Posted by GoldigoldHe led me to believe for a whole year that he was a single dad; I'm already involved. And he is very unhappy, it took a lot for him to come clean.
Is that someone you're interested in, I wouldn't want to get involved.
Posted by ozzzyYou watch your whore mouth with calling Superman gay!
Why are you girls so interested in a Cancer man? It is not a good match for you, unless you have a lot of water in your chart, or he has a lot of air or fire in his.
But, I noticed that most Cancer men are bi. Interesting. I know two of them that are, and Tom Cruise is also bi, or even gay. How can you still be attracted to gay? I mean, it is not so manly anymore...
Imagine that some super hero like superman is gay? It would not be sexy anymore, right. 🙂
Posted by ozzzy
Why are you girls so interested in a Cancer man? It is not a good match for you, unless you have a lot of water in your chart, or he has a lot of air or fire in his.
But, I noticed that most Cancer men are bi. Interesting. I know two of them that are, and Tom Cruise is also bi, or even gay. How can you still be attracted to gay? I mean, it is not so manly anymore...
Imagine that some super hero like superman is gay? It would not be sexy anymore, right. 🙂
Posted by tiki33We've never had sex.
He is not unhappy, it's just better to make it appear that he's unhappy to justify his lack of character. He can fall back on being unhappy as the reason for his poor character.
I'm unhappy so I lied. I hate being gay and judged so I lied when really he's just a liar and a good one too if he managed to lie to you for a whole year.
I don't know if you've used protected sex but if you haven't been 100% protected for the year you've known him then the first thing you must do is go get yourself STD tested.
Then you slap yourself into reality. This man is gay and has been living the gay life for 10 years or maybe even longer and he's a liar which is enough for any woman to RUN.
You will never know when this man is being honest. He will lie about leaving his lover just like he lied to your face for a year. He's a liar and a cheater. How can you ever trust this man not to hurt you.
Posted by ozzzysuperman was always a little on the pristine side, now that you mention it ..
Why are you girls so interested in a Cancer man? It is not a good match for you, unless you have a lot of water in your chart, or he has a lot of air or fire in his.
But, I noticed that most Cancer men are bi. Interesting. I know two of them that are, and Tom Cruise is also bi, or even gay. How can you still be attracted to gay? I mean, it is not so manly anymore...
Imagine that some super hero like superman is gay? It would not be sexy anymore, right. 🙂
Posted by CrabraIt's a lot to think about. It's all very confusing for me right now. I just wish things had truly been as he had originally presented them to be... I thought we had a chance at a future. He is just all over the place. And his partner is super possessive and controlling. I've no qualms over a bi man, he's very very hetero, which is strange. He is somewhat homophobe and says demeaning things about gays all the time, which is so crazy. I've no idea sometimes who he really is - and they say Geminis have several personalities...
Cancer's don't leave, they kick you out 😉
Anywho, I am bi, and it changes nothing. I am still monogamous. There's no loophole here. Being a one-woman-only guy means no other women, AND NO other men either.
So if a bi cancer leaves his current male partner for a female partner, you are literally at the exact same risk for him to go back to his ex, or leave you for someone else as if he had left a female partner for you. But here is the bigger problem: he is currently messing around with both of you.
Listen to @tiki33, this is a selfish crab. Don't EVER listen to the promises of an involved man. In fact, just stay the hell away from him.
Posted by GemiGirl78Posted by CrabraIt's a lot to think about. It's all very confusing for me right now. I just wish things had truly been as he had originally presented them to be... I thought we had a chance at a future. He is just all over the place. And his partner is super possessive and controlling. I've no qualms over a bi man, he's very very hetero, which is strange. He is somewhat homophobe and says demeaning things about gays all the time, which is so crazy. I've no idea sometimes who he really is - and they say Geminis have several personalities...
Cancer's don't leave, they kick you out 😉
Anywho, I am bi, and it changes nothing. I am still monogamous. There's no loophole here. Being a one-woman-only guy means no other women, AND NO other men either.
