Cancer and Convenient Relationships

Anyone know of any cancers who stay in a relationship based on convenience?

I dunno about convenience, but I know plenty of Cancers who stay in relationships because of comfort, security, and familiarity. Fear of the unknown or anything new is another factor.

Yes. All of them.

Posted by Shellyd238
Yes. All of them.

LOL

If i'm not happy I walk.

The only reason I stay in a relationship is out of love.

Posted by Shellyd238
Yes. All of them.

Wow, you know every Cancerian in the world, huh? 😛

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Shellyd238
Yes. All of them.

Wow, you know every Cancerian in the world, huh? 😛

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I think she means the ones in her circle.

Let me talk about the ones in my circle.

My cancer BFF was in love with me, borderline obsessed. I told him several times that I couldn't be with him and that he would have to move on with another girl for us to remain friends. So the guy gets into a relationship with the girl that I introduced him to. He had a three yr relationship with her but he always loved me and if I gave him the slightest hint that I want him, he would've instantaneous leave her and come to me. His gf sensed that and asked me to leave his life, and for his betterment, I did. As touching as that is, I wouldn't want to be such a cancer's gf because that's pitiful. I would say he was with her out of convenience because he couldn't get the girl he actually wanted.

I got plenty of stories like this to share.

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Shellyd238
Yes. All of them.

Wow, you know every Cancerian in the world, huh? 😛

I think she means the ones in her circle.

Let me talk about the ones in my circle.

My cancer BFF was in love with me, borderline obsessed. I told him several times that I couldn't be with him and that he would have to move on with another girl for us to remain friends. So the guy gets into a relationship with the girl that I introduced him to. He had a three yr relationship with her but he always loved me and if I gave him the slightest hint that I want him, he would've instantaneous leave her and come to me. His gf sensed that and asked me to leave his life, and for his betterment, I did. As touching as that is, I wouldn't want to be such a cancer's gf because that's pitiful. I would say he was with her out of convenience because he couldn't get the girl he actually wanted.

I got plenty of stories like this to share.

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Nope. i actually do know every Cancer in the world. 😛

Posted by Shellyd238

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Shellyd238
Yes. All of them.

Wow, you know every Cancerian in the world, huh? 😛

I think she means the ones in her circle.

Let me talk about the ones in my circle.

My cancer BFF was in love with me, borderline obsessed. I told him several times that I couldn't be with him and that he would have to move on with another girl for us to remain friends. So the guy gets into a relationship with the girl that I introduced him to. He had a three yr relationship with her but he always loved me and if I gave him the slightest hint that I want him, he would've instantaneous leave her and come to me. His gf sensed that and asked me to leave his life, and for his betterment, I did. As touching as that is, I wouldn't want to be such a cancer's gf because that's pitiful. I would say he was with her out of convenience because he couldn't get the girl he actually wanted.

I got plenty of stories like this to share.

Nope. i actually do know every Cancer in the world. 😛

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But for real tho, they like to be in relationships that make them seem like their lives are perfect. The guys anyway, will choose the girl that seems to fit into their lifestyle and family, whether they actually love them or not. Then they end up cheating on those girls, sometime with the girl that maybe, just maybe, they really wanted to be with in the first place. But I guess because she wasn't the ideal, perfect, trophy wife material, she just gets the title of FWB/Booty call, and mistress.

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Shellyd238
Yes. All of them.

Wow, you know every Cancerian in the world, huh? 😛

I think she means the ones in her circle.

Let me talk about the ones in my circle.

My cancer BFF was in love with me, borderline obsessed. I told him several times that I couldn't be with him and that he would have to move on with another girl for us to remain friends. So the guy gets into a relationship with the girl that I introduced him to. He had a three yr relationship with her but he always loved me and if I gave him the slightest hint that I want him, he would've instantaneous leave her and come to me. His gf sensed that and asked me to leave his life, and for his betterment, I did. As touching as that is, I wouldn't want to be such a cancer's gf because that's pitiful. I would say he was with her out of convenience because he couldn't get the girl he actually wanted.

I got plenty of stories like this to share.

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This scenario sounds so familiar.

Posted by Shellyd238

Posted by Shellyd238

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Shellyd238
Yes. All of them.

Wow, you know every Cancerian in the world, huh? 😛

I think she means the ones in her circle.

Let me talk about the ones in my circle.

