Cancer Man Libra moon hesitation or friend zone nation?

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I know this is literally the other side of the coin of me but I still can't figure this out . If you've hung out once with a person and you text them every day (initiating) but never make plans to see them do you like them or are they just a friend or a back up plan for when you lose the one you want ? To be fair this person works two jobs and I was very sick for three weeks but it wouldn't someone still ask win you're going to meet up again ?
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Depends on the Cancer man.

I found there are two sides of a coin with them.

On on side of the coin, you have Cancer men that are professional victims. What I mean by that is, they almost can't admit that their relationships all failed because of them. So they go throughout their life sulking about the "one that got away", and become raging man sluts that never grow up and are emotional vampires. They move at the speed of lightening in relationships, but they always crash and burn. Types that will spam inspirational memes about how they are great, and you lost out on the greatness of them. Also they come off as charming and charismatic. They usually project that their life is AMAZING, even when its not. Also can't be alone, and are perpetually surrounded by a lot of people. Quantity over quality for them. And to be honest, they never really have substance to offer for a long term relationship. Most women end up leaving them, because they have a proclivity for cheating.

Then you have the other side of the coin. The Cancer men that are super family oriented, slow as molasses in everything they do. Will hold a girl at bay for years, trying to find out if she is loyal or not. Will play "games" so to speak to test loyalty. Charismatic as well, but a little "odd" in the way that they are handsome, but a little socially awkward at times. However, once they so settle down and have kids, they will settle down for life. And they will move mountains for their wives and children. Their wives become their bestfriend, and come above everything else. They will almost refuse to make anything official until they determine you can potentially be that wife. They won't stray for shit.

It's very odd, but those are the two types I have always seen from Cancers.