VirgoVixxxen
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Cancer man...is this you?
Yep, sounds like my husband! Spot on!
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
Don't ever mention your past boyfriends because he will see vivid mental movies about where you have been, and who you have been with. Cancerians are very possessive, and if you mention ex-partners, he wil wallow in self-pity for days.
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lol, if I know who they are, it won't work.
Posted by mr.crabbyPosted by VirgoVixxxen
Don't ever mention your past boyfriends because he will see vivid mental movies about where you have been, and who you have been with. Cancerians are very possessive, and if you mention ex-partners, he wil wallow in self-pity for days.
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lol, if I know who they are, it won't work.click to expand
Hmmm...figured that much with you, mr. crabby.
Here's the second part...
Cancer men hide out in the dark corners of pubs, or at the edge of the in-crowd. If they use their extrovert shell to cover up their weaker personality they can be akward to spot. Sometimes they hover in the wings, hiding from possible failure, appearing as confident and convincing as any fire sign. But around the full moon you can usually spot them when they become touchy and moody, not at all like any fire sign!
He is easily flattered, and often gullible in the face of a strong protective woman. He has a cheeky, little-boy-lost appeal that he takes to parties in his search for the perfect soul-mate, and he needs one desperately for all his apparent self-confidence and arrogant manner. It's misleading. Beneath that gregarious shell is a soft heart. There will only ever be one woman at a time for a cancerian man-at least you can be assured of that.
Cancer men hide out in the dark corners of pubs, or at the edge of the in-crowd. If they use their extrovert shell to cover up their weaker personality they can be akward to spot. Sometimes they hover in the wings, hiding from possible failure, appearing as confident and convincing as any fire sign. But around the full moon you can usually spot them when they become touchy and moody, not at all like any fire sign!
He is easily flattered, and often gullible in the face of a strong protective woman. He has a cheeky, little-boy-lost appeal that he takes to parties in his search for the perfect soul-mate, and he needs one desperately for all his apparent self-confidence and arrogant manner. It's misleading. Beneath that gregarious shell is a soft heart. There will only ever be one woman at a time for a cancerian man-at least you can be assured of that.
I haven't been on theses boards from sometime.....I am interested in a cancer man...and have been chatting to him for the past 3 weeks....I have tried to learn from past mistakes with this type of man and need a bit of advice....I may email him 3 times and get one response....and thats ok as I know how busy he is....just wondering how to move along to a actually face to face meeting....I hinted about coffee but really got nowhere except in several messages he said he needed a second coffee? after that I hinted and nothing......
Right now I am just trying to keep the communication going....any suggestions on how to get him to open up—??
Right now I am just trying to keep the communication going....any suggestions on how to get him to open up—??
Posted by CancerLeoCamPosted by VirgoVixxxen
Here's the second part...
Cancer men hide out in the dark corners of pubs, or at the edge of the in-crowd. If they use their extrovert shell to cover up their weaker personality they can be akward to spot. Sometimes they hover in the wings, hiding from possible failure, appearing as confident and convincing as any fire sign. But around the full moon you can usually spot them when they become touchy and moody, not at all like any fire sign!
He is easily flattered, and often gullible in the face of a strong protective woman. He has a cheeky, little-boy-lost appeal that he takes to parties in his search for the perfect soul-mate, and he needs one desperately for all his apparent self-confidence and arrogant manner. It's misleading. Beneath that gregarious shell is a soft heart. There will only ever be one woman at a time for a cancerian man-at least you can be assured of that.
Much of this is true. My vertex says I should be on the look out for an Aries woman. I kind agree but we'll see. I detest drama.
There has always been one woman on my mind-never cheated ever. Didn't want it done to me. As a Cancer, I do conserve my resources and do my best to be sure that my investment in resources is well placed. Once secure, then I'm on board. Kinda all or nothing -but shouldn't it be? Otherwise,why be in a relationship with one-foot out the door?
in dating, we test the waters with our love interests and if it isn't warm, receptive and positive we disappear-at least I do.click to expand
Wow, thanks for your insight CancerLeoCam, it is much appreciated. So, you are one of those loyal ones eh? I heard that cancer men can be players...well the not so loyal ones at least. ;o)
Yes, I've also heard about the testing of the waters thing too. Hmmm...what a cautious lot. Well, I understand because we virgos are the same.
Same with the money thing. Cancers seem to have a good knack for saving (IRA'S, 401'S, insurance policies...ha!) and they usually make good investors.
Posted by VirgoVixxxen
I heard that cancer men can be players...well the not so loyal ones at least. ;o)
Yes, I've also heard about the testing of the waters thing too. Hmmm...what a cautious lot. Well, I understand because we virgos are the same.