My cancer BFF was in love with me, borderline obsessed. I told him several times that I couldn't be with him and that he would have to move on with another girl for us to remain friends. So the guy gets into a relationship with the girl that I introduced him to. He had a three yr relationship with her but he always loved me and if I gave him the slightest hint that I want him, he would've instantaneous leave her and come to me. His gf sensed that and asked me to leave his life, and for his betterment, I did. As touching as that is, I wouldn't want to be such a cancer's gf because that's pitiful. I would say he was with her out of convenience because he couldn't get the girl he actually wanted.

I got plenty of stories like this to share.

Nope. i actually do know every Cancer in the world. 😛

But for real tho, they like to be in relationships that make them seem like their lives are perfect. The guys anyway, will choose the girl that seems to fit into their lifestyle and family, whether they actually love them or not. Then they end up cheating on those girls, sometime with the girl that maybe, just maybe, they really wanted to be with in the first place. But I guess because she wasn't the ideal, perfect, trophy wife material, she just gets the title of FWB/Booty call, and mistress.

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So this type of situation is totally standard.

Posted by Shellyd238

Posted by Shellyd238

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Shellyd238
Yes. All of them.

Wow, you know every Cancerian in the world, huh? 😛

I think she means the ones in her circle.

Let me talk about the ones in my circle.

My cancer BFF was in love with me, borderline obsessed. I told him several times that I couldn't be with him and that he would have to move on with another girl for us to remain friends. So the guy gets into a relationship with the girl that I introduced him to. He had a three yr relationship with her but he always loved me and if I gave him the slightest hint that I want him, he would've instantaneous leave her and come to me. His gf sensed that and asked me to leave his life, and for his betterment, I did. As touching as that is, I wouldn't want to be such a cancer's gf because that's pitiful. I would say he was with her out of convenience because he couldn't get the girl he actually wanted.

I got plenty of stories like this to share.

Nope. i actually do know every Cancer in the world. 😛

But for real tho, they like to be in relationships that make them seem like their lives are perfect. The guys anyway, will choose the girl that seems to fit into their lifestyle and family, whether they actually love them or not. Then they end up cheating on those girls, sometime with the girl that maybe, just maybe, they really wanted to be with in the first place. But I guess because she wasn't the ideal, perfect, trophy wife material, she just gets the title of FWB/Booty call, and mistress.

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Nah, I disagree. The cancer I know are dating all these non domesticated, borderline trashy women that mommy wouldn't approve of. Although they do hide it from mom. I think them dating the woman that fits into their lifestyle and family applies to all of us. As for cheating, that's not to say that they cheat with women who they really wanted to be with. It's more that they wanna explore their raunchy side with a woman who is not their pure wife.

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Posted by Shellyd238

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Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Shellyd238
Yes. All of them.

Wow, you know every Cancerian in the world, huh? 😛

I think she means the ones in her circle.

Let me talk about the ones in my circle.

My cancer BFF was in love with me, borderline obsessed. I told him several times that I couldn't be with him and that he would have to move on with another girl for us to remain friends. So the guy gets into a relationship with the girl that I introduced him to. He had a three yr relationship with her but he always loved me and if I gave him the slightest hint that I want him, he would've instantaneous leave her and come to me. His gf sensed that and asked me to leave his life, and for his betterment, I did. As touching as that is, I wouldn't want to be such a cancer's gf because that's pitiful. I would say he was with her out of convenience because he couldn't get the girl he actually wanted.

I got plenty of stories like this to share.

Nope. i actually do know every Cancer in the world. 😛

But for real tho, they like to be in relationships that make them seem like their lives are perfect. The guys anyway, will choose the girl that seems to fit into their lifestyle and family, whether they actually love them or not. Then they end up cheating on those girls, sometime with the girl that maybe, just maybe, they really wanted to be with in the first place. But I guess because she wasn't the ideal, perfect, trophy wife material, she just gets the title of FWB/Booty call, and mistress.

So this type of situation is totally standard.

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I thought you were dating an Aqua 🤔

I think most men who can't be alone stay in relationships that they not really into ..until they find someone they are into.
Being a cancer thing noo...I think most cancers really need or want a emotional connection ,being in a relationship with no emotional connection would torment a cancer.

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Posted by sparkle11

Posted by Shellyd238

Posted by Shellyd238

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Shellyd238
Yes. All of them.

Wow, you know every Cancerian in the world, huh? 😛

I think she means the ones in her circle.

Let me talk about the ones in my circle.

