Cancer moon man giving me the silent treatment

Can anyone give me insight on Cancer moon men.

My Taurus sun, cancer moon crush and I ended things on a bad note. He said he’s physically attracted to me but doesn’t feel we’re compatible emotionally. I’ve tried texting him, sending him pictures, calling and apologizing but nothing. He won’t talk to me or even acknowledge my messages. I asked him numerous times to just say anything and he won’t. He reads my messages but won’t respond. I’ve decided to back off because I don’t know what’s else to do.

What sign are you? and what happened for him to know you weren't compatible emotionally?

Taurus Sun and Cancer Moon are both stubborn.

Cancer moons need to feel emotionally secure in order to open up.

It sounds like his Taurus sun is overriding the Cancer moon. As a Cancer moon myself we LOVE to hang onto you. But when Taurus is CONVINCED of something there is no budging them. Having a relationship with a Taurus was difficult for me because he had a really hard time compromising. It wore me out.

This explains a lot https://www.dxpnet.com/taurus-forum/can-a-strictly-sexual-relationship-lead-to-commitment-or-deeper-feelings-in-this-scenario--14783105/

Posted by Wizardz

He sounds hurt

Or not interested, more likely.

"He said he’s physically attracted to me but doesn’t feel we’re compatible emotionally" - this is like, Cancer moon DEATH.

Posted by Sagoxa

I'm gonna answer your previous thread in here. Is it possible to form a relationship after an fwb situation with a cancer moon? Yes. We form connection with people we are intimate with. It's a very physical placement. But you hurt him twice with your wishy washiness and that's what brought you to this stage.

The best description I've come across. I don't think I've ever read it in a sentence like this.

I know he’s hurt and guarded. He said he’s tired of giving me chances and it’s the same thing. I really want this to work between us but I just keep digging myself into a hole. He reads my messages and doesn’t say anything and that just frustrates me the more. He said our sex was passionate but not enough to make him stay

Posted by KaryB21

I know he’s hurt and guarded. He said he’s tired of giving me chances and it’s the same thing. I really want this to work between us but I just keep digging myself into a hole. He reads my messages and doesn’t say anything and that just frustrates me the more. He said our sex was passionate but not enough to make him stay

Because it’s not about sex. There needs to be an emotional connection and you keep hurting him.

What are you actually doing to hurt him?

There are a bunch of Cancer moons here who can be honest and help you out but you seem to want a quick fix to whatever you’re doing.

And that’s not how it works with Cancer moons. You have to show us that you actually are working on it, so the trust can be built.

Right now it seems like you’re bringing him towards you just to keep pulling the rug from under him when he’s trying to build trust with you and create a bind with you.

No one wants their emotions played with like this.

It’s like putting your hand in a fire over and over again and always getting burned.

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by KaryB21

I know he’s hurt and guarded. He said he’s tired of giving me chances and it’s the same thing. I really want this to work between us but I just keep digging myself into a hole. He reads my messages and doesn’t say anything and that just frustrates me the more. He said our sex was passionate but not enough to make him stay

Because it’s not about sex. There needs to be an emotional connection and you keep hurting him.

What are you actually doing to hurt him?

There are a bunch of Cancer moons here who can be honest and help you out but you seem to want a quick fix to whatever you’re doing.

And that’s not how it works with Cancer moons. You have to show us that you actually are working on it, so the trust can be built.

Right now it seems like you’re bringing him towards you just to keep pulling the rug from under him when he’s trying to build trust with you and create a bind with you.

No one wants their emotions played with like this.

It’s like putting your hand in a fire over and over again and always getting burned.

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That’s exactly it. He ended things between us the first time because I was indecisive about my feelings for him. He said he can’t be with someone that wants him one day and the next doesn’t. I apologized to him and told him that that’s something I working on healing. He forgave me but said he still need space. The second time he ended things because he felt like I was moving too fast and not taking time for the relationship to develop so he ended things and told me to never contact him again. We rekindled again two weeks ago and I said something about always doing things on his time table and he got upset and blocked me on FB. I tried reaching out recently and he said he’s done because he’s tired of dealing with the same thing with me. I tried sending him pictures, texts calls nothing he won’t bulge and has been ignoring me for a week.

Posted by KaryB21

Posted by saggurl88

Posted by KaryB21

I know he’s hurt and guarded. He said he’s tired of giving me chances and it’s the same thing. I really want this to work between us but I just keep digging myself into a hole. He reads my messages and doesn’t say anything and that just frustrates me the more. He said our sex was passionate but not enough to make him stay

Because it’s not about sex. There needs to be an emotional connection and you keep hurting him.

What are you actually doing to hurt him?

There are a bunch of Cancer moons here who can be honest and help you out but you seem to want a quick fix to whatever you’re doing.

And that’s not how it works with Cancer moons. You have to show us that you actually are working on it, so the trust can be built.

Right now it seems like you’re bringing him towards you just to keep pulling the rug from under him when he’s trying to build trust with you and create a bind with you.

No one wants their emotions played with like this.

It’s like putting your hand in a fire over and over again and always getting burned.

That’s exactly it. He ended things between us the first time because I was indecisive about my feelings for him. He said he can’t be with someone that wants him one day and the next doesn’t. I apologized to him and told him that that’s something I working on healing. He forgave me but said he still need space. The second time he ended things because he felt like I was moving too fast and not taking time for the relationship to develop so he ended things and told me to never contact him again. We rekindled again two weeks ago and I said something about always doing things on his time table and he got upset and blocked me on FB. I tried reaching out recently and he said he’s done because he’s tired of dealing with the same thing with me. I tried sending him pictures, texts calls nothing he won’t bulge and has been ignoring me for a week.

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Oh. This is some serious Taurus cry baby shit.

Cancer moons want to be made a priority and basically throw fits when it doesn’t happen.

You being indecisive when he wanted something solid is a big deal to a fixed sign.

How were you moving too fast the next time? I mean at this point you’re in or you’re out and he said it was too fast? Were you trying to move in with him or something?

The thing about being on his time table. What was happening there? Were your needs not being met and you wanted to see him?

You lashed out instead of just being honest about what it wa s that you actually wanted of him.

He seemed a little fed up with the bullshit. Not necessarily hurt. Maybe the first time he was.

He’s a man and he’s a Taurus, which means he’s supposed to lead as a man.

You weren’t letting him be a man. You seemed to be in the masculine role. And Taurus men know their role well.

I’m not sure what can make him want to try again because it seems like a combination of things. Not just emotions.

Hopefully a Taurus can give you some insight. Cause I know they don’t have much patience for when things aren’t going their way.

But then you’re demanding for things to go yours.

There can only be one dick in the relationship.

Bullet dodged. Of course you're not 'emotionally compatible' if he acts like a passive aggressive old hag and u don't

Him: resentful, manipulative, immature, self-centered, high-maintenance, intransigent.

You: spineless, indecisive, desperate, lacking in self-respect, willing to bend over backwards and try to read his mind to find a solution in hopes of appeasing him.

I mean... he blocked you on Facebook.

He may be able to unblock you but he can't undo the disrespect and humiliation typically associated with blocking/ignoring a person.

My advice to you: let this man go and work on developing your self-worth.