Cancer/Capricorn Relationship?!Advice??

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by DeedleFaerie on Saturday, June 4, 2016 and has 21 replies.

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@DeedleFaerie
10 Years

First of all,I have noticed Capricorns are always attracted to me!!

I married one and we do not understand each at all.Any tips/advice?I think he's a cold emotionless robot and he thinks I'm too emotional..

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@rakac
10 Years500+ Posts

I think what you're saying is that you don't udnerstand why they do the things one way or another, because i know this 2, but as a cancer when i talk with people and get to know their side of the story i start to know how they are as a person and how their minds work, why they do the things they do, you should try that, talking, helps everytime. we have huge emapthy so that shouldn't be a problem, problem might be that you can't support each other or something, all relationships are different, some people are complete support, respect, love,trust but not clingy,passionate , just kind love with not that over emotional shit like we water signs are , that's why you have to find out what do you want from relationship, you married a woman but you say you don't understand each other?how did you get married then?my thoughts are love isn't enough, you have to have respect, trust and complete devotion to each other, support each other in hard times , everyone can stay in healthy relationship while it's going good, but only hard times makes you stronger as a couple, only talking and opening up fully can bring some kind of understanding between people i think, true some people can almost talk without words, but some relationships don't work like that, some relationships need work more some less, some relationships need to work more on talking with each other, while others need to learn to enjoy silence with each other if it's uncomftable, many different views many different perspectives. as a cancer i don't think capri's are cold, you might think that because you're to emotional, when you get them to open up rly good, they are not that cold, they're warm creatures, also i think depends on other placements on the chart, if they don't have water that might be the problem then.My advise would be talk to each other opening yourself up fully, rather than asking questions here ask your wife, she is capricorn and i think she would like to help people, they like to help people they care about, but i know you're cancer so you might be to proud to ask for help, but try to, set aside the pride for person you love, open up, try to recognize your moods and stay positive, learn to laugh from yourself, because rly, even when i talk to people i laugh because i say straight forward to them sometimes, i'm a mess, i might get fucking emotional and cry in the middle of the street about some memories and then make fun of myself how messed up my emotions are 😄 learn to like yourself and your mood swings, don't fight it, you're a moon, get over it, recognize it, when you're aware of moods you can take control of them 9times out of 10, buut sometimes it's impossible, thats just our moon and feminine cancer side , embrace it 😄

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@KrissyTheCappy36
10 Years

Posted by DeedleFaerie
First of all,I have noticed Capricorns are always attracted to me!!

I married one and we do not understand each at all.Any tips/advice?I think he's a cold emotionless robot and he thinks I'm too emotional..

Haha. Im a capricorn female and my last three boyfriends were all cancer. I don't know . I guess for me cancers are very comforting and warm. Makes me more in tune and comfortable with my emotions but yes... they really had a hard time understanding me and my reactions etc because I have my emotions under tight control it came off cold to them...I understand the struggle but we are not cold nor umemotional we are far from that like already stated it takes time for us to show it outwardly.

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Posted by sunkisses26
Though the Cancer and Capricorn are just opposite to each other but still if it’s a pair of Cancer woman and Capricorn man, then it works rather well. They both compliment each other and understand the importance of lasting relationship. Devotion and affection comes to both of them easily and generally they make a happy duo!
Capricorn man is an ambitious man who is strongly determined to reach the top with his efforts and undoubted courage. He is conservative and domineering in nature and his most endearing quality is his dependability in times of need. Once out of his serious course, he is very tender and gentle with a soft smile. He is basically strong and serious and at the same time shy too. In a relationship with a Cancer woman, he is incurably romantic and he admires his lovely maiden for her devoted nature and family loving qualities.
A Cancer woman is full of delicacy and sensitivity with an ultra feminine touch that makes her irresistible. She has the capacity to adapt to all situations and be patient and very composed especially when she is emotionally and financially secure. Peace of mind and security are some of the most important things for her. She reciprocates the true love of Capricorn man by being sympathetic and loyal towards him, in fact she always proves to be better than women of all other zodiac signs once her basic needs are taken care of.
The Cancer woman is one lady, who can easily attract a Capricorn man. She has such a graceful appeal that he senses it vividly as soon as they meet.

"if it’s a pair of Cancer woman and Capricorn man, then it works rather well"
If that were the case, I imagine it would work out well.

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Posted by DeedleFaerie
I'm in VA by DC currently but I do travel. œ

cool beans! I'm in TN and I love to travel too!

What the what!? Which part of TN?

east! where are you from?

EAST!! By the Georgia border!

no way!!! me too!!!!

My city is (was) known for trains 😉

you lady are some where in my city!!!!

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SHUT THE FRONT DOOR!!!

I thought I was the only one from here on here!

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@DeedleFaerie
10 Years

Posted by SensitiveBlues
You should have married a Scorpio

Why we bother with caps or Virgos idk

It's like we need challenge

I do have a Scorpio in my life and he is a very soothing energy to me.He accepts me for who I am unlike my Cap.I actually inspired his last album. 🙂 His name is HMAK on SoundCloud.

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@prettyCap01
10 Years

I had just recently dated a cancer, he got me confused all the time, hot and cold. Id lost my patience so left and told him i better be alone than be with him.

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@DeedleFaerie
10 Years

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Posted by SensitiveBlues
You should have married a Scorpio

Why we bother with caps or Virgos idk

It's like we need challenge

I do have a Scorpio in my life and he is a very soothing energy to me.He accepts me for who I am unlike my Cap.I actually inspired his last album. 🙂 His name is HMAK on SoundCloud.

Are you cheating on your husband?

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. Nope.I do have platonic friends?