My cancer BFF was in love with me, borderline obsessed. I told him several times that I couldn't be with him and that he would have to move on with another girl for us to remain friends. So the guy gets into a relationship with the girl that I introduced him to. He had a three yr relationship with her but he always loved me and if I gave him the slightest hint that I want him, he would've instantaneous leave her and come to me. His gf sensed that and asked me to leave his life, and for his betterment, I did. As touching as that is, I wouldn't want to be such a cancer's gf because that's pitiful. I would say he was with her out of convenience because he couldn't get the girl he actually wanted.

I got plenty of stories like this to share.

Nope. i actually do know every Cancer in the world. 😛

But for real tho, they like to be in relationships that make them seem like their lives are perfect. The guys anyway, will choose the girl that seems to fit into their lifestyle and family, whether they actually love them or not. Then they end up cheating on those girls, sometime with the girl that maybe, just maybe, they really wanted to be with in the first place. But I guess because she wasn't the ideal, perfect, trophy wife material, she just gets the title of FWB/Booty call, and mistress.

So this type of situation is totally standard.

I thought you were dating an Aqua 🤔

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Great memory=)
I was dating aquas til a few months ago, when my cancer ex i was with for 5 years came back into the picture.
I attract a lot of aqua energy but it doesnt stablize me into a serious relationship. I went thru a phase where every guy in my field was aqua.
Now my exboyfriend is my current boyfriend for the past few months.
Hes an aqua moon, actually.

Posted by butterfly30
I think most men who can't be alone stay in relationships that they not really into ..until they find someone they are into.
Being a cancer thing noo...I think most cancers really need or want a emotional connection ,being in a relationship with no emotional connection would torment a cancer.

Agreed! If I'm seeing a guy and sense no emotional/ mental attraction I'm out.

Cancer male here, i would stay in a convenient relationship for no more than a year or two.

Posted by sparkle11
Anyone know of any cancers who stay in a relationship based on convenience?

What was the convenience though for you?

What was the inconvenience for you too?

Posted by sparkle11
Anyone know of any cancers who stay in a relationship based on convenience?

Oh, Dear Goodness yes.

I know a TON of Cancer women who stay in atrociously bad relationships just for the sake of having a relationship.

It's got to be one of their worst decisions, but it ain't my problem.

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Shellyd238

Posted by Shellyd238

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Shellyd238
Yes. All of them.

Wow, you know every Cancerian in the world, huh? 😛

I think she means the ones in her circle.

Let me talk about the ones in my circle.

My cancer BFF was in love with me, borderline obsessed. I told him several times that I couldn't be with him and that he would have to move on with another girl for us to remain friends. So the guy gets into a relationship with the girl that I introduced him to. He had a three yr relationship with her but he always loved me and if I gave him the slightest hint that I want him, he would've instantaneous leave her and come to me. His gf sensed that and asked me to leave his life, and for his betterment, I did. As touching as that is, I wouldn't want to be such a cancer's gf because that's pitiful. I would say he was with her out of convenience because he couldn't get the girl he actually wanted.

I got plenty of stories like this to share.

Nope. i actually do know every Cancer in the world. 😛

But for real tho, they like to be in relationships that make them seem like their lives are perfect. The guys anyway, will choose the girl that seems to fit into their lifestyle and family, whether they actually love them or not. Then they end up cheating on those girls, sometime with the girl that maybe, just maybe, they really wanted to be with in the first place. But I guess because she wasn't the ideal, perfect, trophy wife material, she just gets the title of FWB/Booty call, and mistress.

Nah, I disagree. The cancer I know are dating all these non domesticated, borderline trashy women that mommy wouldn't approve of. Although they do hide it from mom. I think them dating the woman that fits into their lifestyle and family applies to all of us. As for cheating, that's not to say that they cheat with women who they really wanted to be with. It's more that they wanna explore their raunchy side with a woman who is not their pure wife.

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Just my experience. "slumming" is pretty typical of them before they are ready to settle down, but see if they stay with those girls that they hide from their moms.

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Shellyd238
Yes. All of them.

Wow, you know every Cancerian in the world, huh? 😛

I think she means the ones in her circle.

Let me talk about the ones in my circle.

