So I’ve known this cancer guy for a very long time. We worked together a few years back, but still stayed in contact, even though we no longer work together. We’ve always got on very well, and in all honesty, I’ve always liked him more then a friend, but never said anything, as I didn’t think he would be interested. We did used to flirt, but it was just for laughs. Anyway recently the flirting went a step further and we ended up sleeping together, which has now happened more than once. We had a conversation on what this would be between us, and both come to a mutual agreement, but lately he’s been extremely distant. He doesn’t ask to see me, he doesn’t txt me. I seem to be doing all the txting (I don’t txt too often, maybe once a week) and I find the conversation to be a struggle, and things were never like this before. I don’t know if I’ve done something to piss him off or turn him off even. He isn’t saying much to me at all. Is this normal cancer behavior? As this is the first cancerian guy I’ve ever dealt with. A part of me regrets sleeping with him now, as I liked how things were before. To be honest, I feel like he’s treating me like someone he’s just met. I mean we wasn’t the best of friends beforehand, but I classed him as a friend, and I thought he saw me as friend also. He’s confided a few family issues with me in the past, and I’ve always kept his secrets. He even used to come to me for advice about women he dated a few years back, and I would do the same too. I didn’t expect him to behave this way with me.
