Cappy woman and a cancer man

So I viewed this website many times before and now I decided to sign up and post something in here ..

Because I feel that whatever is written there about how the cancer being moody or flirty is not true ( IN MY SITUATION ) so I wanted to see your opinion on this ..

So I had a crush on this girl like for 2 years before but didn't talk at all or maybe couple of times .. maybe because I thought she is out of my league.. and almost last year I helped her with something where she thanked me and all and chances were I was there to help her again and again with some work ( idk it just happened more frequent )

But I kept my lines because I know in my guts she won't consider me as a love companion , she usually don't talk to anyone where we work and after those times I helped her she started coming directly to me and starting a chat and if I leave she just leave afterwards or if someone was talking to me already she say hi and stand for a while then say ok i have to go now !

She started opening up for me between time to time BUT if it comes to me for example to talk about my self she just keeps replying ( aha , okay .. ) you know dead responds !! Where I felt like maybe she see me as her tidy bear helping her moving on her bad times .

Everything was cool untill like couple of people starting asking me if we were together ? And if we are really BF/GF ! I said no ? Why ? They said it looks on her face that she is crazy about you and she listens to you when you talk and smiles even if your not talking to her and she comes directly to you and chat where she don't talk with any of the guys that much and if I'm not around she just leaves ! And one of my best friends asked me to go for it because as he said ( we look like a perfect match ) ((WHAT HE SAID =D))

Anyhow .. after that I started Actually noticing all Of that things they said she was doing .. so I did something I think you guys might say I didn't do it well or the right way but I did so ..

I had an alone time with her ( but still at work ) where I asked her directly .. do you have someone in your life ? She laughed and I felt she as uncomfortable and kept saying no I'm not telling you it's my privacy ( all with laughter ) I kept insisting on her and she kept ignoring and changing the subject .. days later she posted pictures of perfumes with a tag saying (thanks) so i commented on it ( from who ? ) With a smirk smile and she said a PERSON ! days again she got a phone again she said a PERSON but the funny thing is she asked me to help her set up the phone which I didn't help but I didn't show that I was angry or uncomfy , something else happened and again she said ( A PERSON gave me his parking card because he is out of the country )

So it's either she have someone and she friend zoned me or she is trying to make me jealous..

Both points I ignored because it happened to me before where I gave up all my efforts to impress my ex's and be with them but then I realise that they just loved the felling of being taken care of and really loved me.

Anyhow It went on and off between time to time can't actually put all of what happened in here but the point was she was acting close at work and out she just be like I don't exist (unless she have something to let out or want comforting in)

Sometimes she comes really close like she called me once when it was foggy and we were leaving work to tell me to take care and drove safely but another week she forgets what time I even finish .. stuff like that which confuses me ! And she started talking to couple of the guys now ( WHICH ARE MY FRIENDS ) and added them on FB or insta whatever .. which okay maybe she is adding them because it's NORMAL but idk..

The last thing that happened actually is I went to work and I saw her from far away doing some work then after couple of minutes I looked again and I saw her taking a glance at me leaving ( I was too far 🙂 like I felt she was actually looking for me ) then after some hours she came back and talked to me and I was like ( oh hi were have you been ! Didn't see you for long ) where she said YOU DIDNT SEE ME ? 😉

I kept my calm and kept talking and the manager came and he said exactly the same thing that all my friends were saying before ( OH you guys look cute together ! And he told her she did well choosing me lol .. she got a bit defensive saying that WE ARE NOT TOGETHER and I agreed with her but it was all in a funny way .. next day again the same thing happened with the manager and we both ignored him we exchanged some talk at those days and even via text BUT at the end of work I saw her going out with someone and she REALLY IGNORED ME like you know when someone saw you but try not to turn or avoid the meet up ! Which again Is confusing but I got used to.. today is my first duty after off days where I saw her and she ignored too. But the one she was walking with turned back and said hi where she HAD to come and say hi but I felt she was like ( OH GOD NOOO DONT WANT TO SAY HI )



Anyhow I know a lot of you is confused now ! But basically this Cappy is confusing me ! Am I friend zoned or am I bro zoned or what 🙂 I'm 25 and she is 33 but she acts like 18years old .

HI Bodi,

Let me give you capricorn woman opinion, we are generally scared of our hearts being broken so we test people unfortunately sometimes too much and we end up pushing them away and then we end up feeling hurt.

If I were you just ask her out, don't make it sound like a date but something that she might enjoy like concert or coffee and get her to relax. Her guard is up so she needs to develop trust before she lets you in. She might be crazy about you but you will never know till she feels secure to open up, plus we are also shy so it takes long time to get close to someone.

Hope this helped.