Detachment

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by OrangeS0daPop on Sunday, June 25, 2017 and has 14 replies.

How to Let Go of a Dead-End Situation

Letting go involves accepting the reality of the situation and focusing on self-care. Practice mindfulness and set boundaries to detach emotionally. Recognize that releasing attachment allows space for new opportunities and healing. It may be difficult, but it is often necessary for personal growth and peace.

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@OrangeS0daPop
9 Years

My feelings are a little involved in a situation that is a dead end. How do I let go. It is my only solution.

It is hard.

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@boxcarmirnta
11 Years1,000+ Posts

It's actually super simple... Find a girl who doesn't want dick!!!!! There are a million lesbians out there... Get one of those!!

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@Adreamuponwaking
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Find someone who knows who she is , what she wants and has the courage to live the life that she wants despite the inherent social backlash that comes with simply being who you are.

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@peo
9 Years

You already see that it's a dead end. That's a good start. At some point this will be a learning experience. Even though it's hard to see now.

Us cancers sure don't detach easy. Think about the kind of partner and relationship you want. How you would need your partner to be to have a relationship that fulfills you. If you're out, you might have an easier time connecting with someone who is out too. What kind of relationship does she want, does that correlate with that you want?

For example I can't date/relate to closeted women because I feel we come from such different points in life.