Can anyone help me understand this Cancerman?

I think we are missing a very important piece of the puzzle. What did your husband say during this confrontation? Did he say "if you so much as even look at my wife, I will kill you" or something along those lines? Was the Cancer threatened? If so, then his actions are normal, I would think. It is my understanding that Cancers do not like confrontation of any kind.

How would he explain to his wife that he caught a beat down from another woman's husband over said woman? I think you should leave it alone. Your husband does not sound like someone to play with.

Yea, I guess I did...I guess I am just not used to someone giving me so much attention for so long without any feelings. Not how I am. I guess that is why I posted under Cancer boards, I wanted Cancerian's perspective.

Thanks for your insight.