Do Cancers "HURT" like other men?

Is it me or do you feel that Cancers hurt more or feel pain more than other men?
For example,I have been around alot of Leos and Capricorn men. I have went OFF on them. Like it has gotten heated. I regret it and apologize and Im trying to work on it. They do get very upset but they dont hold it against me.
But with the cancer guy I WAS seeing. I didnt even go of fon him. He misinterpreted something I said and thinks I "hurt him" and he went blocking me,ignoring me,etc.
Is it possible that a guy can be this hurt?
Lord,can you imagine if he was actually cheated on?
Im not saying Im a victim at all. I do make mistakes and I am not perfect. But I regret and I do apologize and try to make things right. I feel like Cancers punish you for more than you "deserve"

OH AND I FEEL THAT THEY ALSO NITPICK.
When I had an argument with a cancer guy in the past. He was all over the place. He told me reasons wh he is mad at me,but they cmae out of nowhere. Than when I addressed him and he had nothing else. He said: YOU ALSO LACK CONFIDENCE,AND THATS A TURN OFF"
what?
that wasnt the initial reason you were pissed at me!
Its like arguing with someone for their negligence. Then they say... You dont even wash the dishes properly!!
excuse me? where did that come in?

They absolutely punish you too much...the punishment doesn't fit the crime...they are WAY more sensitive than most guys and way more complicated..more than I've ever experienced before. I like it but it also sucks and hurts bad.

OP, let me repost my post from another thread exactly about this:



They get nasty, if you somehow offend their sensitive mind and/or ignored them on some occassion only they know about and they are extremely jelaous and any slight offence on your part (looking at somebody 2 seconds more than normal) they would find another girl/boy to balance their emotional state and insecurities and they can get vindictive...... because in their mind you hurt them....... and you just stare at them clueless, wth is this about? what did I do? ......... but if they get vindictive and nasty, then its better to leave them alone...... for your sanity´s sake

Posted by boxcarmirnta
They absolutely punish you too much...the punishment doesn't fit the crime...they are WAY more sensitive than most guys and way more complicated..more than I've ever experienced before. I like it but it also sucks and hurts bad.

Exactly! do they know theyre doing this?
because I think its downright evil.
Espcially if they say they love you. But are searching for anyway to make you fall. Even my apology has to be carefully written in fear that he will find SOMETHING to get upset over.
I dont know what to do so Im just backing off and wiping my hands of this.

Posted by Pandora101

OP, let me repost my post from another thread exactly about this:



They get nasty, if you somehow offend their sensitive mind and/or ignored them on some occassion only they know about and they are extremely jelaous and any slight offence on your part (looking at somebody 2 seconds more than normal) they would find another girl/boy to balance their emotional state and insecurities and they can get vindictive...... because in their mind you hurt them....... and you just stare at them clueless, wth is this about? what did I do? ......... but if they get vindictive and nasty, then its better to leave them alone...... for your sanity´s sake

Thanks love!!!
When I was with him. He was soo intimate and happy/cheery. But tehre would be times when he would sit down and zone out for a couple of minutes. Like in deep thought. he would act distant,and appear distant. Than at the last day of my visit..he would go back to being chipper/intimate.
Looking back at that, makes me wonder.

Posted by Cancerprancer
I feel like Cancers punish you for more than you "deserve"

Here's the thing with Cancerian pain. It works kind of like how gravity does; here me out. If a 150 pound man and a 250 pound man both jump a two-story height, the rate at which they fall will be the same regardless of one of them being heavier. I would like for you to think of this 'rate' as a Cancerian's emotional intensity. However, the eventual impact will be greater with the heavier man simply because he weighs more. I would like for you to think of this 'impact' as a Cancerian's emotional reality.

Now in a case where you criticize a cancer, and in a case where the cancer is cheated on, the emotional onset will be the EXACT same in 'intensity'. However, after the cancer retreats and regulates his/her emotions the actual impact becomes their reality. In case one, they will normally see that it wasn't that bad, and come back out. In case two, they will be devastated and will have a legitimate reason to why they behave they way they do.

The punishment a cancer gives is EQUAL to what they are feeling at the time. If you feel like you should not be split in two by his claws, then it would be a good idea to let him calm down before approaching.

Everyone is so spot on!! @crabra ! Yes! Op it does feel evil but I don't think they see it that way...they do feel very very hurt....they mirror you, so if you're off they're off. If you're angry they are..but yes the self absorption is real. Yours seems more insecure and spiteful than most...