Same with the money thing. Cancers seem to have a good knack for saving (IRA'S, 401'S, insurance policies...ha!) and they usually make good investors.
I don't really think that cancer men are always players, I think that some of them simply haven't found what they're looking for, whatever it is. In the mind of the cancer man who might be a player to you, in many cases he might not see that his actions are making him a "player" at all. Inner turmoil and conflict can lead to indecisive behavior, i.e. being a player. Just steer clear of these guys until they're more mature, the rest of us are usually very loyal and caring.
I think there are more Virgo billionaires than any other sign. I bet we're not too far behind, but who knows, I bet we dominate in the millionaires category :-P We do have a business sense that others don't, I think our intuition helps guide us along, we make the right decisions based on what we "feel" the market wants(business) or which way we "feel" the market is turning (investing).
Posted by cancerguyPosted by VirgoVixxxen
I heard that cancer men can be players...well the not so loyal ones at least. ;o)
Yes, I've also heard about the testing of the waters thing too. Hmmm...what a cautious lot. Well, I understand because we virgos are the same.
Same with the money thing. Cancers seem to have a good knack for saving (IRA'S, 401'S, insurance policies...ha!) and they usually make good investors.
I don't really think that cancer men are always players, I think that some of them simply haven't found what they're looking for, whatever it is. In the mind of the cancer man who might be a player to you, in many cases he might not see that his actions are making him a "player" at all. Inner turmoil and conflict can lead to indecisive behavior, i.e. being a player. Just steer clear of these guys until they're more mature, the rest of us are usually very loyal and caring.
I think there are more Virgo billionaires than any other sign. I bet we're not too far behind, but who knows, I bet we dominate in the millionaires category :-P We do have a business sense that others don't, I think our intuition helps guide us along, we make the right decisions based on what we "feel" the market wants(business) or which way we "feel" the market is turning (investing).click to expand
cancerguy,
Thanks so much for this bit of this information and I will steer clear and be extremely cautious because most of the ones I've seen so far, all had a 'roving eye'. I know not all cancer men are cheaters but, there seems to be no middle ground. It's like they're either extremely loyal or the biggest players around. I've even heard that the loyal ones once comfortable in a relationship, and has 'reared' their family will cheat too...yikes.
Cosign on the virgo billionaire thing. LOL. Can you say Warren Buffett?
I have to say that cancer men are highly tactical and shrewd in all forms of business. Not to mention, your intuition works as a powerful accessory in 'feeling' people and situations out. In my opinion, the intuition is a gift.
"I know not all cancer men are cheaters but, there seems to be no middle ground. It's like they're either extremely loyal or the biggest players around. I've even heard that the loyal ones once comfortable in a relationship, and has 'reared' their family will cheat too...yikes."
Cancerguy, Cam, is this true————??
Cancerguy, Cam, is this true————??
Posted by PiscesArgie
"I know not all cancer men are cheaters but, there seems to be no middle ground. It's like they're either extremely loyal or the biggest players around. I've even heard that the loyal ones once comfortable in a relationship, and has 'reared' their family will cheat too...yikes."
Cancerguy, Cam, is this true————??
Awww..PiscesArgie, I hope that I didn't frighten you. You're love is a cancer man? Try not to worry too much about what I posted. This is something I read and was asking the advice of cancer dudes here.
Oh dear, its Ok,Im just as curious to know as you are...!!!
let the Crabs illuminate us on this!!
yeah I love a Crab 🙂
let the Crabs illuminate us on this!!
yeah I love a Crab 🙂
I have to say that cancer men are highly tactical and shrewd in all forms of business.
So are cancer gals... 😉
Posted by PiscesArgie
"I know not all cancer men are cheaters but, there seems to be no middle ground. It's like they're either extremely loyal or the biggest players around. I've even heard that the loyal ones once comfortable in a relationship, and has 'reared' their family will cheat too...yikes."
Cancerguy, Cam, is this true————??
click to expand
PiscesArgie
My bro is a Cancer and I also have a great Cancer bud. Both are flirts in that "what? i'm just being friendly" Cancer way, but are true and loyal to their women.
My brother has been with his wife for 11 years. He's uber Cancer man and I really don't see how she puts up with him.
Must be love... she's a Pisces too!
Posted by CancerLeoCamPosted by PiscesArgie
"I know not all cancer men are cheaters but, there seems to be no middle ground. It's like they're either extremely loyal or the biggest players around. I've even heard that the loyal ones once comfortable in a relationship, and has 'reared' their family will cheat too...yikes."