My cancer BFF was in love with me, borderline obsessed. I told him several times that I couldn't be with him and that he would have to move on with another girl for us to remain friends. So the guy gets into a relationship with the girl that I introduced him to. He had a three yr relationship with her but he always loved me and if I gave him the slightest hint that I want him, he would've instantaneous leave her and come to me. His gf sensed that and asked me to leave his life, and for his betterment, I did. As touching as that is, I wouldn't want to be such a cancer's gf because that's pitiful. I would say he was with her out of convenience because he couldn't get the girl he actually wanted.

I got plenty of stories like this to share.

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how do you know that he would've instantaneously left her if you gave him the slightest hint you wanted him?

Posted by Shellyd238

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Shellyd238

Posted by Shellyd238

Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Shellyd238
Yes. All of them.

Wow, you know every Cancerian in the world, huh? 😛

I think she means the ones in her circle.

Let me talk about the ones in my circle.

My cancer BFF was in love with me, borderline obsessed. I told him several times that I couldn't be with him and that he would have to move on with another girl for us to remain friends. So the guy gets into a relationship with the girl that I introduced him to. He had a three yr relationship with her but he always loved me and if I gave him the slightest hint that I want him, he would've instantaneous leave her and come to me. His gf sensed that and asked me to leave his life, and for his betterment, I did. As touching as that is, I wouldn't want to be such a cancer's gf because that's pitiful. I would say he was with her out of convenience because he couldn't get the girl he actually wanted.

I got plenty of stories like this to share.

Nope. i actually do know every Cancer in the world. 😛

But for real tho, they like to be in relationships that make them seem like their lives are perfect. The guys anyway, will choose the girl that seems to fit into their lifestyle and family, whether they actually love them or not. Then they end up cheating on those girls, sometime with the girl that maybe, just maybe, they really wanted to be with in the first place. But I guess because she wasn't the ideal, perfect, trophy wife material, she just gets the title of FWB/Booty call, and mistress.

Nah, I disagree. The cancer I know are dating all these non domesticated, borderline trashy women that mommy wouldn't approve of. Although they do hide it from mom. I think them dating the woman that fits into their lifestyle and family applies to all of us. As for cheating, that's not to say that they cheat with women who they really wanted to be with. It's more that they wanna explore their raunchy side with a woman who is not their pure wife.

Just my experience. "slumming" is pretty typical of them before they are ready to settle down, but see if they stay with those girls that they hide from their moms.

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I would lo

I would love to see if they do end up with these qwomen because they go in it thinking they are killing time, but they end up getting attached.

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Posted by Shellyd238
Yes. All of them.

Wow, you know every Cancerian in the world, huh? 😛

I think she means the ones in her circle.

Let me talk about the ones in my circle.

My cancer BFF was in love with me, borderline obsessed. I told him several times that I couldn't be with him and that he would have to move on with another girl for us to remain friends. So the guy gets into a relationship with the girl that I introduced him to. He had a three yr relationship with her but he always loved me and if I gave him the slightest hint that I want him, he would've instantaneous leave her and come to me. His gf sensed that and asked me to leave his life, and for his betterment, I did. As touching as that is, I wouldn't want to be such a cancer's gf because that's pitiful. I would say he was with her out of convenience because he couldn't get the girl he actually wanted.

I got plenty of stories like this to share.

how do you know that he would've instantaneously left her if you gave him the slightest hint you wanted him?

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For several reasons:
For the one yr that I did stay his friend after I introduced him to his gf, he kept whining and pouting about how he can't get over me. That's also one of the reasons Why I agreed with his gf on leaving his life because I wasn't good for his emotional advancement. When I left, he kept messaging me and now years later, believe it or not, to this day he messages me every year to see if I'm available.

Posted by sunkisses26
how is it convenient to be in an unhappy relationship?

Convenient relationships are one in which you are not happy in but you stay in it for various reasons like:

a) readily available sex
b) benefits received without any effort. The benefits can range from anything like the woman cooking, cleaning and doing things for you
c) you don't want to go through the beginning stages of dating, which can be really daunting
d) settling to the second best because the main got away. Instead of waiting and casually dating for the next one you will really truly like to appear, you end up settling for the next person who showed up on your doorstep.
e) not knowing how to be alone (I think this one applies to a lot of humans)

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Posted by Shellyd238
Yes. All of them.

Wow, you know every Cancerian in the world, huh? 😛

I think she means the ones in her circle.

Let me talk about the ones in my circle.

