Cancer man ignoring me

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So Cancer man was a friend I went on a couple dates a long time ago. He found me on social media and reconnected w me. A couple mos. of hard core flirting and we both seemed very into each other. He’s getting out of a marriage and it became obvious he still had baggage with his wife and until they were actually divorced and moved on I was hesitant to be more than “friends”... basically I meant let’s take things way back and move slow, so as

Not to get played or hurt. He seemed upset by this and I went into a long text about not wanting to get hurt because I really like him etc. no response. A few

Weeks later He responded to a nice text I sent but then ignored my texts after that. I called him out and he said he felt I was putting distance between us after the text I sent. I said fair enough but I didn’t want non existence. He said let’s catch up soon. But he still ignores the couple texts I sent over the last 4/5 weeks... so what’s his deal? He claims he’s wanted to be w me for a decade and then radio silent all together... how do I handle this? I’ve never experienced anything so 180 degrees
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So Cancer man was a friend I went on a couple dates a long time ago. He found me on social media and reconnected w me. A couple mos. of hard core flirting and we both seemed very into each other. He’s getting out of a marriage and it became obvious he still had baggage with his wife and until they were actually divorced and moved on I was hesitant to be more than “friends”... basically I meant let’s take things way back and move slow, so as

Not to get played or hurt. He seemed upset by this and I went into a long text about not wanting to get hurt because I really like him etc. no response. A few

Weeks later He responded to a nice text I sent but then ignored my texts after that. I called him out and he said he felt I was putting distance between us after the text I sent. I said fair enough but I didn’t want non existence. He said let’s catch up soon. But he still ignores the couple texts I sent over the last 4/5 weeks... so what’s his deal? He claims he’s wanted to be w me for a decade and then radio silent all together... how do I handle this? I’ve never experienced anything so 180 degrees
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Posted by Arielle83
Posted by 2Confused

Yeah I guess you’re right I thought the friendship mattered as much to him as it did to me but I guess not.... plus he led me to believe they were much farther along in the divorcing process than he actually is. I guess lesson learned smh

Did u know the wife?

The friendship probably does matter.

It’s just when ppl commit and then they’re free, they don’t want the responsibility of other people’s feelings.

He was probably looking for fwb with you, but your feelings are a factor.
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I only know of her through him and social media... they definitely seem separated but still grossly enmeshed... they still act married. There are kids. It’s all a bunch of messy drama that I don’t want to be triangled into. But I also didn’t want to get ignored either
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Posted by Erin
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If you don't want to be ignored, stop texting a guy who ignores you lol.

Are you new here? 🤔

Yep Gemi, I just joined yesterday :p

Just imagine if everyone who are ignored stopped texting people who ignoring them this place will DIE! Lmao

Haha yeah. I guess they would all have to become confused about something else.
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Who needs surprises like THAT?

At least at this point everybody knows the rules of the game...

He doesn’t text

Stop texting HIM

I’ve stopped but I want to know why HE STOPPED!

🤦‍♀️
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Posted by Erin
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Posted by Erin
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Posted by Erin
Posted by Gemitati
Posted by Erin

If you don't want to be ignored, stop texting a guy who ignores you lol.

Are you new here? 🤔

Yep Gemi, I just joined yesterday :p

Just imagine if everyone who are ignored stopped texting people who ignoring them this place will DIE! Lmao

Haha yeah. I guess they would all have to become confused about something else.

Who needs surprises like THAT?

At least at this point everybody knows the rules of the game...

He doesn’t text

Stop texting HIM

I’ve stopped but I want to know why HE STOPPED!

🤦‍♀️

"I asked him why he stopped texting me and he said it was because he didn't like me. But that CAN'T be true because he liked the picture of my cat on Facebook and hasn't blocked me. Is he into me but playing hard to get to test me? Maybe I should text him 42 times in a row so he knows I care."

Lol.
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Erin!

Trust me...42 times only works on sissies!

Real man need to be called, texted and stalked on social media at least 43 times per day. Are you lazy? You’ll never get a man if you’ll have a job that preventing you from getting man completely exhausted by you!!!!!!!!

Which part of stalking for good you don’t understand? Urghhhh

🤔👿