Cancerguy, Cam, is this true————??
Not in my experience. I just don't go there. If I'm with someone I'm theirs to lose. They either take care of me or I leave. What I give in return for their love, care, support and nurturing is tremendous. Give a little get alot. If they don't appreciate that I'm gone.click to expand
Well what the hell— All you cancer dudes on this forum need to be cloned or some shit. You're are the ones (loyal type) we gals are looking for!
Posted by shellshocker
I have to say that cancer men are highly tactical and shrewd in all forms of business.
So are cancer gals... 😉
Posted by PiscesArgie
"I know not all cancer men are cheaters but, there seems to be no middle ground. It's like they're either extremely loyal or the biggest players around. I've even heard that the loyal ones once comfortable in a relationship, and has 'reared' their family will cheat too...yikes."
Cancerguy, Cam, is this true————??
PiscesArgie
My bro is a Cancer and I also have a great Cancer bud. Both are flirts in that "what? i'm just being friendly" Cancer way, but are true and loyal to their women.
My brother has been with his wife for 11 years. He's uber Cancer man and I really don't see how she puts up with him.
Must be love... she's a Pisces too!click to expand
I don't know too many cancer women and the ones I do, I don't get 'shrewd' from them.
^^ Could be placements... My friend and I are both gemi/cancers. I have mostly water and Aries in my chart, which makes me double cardinal.
When it comes to making money, I know what to do and when to do it.
Same with my Cancer girl... she's with a Aries guy and it's incredible the things they have accomplished together.
Perhaps masculine Aries finds a balance with feminine Cancer. *shrugs*
But ya, the Cancer guys I know shine in business.
When it comes to making money, I know what to do and when to do it.
Same with my Cancer girl... she's with a Aries guy and it's incredible the things they have accomplished together.
Perhaps masculine Aries finds a balance with feminine Cancer. *shrugs*
But ya, the Cancer guys I know shine in business.
Posted by shellshocker
^^ Could be placements... My friend and I are both gemi/cancers. I have mostly water and Aries in my chart, which makes me double cardinal.
When it comes to making money, I know what to do and when to do it.
Same with my Cancer girl... she's with a Aries guy and it's incredible the things they have accomplished together.
Perhaps masculine Aries finds a balance with feminine Cancer. *shrugs*
But ya, the Cancer guys I know shine in business.
Yes, aries & cancers together are usually referred to as the "initiators" because they are both cardinal signs, aries the masculine, and cancer the feminine, so I could see how that would create a nice balance. I know a pairing like this. Aries f/cancer M. They have such a hoity toity way about them. Ha ha. But they are cute together and consider themselves people of 'high standards'.
My chart is practically all earth, with one or so placements in water and fire. I'm sun in virgo, virgo in mercury, moon in capricorn, aries ascendent, and venus in scorp...
Oh gemini/cancer eh? How does that work for you— Are you extremely moody? You seem so...no offense, shell but you really do come across quite moody. What's up with that?
I'm actually not very moody at all... If I'm moody, I disappear. I'm blunt and call it like I feel it. I don't say much, but I can deliver a statement that hits home with just a few words. There is usually very little emotion behind my comments and I'm often surprised at the reactions I get. Even from signs that are deemed 'less sensitive'.
People generally always react to me, in one way or another. I understand this and weigh my words carefully in real life.
I can calm people or stir them up... but there's usually some emotion felt.
I guess I need to be more aware in the cyber world as well... because man! It sure doesn't take much to get some of you ladies up in arms.
But really, it's all good...
People generally always react to me, in one way or another. I understand this and weigh my words carefully in real life.
I can calm people or stir them up... but there's usually some emotion felt.
I guess I need to be more aware in the cyber world as well... because man! It sure doesn't take much to get some of you ladies up in arms.
But really, it's all good...
What about cancer women? lol
Posted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by shellshocker
^^ Could be placements... My friend and I are both gemi/cancers. I have mostly water and Aries in my chart, which makes me double cardinal.
When it comes to making money, I know what to do and when to do it.
Same with my Cancer girl... she's with a Aries guy and it's incredible the things they have accomplished together.
Perhaps masculine Aries finds a balance with feminine Cancer. *shrugs*
But ya, the Cancer guys I know shine in business.click to expand
Yes, aries & cancers together are usually referred to as the "initiators" because they are both cardinal signs, aries the masculine, and cancer the feminine, so I could see how that would create a nice balance. I know a pairing like this. blockquote>
My Aunt (Cancer) has been with my Uncle (Aries) for 30 years and they are funny! Than my cousin is a cencer female with an aries male for 27 years and they have a good balance too.
