Cancer man is confusing me! Saying that ge is bad for me and I deserve someone's better

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Kokio
@Kokio
7 Years

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I am Scorpio we were friends till >> He was the first one who admitted his love for me and I admit to him too. I am the one who invest in the relationship and trying to be patient with him I always surprise him with gifts because we are in LDR I was so excited and I wanted to give everything to him that he said you're too excited I feel worry about you and you have to slow down. once I was sad from him so he told me please don t leave me I care about you because the last time I blocked him he said that he kept waiting for me and I told he I thought you don t care about me he said I care more than you can imagine. Yesterday he blocked me and when I called him he said that he is bad for me and I deserve someone who is better he is hurt because he hurts me and he always feel that he is bad. I tried to calm him down and giving him support and tell him to stay with me I accept him the way he is. ( Now I don t know what should I do! did he give up on me? should I talk with him again after I calm him down or wait for his reply?) Why he always feel bad however I haven t ever complained from being non talkative with me. Do I have to wait !! I feel that he doesn t have the strength to keep me and this is the second time he does so/ feeling he is bad for me (btw he rarely talk about himself and never mentioned his family or friends or his adventures stories) Should I tell him that I love him and wait his answer wether to carry on or break up ?
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Wanderlustcancerian24
@Wanderlustcancerian24
8 Years

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From what I got from this, you def need to let him go. He will probably come back... but don't wait around. Move on and find something that interests you. A hobby, or something. But to be honest it just sounds toxic. You blocked him and then you professing you can't be without him. A lot of codependency. Learn to live without him and keep it moving. He is more than likely guarded because you blocked him then came back and opened up to him. You hurt him, but that was super immature of him to hurt you back. it's just too passive!!!!!



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