancer clingy ness is good natured 🙂🙂 they don’t mean any ill intention
I would agree. It was his shutting down for the whole day, following my decision, that didn't sit right. I was considerate enough to give him a heads up but, he just didn't take it well.
Maybe gently next time tell him you’d love to be with him but you have a lot of personal things to take care so you can spend more time with him later without being preoccupied about what you have to do?click to expand
🙁 I was gentle. I shared that I've been feeling bad about something I need to focus on and the weekend would be the best time to do so. That we could get back together on Monday. I mean, he and I were together Mon thru Fri so, it would've only been fair to self to take care of it this weekend. Sigh.
Posted by BumblebebePosted by sweetpea2977Posted by BumblebebePosted by sweetpea2977Posted by Bumblebebe
Cancer clingy ness is good natured 🙂🙂 they don’t mean any ill intention
I would agree. It was his shutting down for the whole day, following my decision, that didn't sit right. I was considerate enough to give him a heads up but, he just didn't take it well.
Maybe gently next time tell him you’d love to be with him but you have a lot of personal things to take care so you can spend more time with him later without being preoccupied about what you have to do?
🙁 I was gentle. I shared that I've been feeling bad about something I need to focus on and the weekend would be the best time to do so. That we could get back together on Monday. I mean, he and I were together Mon thru Fri so, it would've only been fair to self to take care of it this weekend. Sigh.
It’s a cancers world we’re just living in it...🙂click to expand
LOL! Not where a Sag exists. There has to be some compromise sprinkled in their too 🙃
Posted by maiden
I see both sides..
I see your side, where you told him you needed time off and he was hurt (again, the cancer needs reassurance..)
And it comes across as petty and childish to take it personally, after this was covered (you gave notice), frustrating..
But I see his side, where you told him you needed to do something not involving him--which bothers him cause he wants to be with you always--but then you still wanted to text or communicate.. this would bug me. You don't want to hang out but you still want to talk or text-- why? I can see how Cancer would not understand this.. how that would feel kinda cruel.
But I wouldn't know how to make that make sense to a Sag.
That's a head scratcher..
That's definitely mind-boggling. It's "cruel" to simply expect someone to speak (aka 'hello') even though you're not hanging together? That happens everyday frankly.
The honest truth is, there's going to come another day, where I may not be able to see him or engage with him. It's my hope that he handles it better and not make it all about him.
Posted by peaceandtranquility_96Posted by sweetpea2977Posted by Bumblebebe
Cancer clingy ness is good natured 🙂🙂 they don’t mean any ill intention
I would agree. It was his shutting down for the whole day, following my decision, that didn't sit right. I was considerate enough to give him a heads up but, he just didn't take it well.
Yeah! I know exactly what he’s doing because I do this to. He may feel like you taking time off was code for “ehh.. I’m not that interested in spending time with you anymore”. Now, he has a total wall up and is trying to ignore those feelings of rejection by pushing himself away and avoiding love at ALL costs. But, deep down, he really wants you. Gosh! Cancers and our security minded nature! Lol
But, he has to learn how to compromise! Life brings situations where you may not always be with your partner. this time apart will allow him to grow as an individual in my opinion . What’s his moon sign if you don’t mind me asking?click to expand
Unsure of his moon sign.
❤️ for the rest of your response.
Posted by maidenPosted by sweetpea2977Posted by maiden
I see both sides..
I see your side, where you told him you needed time off and he was hurt (again, the cancer needs reassurance..)
And it comes across as petty and childish to take it personally, after this was covered (you gave notice), frustrating..
But I see his side, where you told him you needed to do something not involving him--which bothers him cause he wants to be with you always--but then you still wanted to text or communicate.. this would bug me. You don't want to hang out but you still want to talk or text-- why? I can see how Cancer would not understand this.. how that would feel kinda cruel.
But I wouldn't know how to make that make sense to a Sag.
That's a head scratcher..
That's definitely mind-boggling. It's "cruel" to simply expect someone to speak (aka 'hello') even though you're not hanging together? That happens everyday frankly.
The honest truth is, there's going to come another day, where I may not be able to see him or engage with him. It's my hope that he handles it better and not make it all about him.
That's realistic and healthy.
