Dark Side of Dating Cancer

We have been accused of never admitting when our mistakes and placing blame on others.
In the relationships that didn't work out, what did you do wrong?

My mama is a cancer a sme and my baby sis were just discussing how she never feels like she does anything wrong. Every problem with my dad is his fault, every issue that arises in the home is someone else's fault. She is NEVER wrong or EVER at fault. It is so annoying. Her house got broken into bc SHE forgot to turn the alarm on & when my dad told her she needs to be more careful about remembering she got mad & found a way to blame my little sisters for distracting her. It is really ridiculous.

My dad is a cancer too & he does it as well but it's not as severe. If something broke in the house he would try to blame one of the kids. "Somebody did it!" Lol sometimes it was just normal wear & tear, he refused to believe that. & it couldn't possibly be his fault.

I don't think I could date a cancer.

I own up to my bs. I also blame the devil since others are ok with doing that.

@arielle. Other kids would do horrible things. I'd just watch because I was well behaved. Somehow their parents blamed me for being a baby influence even though it was obvious I had nothing to do with it.
Good crab kids always get accused of being sneaky.

I'm not sure that my hubby had done this in the past. However, my cancer colleagues at work have this tendency. If something messed up and it is so obvious that they missed it, they won't apologize about it, they just blame somebody else or they will just say that they are too busy. Really? Does anyone ever too busy to do their job? Maybe the boss should also claim to be too busy to pay these whiners.

Cancer women I met at work are exceptionally smart and extremely organized. The men, however, are not organized at all and they tend to play emotional games.

If you work with some cancers, watch your back. They are sneaky. Your ammos should be the following: Be really good at what you do, be careful of what you say and don't ever ever ever state the obvious. Kindly attack them sideways and use logic.

^^^ Spoken like a Virgo 😛

lol

Posted by Kim31
We have been accused of never admitting when our mistakes and placing blame on others.
In the relationships that didn't work out, what did you do wrong?

Would this be relevant to Cancer moon peeps?

Cancers are sneaky?Seriously?Emotional games,meh! but anybody can be sneaky. if they envious, jealous or has been raised that way. So to answer the dark side of cancer, we put 100 % trust in you ,you break it, you get the wall das all.

And i do know virgos just the same way,sneaky. So to generalize sign and sneakiness.order and disorder dont make logic to me. The Scorch .....has spoken. COOKIES—?

Bump

Don't know much about cancer moon but not sure why it wouldn't apply!

Those filthy cancer mooners! ~shakes fist~

the dark side of dating cancer shall be trust issues.

lol you cant get cancerians to answer this thread if you're looking for real answers..

that's so ironic 😄

I agree about not admitting their faults. However my cancer ex would try to twist things over to make me feel that I wronged him. Like if I told him I cant go out, he blames me for not caring and not being serious about the relationship! And oh my when he finally apologizes after the situation got much worse almost leading to break up, he finds the excuse of "I just really missed you". Looks cute but to me, this emotional manipulation.

My cancer brother never admits his faults and when we fight, I'm the one who apologizes to clear the air, even if it wasn't my fault and he lokks like a happy kid afterwards cause I took all the blame by myself. Some fights, I convince myself that both of us are wrong (So I wont have to wait for an apology cause I know I won't get it.

Bullshit

Posted by Arielle83
hhaha my taurus sister got away with everything, and i was blamed because i would argue the loudest...she would laugh of course and then go suck up to my parents....

shit happens.

lol I used to do that when we were young like 6 years old?

My parents know us too well to get tricked anyway haha but getting older.. things are different. Fights are not fun.. fights can really break up families which is something I cant tolerate.

Trust issues, Being suspicious, Cold at times, Secretive, Stubborn, Admitting defeat that's me a Cancer man.

yeah....us cancers will always be the wrong ones. we take the blame too easily. cancers from June are the tough ones. the ones from july are very soft and can be manipulated....or so I think. I am a July cancer and I always take the blame in the relationships and I am he first to accept it when I am wrong. Apologising is not hard at all, in fact we will do it way before you expect it and we tend to be too hard on ourselves.

Other signs love to hate on Cancers..sigh...I'm also a July Cancer. I admit when I'm wrong and although I can be emotionally manipulative, it's not my first option. I'm extremely confrontational, blunt and not clingy(unless you need me to be). :p

The Dark Side would be Trust Issues....I trust nobody completely.

Posted by Kodak375
I hold on to shitty relationships longer than I have to, hurting both sides because im captain save a hoe. Im a work in progress.

This is what has just happened to me. Never had enough balls to just say 'I don't trust you anymore I can't be with you.' Grr!

Both my parents are cancer and I am one of two cancer children. Yes, there are times when we find it hard to accept that we were wrong but give a logical or emotional account and we sway completely into not liking ourselves cuz we understand how we were wrong. Cancers are too easily hard on themselves and that is our weakness. Example: my ex used making me feel guilty and bad to his advantage. He was another stubborn and immature airies that lived off other ppl not being happy and saving them. No cancers dont exactly hold on to the past but remember it to either not do again or to live even better. Very smart actually :-) Nothing wrong wid dat :-)

I'm a June Cancer, I do get blamed for things that I didn't do. I find with Aries they sure like to pass the buck, the one Aries she would try prove me wrong on everything. Drove me nuts I couldn't do anything right, I get tired of somebody trying to prove me wrong. I admit when I'm wrong I don't try to cover up my mistakes.

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Posted by Stihl46
I'm a June Cancer, I do get blamed for things that I didn't do. I find with Aries they sure like to pass the buck, the one Aries she would try prove me wrong on everything. Drove me nuts I couldn't do anything right, I get tired of somebody trying to prove me wrong. I admit when I'm wrong I don't try to cover up my mistakes.

ARies do that alot, they're very confident in their position, which is always 99% wrong. It's weird.

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I work with two Aries they are both similar with their power pouts, when they don't get their way they throw a little tantrum. I swear its like dealing with 2 children they sure act like one, start stomping their feet, some days I want to say grow up will ya.

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Posted by TxOgal
lol you cant get cancerians to answer this thread if you're looking for real answers..

that's so ironic 😄

I agree about not admitting their faults. However my cancer ex would try to twist things over to make me feel that I wronged him. Like if I told him I cant go out, he blames me for not caring and not being serious about the relationship! And oh my when he finally apologizes after the situation got much worse almost leading to break up, he finds the excuse of "I just really missed you". Looks cute but to me, this emotional manipulation.

My cancer brother never admits his faults and when we fight, I'm the one who apologizes to clear the air, even if it wasn't my fault and he lokks like a happy kid afterwards cause I took all the blame by myself. Some fights, I convince myself that both of us are wrong (So I wont have to wait for an apology cause I know I won't get it.

Earth signs are adamant about NOT doing things or DOING only things they want to do, which means that they don't compromise and do what others want once in a while, which makes the other person feel unloved.

They're fuking inflexible, which makes them boring as fuk, and annoying.

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lol haters? ... you used to be sincere. Sigh..