@FrogPrince
9 Years
How long have you been without whinning?
No, they not aware! And telling them is fruitless.
Just move to another state.
It's been about a month but I do cause there's something wrong or at least something I think is wrong it's me giving you a heads up but after a while I just avoid you as much as possible or leave if I am not expected to stay.
I've been whining since the 1930s
Posted by Gemitati
No, they not aware! And telling them is fruitless.Just move to another state.
I don't live in the USA. I'll have to change country then 😆
Posted by Gemitati
No, they not aware! And telling them is fruitless.Just move to another state.
I don't live in the USA. I'll have to change country then 😆
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If you in Europe - you can walk over there in 30min right??
Posted by Gemitati
No, they not aware! And telling them is fruitless.Just move to another state.
I don't live in the USA. I'll have to change country then 😆
If you in Europe - you can walk over there in 30min right??
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If I lived in Belgium or Netherlands I think it would take that time 😆!
But not in my case...I live 4 to 5 hours from the frontier.
Posted by Gemitati
No, they not aware! And telling them is fruitless.Just move to another state.
I don't live in the USA. I'll have to change country then 😆
If you in Europe - you can walk over there in 30min right??
If I lived in Belgium or Netherlands I think it would take that time 😆!
But not in my case...I live 4 to 5 hours from the frontier.
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So you can roller skate? Lol
Posted by FrogPrince
Hahaah! Now that I've hurt you please be defensive and tell how long have you been without whinning or playing the victim 😆!! Jokes aside...I do have Cancers in my family and the defensive mode and relentless whinning is very suffocating. I do tend to liesten to them but at some point I see myself in a position where I'm liestening to the same story and same thing over and over again, all the days. Got a few tips on how to deal with this? Plus, has "overwhinning" ever put you problem, or are you aware how suffocating you can be sometimes?P.S:It my seem I'm being agressive but I am honestly seeking for a cooperation here 😉
Stop whinning.
Posted by FrogPrince
Hahaah! Now that I've hurt you please be defensive and tell how long have you been without whinning or playing the victim 😆!! Jokes aside...I do have Cancers in my family and the defensive mode and relentless whinning is very suffocating. I do tend to liesten to them but at some point I see myself in a position where I'm liestening to the same story and same thing over and over again, all the days. Got a few tips on how to deal with this? Plus, has "overwhinning" ever put you problem, or are you aware how suffocating you can be sometimes?P.S:It my seem I'm being agressive but I am honestly seeking for a cooperation here 😉
Stop whinning.
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Posted by FrogPrince
Hahaah! Now that I've hurt you please be defensive and tell how long have you been without whinning or playing the victim 😆!! Jokes aside...I do have Cancers in my family and the defensive mode and relentless whinning is very suffocating. I do tend to liesten to them but at some point I see myself in a position where I'm liestening to the same story and same thing over and over again, all the days. Got a few tips on how to deal with this? Plus, has "overwhinning" ever put you problem, or are you aware how suffocating you can be sometimes?P.S:It my seem I'm being agressive but I am honestly seeking for a cooperation here 😉
Stop whinning.
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😆
Learn to spell yo. Your attempt of appearing aloof and nonchalant turned into you looking like an illiterate troll who's just looking for reactions.
I love wining... and dining 😄
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Learn to spell yo. Your attempt of appearing aloof and nonchalant turned into you looking like an illiterate troll who's just looking for reactions.
English is not my first language.
You understood what I meant so...mission acomplished though!
P.S: You're short psychoanalysis is wrong thoug...sad!
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Learn to spell yo. Your attempt of appearing aloof and nonchalant turned into you looking like an illiterate troll who's just looking for reactions.English is not my first language.
You understood what I meant so...mission acomplished though!
P.S: You're short psychoanalysis is wrong thoug...sad!
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Your poor command of the English language makes me both feel like I am winning as a non-native speaker and whining at your lazy and sloppy linguistic attempt to inflate your ego by trolling a bunch of strangers. So I guess that means I'm "whinning" just now.