So if a bi cancer leaves his current male partner for a female partner, you are literally at the exact same risk for him to go back to his ex, or leave you for someone else as if he had left a female partner for you. But here is the bigger problem: he is currently messing around with both of you.
Listen to @tiki33, this is a selfish crab. Don't EVER listen to the promises of an involved man. In fact, just stay the hell away from him.
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Posted by CrabraHis Venus is in GeminiPosted by GemiGirl78Posted by CrabraIt's a lot to think about. It's all very confusing for me right now. I just wish things had truly been as he had originally presented them to be... I thought we had a chance at a future. He is just all over the place. And his partner is super possessive and controlling. I've no qualms over a bi man, he's very very hetero, which is strange. He is somewhat homophobe and says demeaning things about gays all the time, which is so crazy. I've no idea sometimes who he really is - and they say Geminis have several personalities...
Cancer's don't leave, they kick you out 😉
Anywho, I am bi, and it changes nothing. I am still monogamous. There's no loophole here. Being a one-woman-only guy means no other women, AND NO other men either.
So if a bi cancer leaves his current male partner for a female partner, you are literally at the exact same risk for him to go back to his ex, or leave you for someone else as if he had left a female partner for you. But here is the bigger problem: he is currently messing around with both of you.
Listen to @tiki33, this is a selfish crab. Don't EVER listen to the promises of an involved man. In fact, just stay the hell away from him.
He might have strong Gemini influence in his chart, though crabs can be chameleons, but it's done to adapt to prevent confusion, not really cause it, which is more along a Gem trait.
But yeah, I would just end up repeating what I already told you. This is a dead end. Find someone more available.
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Posted by GemiGirl78Run.Posted by GoldigoldHe led me to believe for a whole year that he was a single dad; I'm already involved. And he is very unhappy, it took a lot for him to come clean.
Is that someone you're interested in, I wouldn't want to get involved.
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Posted by FutureSeekerYup same guy - it's been a roller coaster!Posted by GemiGirl78Is this the same guy from a few months ago?
@Goldigold
Not sure, first I need to see if he loves me enough to pick me over this other long-term bad relationship of his. He needs to fight for our love.
Has he been hot and cold?
You have been chasing him for quite a while.
From what I read and the people on here- if a Cancer loves you, you will be their world.
Healthy relationships aren't built on lies and secrets.
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Posted by FutureSeekerI think you are right... I feel like this is going nowhere but bad; I need to jump off... It's just hard cause if not for the drama, he's my best friend and we get along like brother and sister. I stopped dating 4 years ago and just gave up; I said if God wanted something good for me to just drop him on my doorstep and then this happens. It's truly depressing. Like I can't ever get anything right...Posted by GemiGirl78Posted by FutureSeekerYup same guy - it's been a roller coaster!Posted by GemiGirl78Is this the same guy from a few months ago?
@Goldigold
Not sure, first I need to see if he loves me enough to pick me over this other long-term bad relationship of his. He needs to fight for our love.
Has he been hot and cold?
You have been chasing him for quite a while.
From what I read and the people on here- if a Cancer loves you, you will be their world.
Healthy relationships aren't built on lies and secrets.
Girrrrrl please go find yourself someone with a good character. Someone who wants YOU. You can jump off this sinking ship at any time-
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Posted by GemiGirl78Unfortunately you have to watch the bi ones. I had a cancer guy friend who had numerous relationships with both men and women and when it would end with one, they would go back to the other. I'm not saying that all are the same but I would be weary of beginning a relationship with one just due to the fact that you don't want to feel like an option. Lady friend I had got sexually involved with the Bi Cancer man and just when she thought things were peachy-keen, he dropped her. Essentially, you could say he just used her as a FWB while he was looking for someone else or "keeping the options open" but in the end she was the one who lost...she was a Virgo.
If a cancer man is bi and has chosen to live a gay life for over 10years; will he leave his gay partner if now he decides that he is deeply in love again with a woman. I've read cancers never leave their wife & kids but this is such a different scenario..
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