I Adore aries men, its a good balance really!
Posted by CancerianGoddessPosted by VirgoVixxxenPosted by shellshocker
^^ Could be placements... My friend and I are both gemi/cancers. I have mostly water and Aries in my chart, which makes me double cardinal.
When it comes to making money, I know what to do and when to do it.
Same with my Cancer girl... she's with a Aries guy and it's incredible the things they have accomplished together.
Perhaps masculine Aries finds a balance with feminine Cancer. *shrugs*
But ya, the Cancer guys I know shine in business.
Yes, aries & cancers together are usually referred to as the "initiators" because they are both cardinal signs, aries the masculine, and cancer the feminine, so I could see how that would create a nice balance. I know a pairing like this. blockquote>
My Aunt (Cancer) has been with my Uncle (Aries) for 30 years and they are funny! Than my cousin is a cencer female with an aries male for 27 years and they have a good balance too.
I Adore aries men, its a good balance really!click to expand
Hey canceriangoddess,
Heard Cancer w/aries m is a great match. What do you think about it on the reverse? Aries w/Cancer m...
Posted by peppymonkeePosted by VirgoVixxxen
Hey all, was on here a few days ago. Some of you cancers were nice, one or two rude, but I'm not giving up on you sweet cancer men. Please read below and tell me if this is how you guys really are? Just trying to learn....MUAH!
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it's nice that you won't give up on them. there are some great cancer men out there for you.
my dad is a fellow cancer and for the most part, i would agree with what you posted about them.
if i came off rude to you, i apologise. never meant to come off that way.
take care. 🙂click to expand
Hi Peppymonkee,
I don't remember you being rude to me at any time since I've been posting here but damn it if you have, why I accept your apology. ;O)
I find cancers to be extremely kind. I would almost say you guys are the kindest sign in the zodiac. I think it has much to do with all that 'compassion'.
No, I won't give up on cancer men. I think to a degree, their made for virgo women and vice versa. Same goes for cancer woman/virgo man. It's a really nice pairing provided that both parties are on the same wavelength and all.
Posted by CancerianGoddess
What about cancer women? lol
My apologies, Canceriangoddess. No intentions to offend. I have only really known one cancer gal in my life and 'shrewd' she was not. More like a whiny, deceitful douche. Sorry to sound so harsh, but she was so emotionally unstable, and would go wherever her bread was buttered. Def. not one to be trusted. I know not all cancer women are this way - perhaps only the "less evolved types".
Posted by shellshocker
I'm actually not very moody at all... If I'm moody, I disappear. I'm blunt and call it like I feel it. I don't say much, but I can deliver a statement that hits home with just a few words. There is usually very little emotion behind my comments and I'm often surprised at the reactions I get. Even from signs that are deemed 'less sensitive'.
People generally always react to me, in one way or another. I understand this and weigh my words carefully in real life.
I can calm people or stir them up... but there's usually some emotion felt.
I guess I need to be more aware in the cyber world as well... because man! It sure doesn't take much to get some of you ladies up in arms.
But really, it's all good...
Really now?
Cyber world is indeed tricky. Even if you don't mean to offend, it can sometimes come across that way. No worries. I understand. I'm usually extremely blunt myself (just check out the virgo board..that is blunt city) and it just comes so natural. I try to tone it down so that 'sensitive' ones don't take it the wrong way. ironic because we virgos are quite sensitive but tend to dish out the hardest criticisms and like you, it's never meant to stir anyone up. We just call it how we see it.
Thanks for the insight, I agree with the Crabs being flirty with the opposite sex, it is okay for me, Im a bit flirty too as a Fish, but Im loyal to the bone!!!
I think all Crabs who are not loyal is because they are not with the one.well, it is the same for the Fishes.
Crab guys are gems which have to be dug up and polished. It takes patience but they are worth it...
The only thing Ive noticed is that you guys are tight-fisted!! hahaha you dont like to spend!!!!!! My crab was in horror when I told him the amount of money I spent while abroad for two weeks. We had a laugh. We definitely decided that if we get married, we will keep separate bank accounts!!!!
is that true for all of you out there—?
hahaha
I think all Crabs who are not loyal is because they are not with the one.well, it is the same for the Fishes.
Crab guys are gems which have to be dug up and polished. It takes patience but they are worth it...
