Best way to win a cancer ex back?

Posted by Rambee
Especially if there has been some history and drama? They have always stayed and worked it out before but this time things are different. What is the best avenue to take to win their hearts back?

Posted by LovesickCancer
The thing that you lot don't understand about cancer is that even though we know all kinds of love and appreciate each one for what it is, we really, truly, madly believe in true love, the kind that we know we will be with you in heaven, and choose you above all the angles that love us too.

When/if we know that you will not choose us, we keep on searching!, because we really, truly, madly believe that we will find them. We never ever give up on love, we will give up breathing, but I guarantee our last thoughts will be about love.

A lot of you lot here talk about loving cancers, but then you move on, too quick for our liking, or talk degoraratory.

The lifelong respect for us is a test.

Posted by LovesickCancer
@See Scorpiofish, I get what you're saying, and I kinda think I know you're story with your cancer, but you saying bad crabs etc, just proves that our bad sides are never accepted the way we accept others.

We have to fight stereotypes, and it seems like we are not allowed to be a little bad, without being the rotten apple.

Every behaviour has a reason, childish, rude behaviour is not that persons core personality, and sometimes it takes someone special who has the understanding to help bring out the best in us.

I still remember your posts about being torn between two cancers, just feeling for another person means you cannot fully feel for the one you're with.

Cancer knows when you truly love them, (their version, not your version), it's the only thing we've been looking for and we sure know how to tell.

Scorpio (for me) has been the only sign that ever had that potential and vice versa, so don't give up, as you've said you know you want cancer in other posts.

Also about that girl, I know it's not my place, but words is all we've ever heard, they really are overrated and they're our forte anyway, we need action, someone that can appease our cardinal.

Posted by ScorpioFish

Posted by LovesickCancer



As far as the Crab's behavior toward me, I was innocuous about the whole thing. When she flaked on me, I told her it wasn't a big deal and even offered to get her some medicine. When she was rude to me, I completely got quiet. When she flirted with me, I called her the next day on the phone to talk and invite her out with our friends. When she was rude again and cut me out, I ignored her but yet she spent the entire Tuesday night last week staring at me.

Please help!!!

Hahaha.

If I go talk to her, she will regard me as some weirdo. If I ignore her and talk to other people, she gets frustrated.

WTH—?

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Oh Gawd, Cancer ladies can be bad this way. Really hard to say here but my 1st thought is she's testing you to see how much of her (read immature) bullshit you'll take. Cancer women get notoriously insecure, especially around the object of their affections, and so can manipulate and cause drama just to see how you'll respond. If you're a pisces, you should be able to relate to this on some level. I'm sorry but you pisces male cats can play this game HARD CORE and I've had you play it on me. That's part of what makes this a challenging combo: whose going to let their guard down first? whose playing games? whose feeling insecure? It's very exhausting just reading this crap, right? Welcome to the Cancer/Piscean world, baby. It's wet, murky and got knows where it's going. Prolly round and round in circles. But the sex will be great at least. Two water signs making love is as hot as it gets.

But yeah, Cancer ladies are a lot of work. But we're not all a piece of work either.

Posted by CluelessCancer
suck his dick.

Oh Gawd, Cancer ladies can be bad this way. Really hard to say here but my 1st thought is she's testing you to see how much of her (read immature) bullshit you'll take. Cancer women get notoriously insecure, especially around the object of their affections, and so can manipulate and cause drama just to see how you'll respond. If you're a pisces, you should be able to relate to this on some level. I'm sorry but you pisces male cats can play this game HARD CORE and I've had you play it on me. That's part of what makes this a challenging combo: whose going to let their guard down first? whose playing games? whose feeling insecure? It's very exhausting just reading this crap, right? Welcome to the Cancer/Piscean world, baby. It's wet, murky and got knows where it's going. Prolly round and round in circles. But the sex will be great at least. Two water signs making love is as hot as it gets.

But yeah, Cancer ladies are a lot of work. But we're not all a piece of work either.

Cancer women get notoriously insecure, especially around the object of their affections,

Posted by ScorpioFish

Hahahaha, thank you!

I know. 😢

So what's my next move?

I found a video clip that summarizes the situation perfectly, haha!

Posted by ScorpioFish

Cancer women get notoriously insecure, especially around the object of their affections,

Right!

So this might explain why she was rude to me and cut me off, yet stared at me all night a week ago after I tried to ignore her?

Dammit, and I will most likely see her again tonight.

Hellllppppp!!!!

What do I do?

I hate ignoring her, but what choice do I really have here?

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That's one aggressive fishy. That poor widdle crabbie was just trying to defend his food. Does this make pisces aggressive poachers? Man, get your own vittles! Seriously, this vid makes Cancer women seem harmless and we're anything but. Cute video tho. Thanks for sharing.

Hope things went well last night. I'm not sure how to counsel you to play this. If she's flirting up other men and trying to play one off the other, she's just not worth the effort. Way too immature. This may be a case of no matter how much energy you put into it, it just won't work. If that's the case your best bet is to try to avoid places where you will meet in public, if that's possible. Sometimes we end up falling for people who just aren't good for us. And it sucks when that happens.

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Okay ScorpFish, if there's one racket a pisces man can play that drives us Cancer ladies up a fruit cake tree, it's blowing hot and cold. Now maybe it's not game playing on your part. Maybe you just need that emo space but lemme tell you, it really messes with our insecure heads. So if you have to keep dealing with Miss Young and Stupid, might as well blow hot & cold. She could use a little piscean play-back just to show her how it's done. But you're better off cutting bait, you know. Cuz no matter how you play this, she

Okay ScorpFish, if there's one racket a pisces man can play that drives us Cancer ladies up a fruit cake tree, it's blowing hot and cold. Now maybe it's not game playing on your part. Maybe you just need that emo space but lemme tell you, it really messes with our insecure heads. So if you have to keep dealing with Miss Young and Stupid, might as well blow hot & cold. She could use a little piscean play-back just to show her how it's done. But you're better off cutting bait, you know. Cuz no matter how you play this, she'll still be young and stupid.

Posted by ScorpioFish

Okay ScorpFish, if there's one racket a pisces man can play that drives us Cancer ladies up a fruit cake tree, it's blowing hot and cold. Now maybe it's not game playing on your part. Maybe you just need that emo space but lemme tell you, it really messes with our insecure heads. So if you have to keep dealing with Miss Young and Stupid, might as well blow hot & cold. She could use a little piscean play-back just to show her how it's done. But you're better off cutting bait, you know. Cuz no matter how you play this, she'll still be young and stupid.

I am really sensing how true your words are in all of this. Last night, I just chilled out, talked to my friends, flirted with a few girls on the team (who flirted back), and texted a few girls back on my phone (all of which she saw). What makes me nuts is why she sat down at my table again. Why can't she just be like other girls who don't want a guy and just avoid him altogether? Why the incessant need to either observe or sit close to me, yet not say anything? And then flirt with 3 idiotic younger guys right in front of me? Oy, what a mess. I cannot tell you how much I appreciate the advice of you, LunarMaiden, Aquavita and MoonArtist in all of this. All of your words are something off of a golden tablet as far as I am concerned, and it will certainly never be forgotten. I really do owe you all big time for this, because I would have probably blown it by now without your help.

🙂

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