Are these signs that I'm in love?

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sweet_cancer
@sweet_cancer
8 Years

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Hi. I've been liking someone for a long time but I feel that it's becoming more than just a crush. I feel extremely emotional and I'm wondering if I'm in love with this person since I feel a lot more sensitive than usual. When I listen to songs, especially LOVE SONGS I can't hold my tears and I cry like a baby. Sometimes it's even better to turn off the radio otherwise I'll burst into tears.

Last night I watched a romantic movie on netflix and by the end of the movie guess what I did? CRIED!!! Ahhhh it just really touched me!!! I'm usually not a cry baby but I feel really emotional right now. And when I go out, everything reminds me of the person I like!!! For example, I see a guy with glasses, it reminds me of him because he wears glasses. My crush is also tall so every time I see a tall guy, it reminds me of him too. I have him on my mind every single day. I'm starting to feel like I'm deeply in love. But how can I know if it's just another infatuation that will end soon or it's real love?

I'm a Cancer and I know being in love is the best feeling ever. I've only been in love once in my life. How can I know if cupid has done it again?
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WaterDevil
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8 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

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I'm a cancer sun. Sag moon.

And it sounds like you are infatuated. I only say this because it takes one to know one. In all reality. Iv realized that emotions are all relative to everyone in life. And hearing that you cry all the time says to me that you are not getting emotional security from this person. And my issue is.. the less emotional security I get. The more I project emotions in my head. And put false expectations on the relationship. I would take a step back. And assess the situation in a way that...and DONT play games...but in a way where you re-evaluate WHY you arn't feeling secure. And leave the ball in this person's court for a bit. Im not saying "let them chase you". Iv made that mistake before. Im saying give them a chance to pursue you, and give YOU the emotional security that it sounds like you need. And if you don't feel that in return. You know its not love. But I hope it is. I really do. I know how much us cancers need to feel loved and love in return... Im just going off experience here.