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Learn to spell yo. Your attempt of appearing aloof and nonchalant turned into you looking like an illiterate troll who's just looking for reactions.English is not my first language.
You understood what I meant so...mission acomplished though!
P.S: You're short psychoanalysis is wrong thoug...sad!
Your poor command of the English language makes me both feel like I am winning as a non-native speaker and whining at your lazy and sloppy linguistic attempt to inflate your ego by trolling a bunch of strangers. So I guess that means I'm "whinning" just now.
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Posted by rockyroadicecream
Learn to spell yo. Your attempt of appearing aloof and nonchalant turned into you looking like an illiterate troll who's just looking for reactions.English is not my first language.
You understood what I meant so...mission acomplished though!
P.S: You're short psychoanalysis is wrong thoug...sad!
Your poor command of the English language makes me both feel like I am winning as a non-native speaker and whining at your lazy and sloppy linguistic attempt to inflate your ego by trolling a bunch of strangers. So I guess that means I'm "whinning" just now.
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—??♀️—?
Posted by rockyroadicecream
Learn to spell yo. Your attempt of appearing aloof and nonchalant turned into you looking like an illiterate troll who's just looking for reactions.English is not my first language.
You understood what I meant so...mission acomplished though!
P.S: You're short psychoanalysis is wrong thoug...sad!
Your poor command of the English language makes me both feel like I am winning as a non-native speaker and whining at your lazy and sloppy linguistic attempt to inflate your ego by trolling a bunch of strangers. So I guess that means I'm "whinning" just now.
—??♀️—?
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"Poor command of the english language"
I ain't sure who you're talking about, Is it me or you?
Oh, I knew i forgot something.
*makes note to whine to someone today*
My question is the following: "What do you consider as whining?"
I am personally surrounded by Crabs. All the most important people in my life are Cancer (three best female friends, my best male friend and my mother - I obviously love Cancer natives, so I am biased). One thing I noticed about Cancer people is that they are very introspective. And generally, introspective means retrospective. They will take the time to analyze moments, events that marked them in their life. Unfortunately, the things that mark us deeply are not all that positive. Another thing Cancer people might often be is careful. They won't go about "whining" to just about anyone. Your entourage has the impression you care, that they can emotionally trust you, thus they open up to you.
My personal suggestion is the following: stop trying to listen to them. That way, they will go back into their shell and most probably leave you alone. Just make sure you can live with that, because once a Crab goes back into his shell, tough luck you'll be able to coax him out again.
Posted by Mims
My question is the following: "What do you consider as whining?"I am personally surrounded by Crabs. All the most important people in my life are Cancer (three best female friends, my best male friend and my mother - I obviously love Cancer natives, so I am biased). One thing I noticed about Cancer people is that they are very introspective. And generally, introspective means retrospective. They will take the time to analyze moments, events that marked them in their life. Unfortunately, the things that mark us deeply are not all that positive. Another thing Cancer people might often be is careful. They won't go about "whining" to just about anyone. Your entourage has the impression you care, that they can emotionally trust you, thus they open up to you.
My personal suggestion is the following: stop trying to listen to them. That way, they will go back into their shell and most probably leave you alone. Just make sure you can live with that, because once a Crab goes back into his shell, tough luck you'll be able to coax him out again.
I second this.
What do you consider whinning ? then we can give you a proper answer on how to deal with your cancers 😉
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Hahaah! Now that I've hurt you please be defensive and tell how long have you been without whinning or playing the victim 😆!! Jokes aside...I do have Cancers in my family and the defensive mode and relentless whinning is very suffocating. I do tend to liesten to them but at some point I see myself in a position where I'm liestening to the same story and same thing over and over again, all the days. Got a few tips on how to deal with this? Plus, has "overwhinning" ever put you problem, or are you aware how suffocating you can be sometimes?
P.S:It my seem I'm being agressive but I am honestly seeking for a cooperation here 😉