My cancer BFF was in love with me, borderline obsessed. I told him several times that I couldn't be with him and that he would have to move on with another girl for us to remain friends. So the guy gets into a relationship with the girl that I introduced him to. He had a three yr relationship with her but he always loved me and if I gave him the slightest hint that I want him, he would've instantaneous leave her and come to me. His gf sensed that and asked me to leave his life, and for his betterment, I did. As touching as that is, I wouldn't want to be such a cancer's gf because that's pitiful. I would say he was with her out of convenience because he couldn't get the girl he actually wanted.

I got plenty of stories like this to share.

how do you know that he would've instantaneously left her if you gave him the slightest hint you wanted him?

For several reasons:
For the one yr that I did stay his friend after I introduced him to his gf, he kept whining and pouting about how he can't get over me. That's also one of the reasons Why I agreed with his gf on leaving his life because I wasn't good for his emotional advancement. When I left, he kept messaging me and now years later, believe it or not, to this day he messages me every year to see if I'm available.

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that's a real shame.

I know a few Cancer men who stayed and some who left.

He was with a woman for 17 years, five children, never married. He cheated on her repeatedly. He was also emotionally abusive to her. He could not be with the love of his life at the time. Apparently she couldn't have children. He stayed with the woman for 17 years because she worshipped the ground he walked on, and did everything he asked....she also had 5 of his children so he felt the need to try to work it out with her. The love of his life re-entered his life 17 years later, and he moved out of his house and began a relationship with her as if his 17 year relationship never happened.

I don't think it's convenient relationships as much as growing attached to people beyond the practicality of the relationship.We don't want to lose the people we love in our lives.

No but when it's time to leave it's going to be the women who buck up and get more independent.

I don't know any. I do know a scorpio, a taurus, a virgo, a pisces, a couple of libras, an aries and a leo as well as some I don't know their sign who stay out of duty, convenience (the reputation, the money, etc) when they're unhappy and miserable. I'm not sure this is a sign thing as much as it is a maturity and insecurity thing.

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Posted by sunkisses26
how is it convenient to be in an unhappy relationship?

Convenient relationships are one in which you are not happy in but you stay in it for various reasons like:

a) readily available sex
b) benefits received without any effort. The benefits can range from anything like the woman cooking, cleaning and doing things for you
c) you don't want to go through the beginning stages of dating, which can be really daunting
d) settling to the second best because the main got away. Instead of waiting and casually dating for the next one you will really truly like to appear, you end up settling for the next person who showed up on your doorstep.
e) not knowing how to be alone (I think this one applies to a lot of humans)

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i think i would like to, but i know i couldn't .... i can't even stay in my job, at first its fun because you're learning, you feel passionate about it and things like that, but later it gets boring, and the more i stay the more depressed or sad i become, i'm constantly chaning my working place, and same thing with relationships, not changing so fast, but if i don't feel inlove with a person anymore, i feel myself and my energy fading and i don't want that, i leave as hard as it is, i give 100% into everything i do either relationship or work or something else, but when i leave i leave, i think it's more my sag moon than my cancer sun....i also have huge standarts and don't like to lower them, also i have my own rules i never break, some of them go against my heart, but some things just have to be done regardless of how you feel about them. i think you need to know full chart not only sun sign to make predictions and get to know a person a little bit better, you see whats important to them and everythin..i know how to be alone, i've been without a girl for 3yrs back in the day, and the thing is ,when you learn to be alone, you know you don't need another person to make you happy, it takes rly good person to make you feel like you want them or need them in your life , either way, many different stories could be told by same sun signs 😄

Posted by rakac
i think i would like to, but i know i couldn't .... i can't even stay in my job, at first its fun because you're learning, you feel passionate about it and things like that, but later it gets boring, and the more i stay the more depressed or sad i become, i'm constantly chaning my working place, and same thing with relationships, not changing so fast, but if i don't feel inlove with a person anymore, i feel myself and my energy fading and i don't want that, i leave as hard as it is, i give 100% into everything i do either relationship or work or something else, but when i leave i leave, i think it's more my sag moon than my cancer sun....i also have huge standarts and don't like to lower them, also i have my own rules i never break, some of them go against my heart, but some things just have to be done regardless of how you feel about them. i think you need to know full chart not only sun sign to make predictions and get to know a person a little bit better, you see whats important to them and everythin..i know how to be alone, i've been without a girl for 3yrs back in the day, and the thing is ,when you learn to be alone, you know you don't need another person to make you happy, it takes rly good person to make you feel like you want them or need them in your life , either way, many different stories could be told by same sun signs 😄

Those are all characteristic of saggie moons😉