If he does the same thing x2 post about it and we'll surely tear him apart for it 😄click to expand
😂😂😂
Posted by sweetpea2977
I've been dating a Cancer male for about 3 months. Overall, he's wonderful to me ☺️ He's reliable, attentive, kind, polite, giving, respectful, loving, supportive, and the like ❤️ No arguments or major issues 🤞
But today, he hit a nerve. We spent time together last week. We usually spend time together over the weekend too, but I wanted to work on a personal goal at home and decided to skip our time together this weekend. I shared this with him Friday afternoon. He responded that I didn't want to spend time w him 🤦 I shared that it wasn't personal. Well, Saturday morning came and there was complete silence from him. I was slightly disappointed. Nevertheless, I let him do him, so-to-speak. It's Sunday. He texts me this morning and invites me out. I declined as I was still resting AND had plans to stay home all day. Mind you, we have plans in place for tomorrow. Here's the problem: He admitted today that he infact took it personal and chose to refrain from talking w me because "he wanted to respect my wishes". I told him that he was acting spoiled and entitled. That it's perfectly okay and normal for us to go a day or two w/o seeing each other.
As a Sag, it's not ideal for me to have a man around me everyday. I'm not wired that way. A month or so ago, I shared that w him. I thought he understood. But, I see now, that he's attached as he also shared that "it was difficult for him to be without me Saturday." 🙄
Honestly, I don't want to deal w this. I know that I can apologize, but, for what? Bottom-line is, he's not a child and babying a man is not what I do.
We didn't really talk it out today, so, I'm slightly uncomfortable about seeing him tomorrow.
Thoughts?
everything else aside, I think its maybe too late to say on a Friday afternoon that you dont want to see him on the weekend, if you two usually spent the weekend together. You were together Mon-Thu, it was plenty of time to say something before and the result would be maybe different?
I can understand that being together Mon-Thu is enough and you need things to be done on the weekend
I would suggest you dont dwell on this "misunderstanding" now, be nice to him, cuddle a lot and next time think of something beforehand, like tell him on Tue that you need to do stuff on a weekend and the blow for him will be less and softened, as he sees you again on Wed, so it would be a win-win, he would be warned beforehand and you still have Wed or Thu for to be together, and you can looking forward to your relaxing weekend without him
(if you want to stay with him, that is 🙂 )
Posted by Pandora101Posted by sweetpea2977
I've been dating a Cancer male for about 3 months. Overall, he's wonderful to me ☺️ He's reliable, attentive, kind, polite, giving, respectful, loving, supportive, and the like ❤️ No arguments or major issues 🤞
But today, he hit a nerve. We spent time together last week. We usually spend time together over the weekend too, but I wanted to work on a personal goal at home and decided to skip our time together this weekend. I shared this with him Friday afternoon. He responded that I didn't want to spend time w him 🤦 I shared that it wasn't personal. Well, Saturday morning came and there was complete silence from him. I was slightly disappointed. Nevertheless, I let him do him, so-to-speak. It's Sunday. He texts me this morning and invites me out. I declined as I was still resting AND had plans to stay home all day. Mind you, we have plans in place for tomorrow. Here's the problem: He admitted today that he infact took it personal and chose to refrain from talking w me because "he wanted to respect my wishes". I told him that he was acting spoiled and entitled. That it's perfectly okay and normal for us to go a day or two w/o seeing each other.
As a Sag, it's not ideal for me to have a man around me everyday. I'm not wired that way. A month or so ago, I shared that w him. I thought he understood. But, I see now, that he's attached as he also shared that "it was difficult for him to be without me Saturday." 🙄
Honestly, I don't want to deal w this. I know that I can apologize, but, for what? Bottom-line is, he's not a child and babying a man is not what I do.
We didn't really talk it out today, so, I'm slightly uncomfortable about seeing him tomorrow.
Thoughts?
everything else aside, I think its maybe too late to say on a Friday afternoon that you dont want to see him on the weekend, if you two usually spent the weekend together. You were together Mon-Thu, it was plenty of time to say something before and the result would be maybe different?
I can understand that being together Mon-Thu is enough and you need things to be done on the weekend
I would suggest you dont dwell on this "misunderstanding" now, be nice to him, cuddle a lot and next time think of something beforehand, like tell him on Tue that you need to do stuff on a weekend and the blow for him will be less and softened, as he sees you again on Wed, so it would be a win-win, he would be warned beforehand and you still have Wed or Thu for to be together, and you can looking forward to your relaxing weekend without him
(if you want to stay with him, that is 🙂 )click to expand
❤️
Join the Conversation. Explore Yourself. Connect with Others.
Discover insights, swap stories, and find people. dxpnet is where experiences turn into understanding.
Create Your Free Account →Related Topics
Had up and down relationship with a cancer guy for 2 years sex was good and he really loved me, Met a stable Capricorn guy he’s fun sex is good, cares about me, hard worker we’ve been dating for a year. But I’m still talking to Cancer guy behind my Capric
like submissive women who just go along with everything with what they say and want?