The only thing Ive noticed is that you guys are tight-fisted!! hahaha you dont like to spend!!!!!! My crab was in horror when I told him the amount of money I spent while abroad for two weeks. We had a laugh. We definitely decided that if we get married, we will keep separate bank accounts!!!!
is that true for all of you out there—?
hahaha
We're "tight wads" until we see something we want and then all bets are off! Quality over quantity.
@kingcrab
"We're "tight wads" until we see something we want and then all bets are off! Quality over quantity."
Exactly Ive noticed that. But for everyday things, well, I know there will not be overspending in my household if I marry this Crab. All is recycled, nothing is wasted. 🙂
"We're "tight wads" until we see something we want and then all bets are off! Quality over quantity."
Exactly Ive noticed that. But for everyday things, well, I know there will not be overspending in my household if I marry this Crab. All is recycled, nothing is wasted. 🙂
Posted by kingcrab
We're "tight wads" until we see something we want and then all bets are off! Quality over quantity.
So I heard. ;o)
Posted by moon_eyes
Cancers have a natural wall protecting them , because it is so damn easy to hurt a cancer. And as many know even the weirdest look can be a major bleeding stab to a cancer. When in relationships that wall gets even bigger. This is because the hypersensitivity grows, and the fear of hurt is greater. Not to mention when a cancer puts themselves out there and gets hurt it will be ever so hard to glue all the fragments together.
Yes there are plenty of cheating manipulative cancer men out there, but then again everyone has those in their groups.
Thanks moon_eyes. This is very insightful. The fact that you guys are hurt so easily just makes me want to give all you cancers on here an e-hug.
Also, you are right. There are cheating manipulative men in every sign.
Cancers have very, very vivid imaginations. The mere thought of you being with and sharing yourself with someone else before us can drive them mad.
We can torture ourselves reenacting intimate scenes between the two of you.
OUR daydream of this new togetherness is now tainted, and it may take a lot of brooding or completely blocking your previous other out of our heads before we can even look at you again. And if you still have feelings for that person, we'll know and that can drive a Cancer INSANE, no matter how much you say you're over them.
Some Cancers can compartmentalize a previous other and will be okay with discussing your past. (god knows a cancer will tell you everything about their past relationships. it's not always fair you see) but it's better to be safe than sorry,
Don't talk about it! It's mental torture. And if they KNOW who your ex is... forget about it. They just can't separate.
We can torture ourselves reenacting intimate scenes between the two of you.
OUR daydream of this new togetherness is now tainted, and it may take a lot of brooding or completely blocking your previous other out of our heads before we can even look at you again. And if you still have feelings for that person, we'll know and that can drive a Cancer INSANE, no matter how much you say you're over them.
Some Cancers can compartmentalize a previous other and will be okay with discussing your past. (god knows a cancer will tell you everything about their past relationships. it's not always fair you see) but it's better to be safe than sorry,
Don't talk about it! It's mental torture. And if they KNOW who your ex is... forget about it. They just can't separate.
lol, if I know who they are, it won't work.
why?
Besides what Shell just explained, I just find that men are worthless morons. If a woman found "that" guy interesting and actually spent time with him (and did other stuff perhaps), she must be a fucking dumbass. Therefore, I would be replacing a stupid moron and spending my precious time with a dumbass.
(god knows a cancer will tell you everything about their past relationships.
Egh, not gonna happen. You can't forget what you discuss and forgetting is always the goal, however hopeless it may be. 😄
Posted by mr.crabby(god knows a cancer will tell you everything about their past relationships.
Egh, not gonna happen. You can't forget what you discuss and forgetting is always the goal, however hopeless it may be. 😄click to expand
true, true...
but I've heard some cancer girls analyze their past relationships to death, to just about anyone who will listen.
personally, my lips are sealed..
i'm a cancer /leo cusp, so sometimes when i try to explain it , i like to say my cancer side is emo. dont get me wrong, im very appreciative of being a half emo crab. i know it might sound cliche, but when im doing art, sometimes u need that depression. IN FLAMES LYRICS = "i feel like shit, but at least i feel something." bleh!
Posted by C13LO
i'm a cancer /leo cusp, so sometimes when i try to explain it , i like to say my cancer side is emo. dont get me wrong, im very appreciative of being a half emo crab. i know it might sound cliche, but when im doing art, sometimes u need that depression. IN FLAMES LYRICS = "i feel like shit, but at least i feel something." bleh!
when i tried to write "poopie" it posted butter. lol
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Don't ever mention your past boyfriends because he will see vivid mental movies about where you have been, and who you have been with. Cancerians are very possessive, and if you mention ex-partners, he wil wallow in self-pity for days.
Don't ever look at anyone once you're married. You are collected, part of his acquisitions and his very personal private collection.