Try to make it Quick
My best friend is a Cancer Male. 5 years ago when we first met in my senior year he was all about me.l and we were talking. Lasted 2 months and I broke things off because he was messing with his ex still. He fought for a friendship a
So I’ve known this cancer guy for a really long time, recently we started hanging out and one thing led to another and were FWB, this has been going on for a few months now. But I am confused, he’s hot and cold, almost never initiates conversation, someti
So I’ve known this cancer guy for a very long time. We worked together a few years back, but still stayed in contact, even though we no longer work together. We’ve always got on very well, and in all honesty, I’ve always liked him more then a friend, but
I have a good friend that I have known for a moment now & I'm wondering if he could be gay or bi. To give a little bit of context: we have similar interest, we laugh a lot together & always enjoy each other company. It wasn't until recently, abou
This isnt a hate post cause Cancer men luv me and I don't have issues with them. lmao.
I just want to see if anyone else has noticed this about Cancers.
Every cancer guy I have known had this thing with his hands or feet or both. They get very fidgety wi
Him: cancer sun/moon with a leo rising
me: sag sun, gemini moon, Taurus rising
About two months ago I met this cancer man. we go to the same university so I had seen him around before but we have never exchanged words. I would often catch him staring at
or more than one try in showing genuine care?
we used to be very close and then we got into a stupid misunderstanding and i cut him loose. not totally fair to him.
after i apologized i asked if we can talk. he said sure, as soon as he has the time, he's b
I'm a pisces. HE hurt me and as a result I've pulled away. He tried reaching out once but I was still too hurt to talk to him so I didn't put forth much effort.
I've noticed that he stopped including me in stuff and it seems like he is blocking me from
So I'm with a cancer guy,we've been together for 9 months yh,yh I've had emotional distress and happiness from dating him,the distress because I don't understand him at times.
So now,for about 3 weeks,he says he's been busy I've been asking for a hang out
Just getting a thread started 😂😂
I am a Libra sun, Gemini moon, Venus Leo.
I met a cancer man (scorpio moon and venus cancer) almost about a year back. We were both in relationships with different people. I was *newly* married but not happy and sort of in the process of separating. He wa
Alright, so tomorrow night I'm gonna have a date with this Cancer guy I met through Tinder. Any tips on how to make a good impression? What does Cancer guys like when dating?
Trying to convince myself I'm fine and moving on. Other side tells me, "send a message, reach out and there is hope".
That cancer man is out of my life. Well technically his not physically present in my life. Other side tells me, "try to seek help from
I'm Virgo single for 11years official today.
But I had a online cancer boyfriend for 3 months then recently dump me for he says I'm complicated. I'm not so lucky!! :(
My cancer man always have a mood swing and sometimes out of the blue ask for space and he doesn't wanna talk to me.
And when i gave him his space and respect his boundries he get's angry bcz i didn't call.
We were together since 11 years and soon we will
So I've been dating this cancer guy (Leo moon) for almost 4 months now and I must admit, understanding his personality is hards, frustrating and emotionally draining. (I am aries sun, virgo moon). It is almost like walking in egg-shells around him!
Set as
hey,
some of you may know my story, some not. But it turns out my crab had another girl all the time in the last 7 months.
and other girls also..
watch out. Do you really even know those cancer men? I think everything i knew about him, is turned upside
So many of these men have come across my path and they all seem to be the unevolved kind ...habitual liars, cheaters, martyrs and charmers. They will say anything to get into your pants and stroke their own ego (which is insatiable btw).
Then (shockingl
But today, he hit a nerve. We spent time together last week. We usually spend time together over the weekend too, but I wanted to work on a personal goal at home and decided to skip our time together this weekend. I shared this with him Friday afternoon. He responded that I didn't want to spend time w him 🤦 I shared that it wasn't personal. Well, Saturday morning came and there was complete silence from him. I was slightly disappointed. Nevertheless, I let him do him, so-to-speak. It's Sunday. He texts me this morning and invites me out. I declined as I was still resting AND had plans to stay home all day. Mind you, we have plans in place for tomorrow. Here's the problem: He admitted today that he infact took it personal and chose to refrain from talking w me because "he wanted to respect my wishes". I told him that he was acting spoiled and entitled. That it's perfectly okay and normal for us to go a day or two w/o seeing each other.
As a Sag, it's not ideal for me to have a man around me everyday. I'm not wired that way. A month or so ago, I shared that w him. I thought he understood. But, I see now, that he's attached as he also shared that "it was difficult for him to be without me Saturday." 🙄
Honestly, I don't want to deal w this. I know that I can apologize, but, for what? Bottom-line is, he's not a child and babying a man is not what I do.
We didn't really talk it out today, so, I'm slightly uncomfortable about seeing him tomorrow.
Thoughts?