Does this Cancer like me or hate me?

First he 'jokingly' asks me on a date. Then he doesn't like me, and won't tell me why. Then, he asks to sleep over and "cuddle". Every time we've hung out, he was the initiator. Then he doesn't like me. Then he asks to sleep over again and asks me to kiss him. Then I'm fat, and now he wants to hang out again. Is this typical crab behavior? Does he not like me? I never ask him to hang out, and I barely contact him.

Why would you wanna be with someone that treats you like that? Surely, you can do better. Don't enable emotionally retarded boys. Find a MAN!

This sounds like a person with BPD going "I hate you but I love you too." Motherfucking cray cray! Who needs that??

LOL word play, aquavita. Word play... like most water signs say, words are cheap. I'd say the same thing about what comes out of their mouth.

I know who Hermann Hesse is. I love his book - Siddartha. Don't liken him to emotionally retarded men. I know cancers well enough since I've been with them my whole life too. If a cancer truly loves you, he won't hesitate to go after you come hell or high water. They'd show their devotion and they won't make you second guess their intentions. That goes for any sign.

This guy is testing the waters and wants to know if she'd reciprocate the affection or not.

Aquavita, you fail to realize that what I typed in those quotation marks is a mere example of what a person with BPD would say. You're taking it too literally.

Posted by aquavita
To me, cancer appears to be the MOST emptionally MATURE sign

If you count being emotionally mature as someone who'd keep opening up old wounds to reinforce their limited POV then you're on to something. BTW, that's SARCASM with a dash of truth.

Posted by aquavita
U r off topic 🙂.

You're the one off topic here bringing weight issues where it doesn't belong. If the guy truly loves her, he wouldn't even bring that up. Cancers aren't superficial in that sense. They don't give a shit with how much someone weighs or how they look like. If he truly loves the girl, none of that matters.

Scrreeeeeeecchhhhhh! hold up a crab ......initiating...WHOA! Got a headache..... brb folks!

Yeah we crabs can cause heartache too what sign is she. Bedaches OUr insignia "WE blow backs out"lol.

Posted by aquavita
Let these two souls "test" each other as u named it since it became a debate between u and me. that s how love starts u know... or not.

I agree, Aquavita. This can be the start of a beautiful thing... or not. We're just taking a different side to all of it. I don't want to enable pining over someone not worth it while you, being a Sag, would want to see the positive side of it. It's not about love yet, that's clear. All we can do is watch on the sidelines how this goes.

Yes he does like you. be distant busy yourself show some interest in him as well even if its a lil love note or best lover in the world certificate. We cherish things like that.

Posted by AesmaDaeva
If a cancer truly loves you, he won't hesitate to go after you come hell or high water. They'd show their devotion and they won't make you second guess their intentions. That goes for any sign.

This guy is testing the waters and wants to know if she'd reciprocate the affection or not.

This is what I'm thinking, but we've cuddled and kissed on the cheek..he asked me to on the lips and I rejected. He's never asked me on a date, though.

Posted by ReddmannScorch
Yeah we crabs can cause heartache too what sign is she. Bedaches OUr insignia "WE blow backs out"lol.

I'm a Leo. 🙂

Now I'm confused because he's told me multiple times that he doesn't like me and I said ok. Now I'm interested in a Taurus and the Cancer has been pushing to hang out with me,but still doesn'tlike me apparently.

u right though however be straight wit him, if u wanna be out n about wit da taurus go ahead. The cancer will disappear we dont like to compete ,is us or nothing. We move along just fine. Especially when we goal oriented.

hold up u REJECTED a kiss on da lips? helllll nawwwwwwww,lol. No wonder he felt that way and "acting strange" u friend zoned him. not good at all.

Posted by ReddmannScorch
hold up u REJECTED a kiss on da lips? helllll nawwwwwwww,lol. No wonder he felt that way and "acting strange" u friend zoned him. not good at all.

Lmfao, this was just a couple days ago! He never pursued me told me he WASN'T interested multiple times...what was a girl to do?? At least take me on a proper date. Let me know you're interested. He even offered to help me get a date (NOT with him). Like I said....confusing. :/

Then a couple days later I get "Ur fat" then minutes after he asks if I want to hang out again some day.

Posted by aquavita
He likes you. ask him how much weight he thinks u should lose and discuss your weight with himif u really fat. btw: I m no cancer and no man but I d love a man tease me like this. question is do u like him? and do u think u re fat? p.s. I like "fat" people may be because my grandmas were big and classy. I also like the way big people move. like buddha.

Do I like him? I don't know, honestly. I know at one point it was a definite "yes", then a definite "no". At this point I honestly don't know. He'll be really nice to me then days later he's not. It's like "Oh crap! I was nice to her! Better do/say something douchey so she remembers I don't like her"

Do I think I'm fat? No.

Big and classy, lol.

The Cancer guy does not like me. *walks off*

I still have the Taurus. 🙂

If you don't know and you have to ask... well he did call you fat. I wouldn't put up with that crap.

Posted by kissmygrits
If you don't know and you have to ask... well he did call you fat. I wouldn't put up with that crap.

Yeah he did, but then he said jk,even though I felt he wasn't...then asked to hang out twice after. But, I'm over the guessing games.

huh?well why u discussing him,here. Ur interest is peaked,lol. Ah well when the taurus find u ,uummm not near perfect he gonna go unto the next one,yup dat's life ,dat's walgreens,lol.

He probably does like you, but he seems extremely immature.

One has to sit down and think things through on situations like this.

IF you are prepared for emotional immaturity and head games, then go for it.

Otherwise, find someone who is mature enough to be in a relationship.

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Posted by ReddmannScorch
huh?well why u discussing him,here. Ur interest is peaked,lol. Ah well when the taurus find u ,uummm not near perfect he gonna go unto the next one,yup dat's life ,dat's walgreens,lol.

because she is a typical leo. first she played "eh victim" ( oh he called me "fat"). but in her mins she is "bigand calssy" even at 20 she thinks nothing less of herself. it is all about HER by the way. "if she doesnt have the cancer she still has the taurus". that s LEO for u. that s why i feel bad for every cancer with a leo. leo are with people not from love but from love for themselves. it is the fakest* love ever. u like their bodies reddman scorch? well if u dont, yu ll get so much hatred and scorn u ll have to next time. but some cancers are masohist if not all of them, for love they ll do anything. i despise leo. 🙂 hi fat bitch! u re not "big and classy". u re fat and not very smart. p.s. i DO like FAT people. and yes i call them "BIG". but only if they re nice.

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Excuse me? When did I say I was most desired? The cancer TOLD ME HE DIDNT like me. It wasn't til I moved on when he started all the back and forth shit. Learn to read. I've told the Cancer and I liked him and got rejected back in March. Suddenly I move on,and he wants to be around me. Then he hates me. Then he wants to hang out. He couldnt make up his mind! All the while, he knew I was into the Taurus anyways! I said "lol, big and classy" because I found the statement funny. I don't think I'm big, but I am classy. Stop worshipping Cancers,and learn how to fucking read.

Posted by ReddmannScorch
huh?well why u discussing him,here. Ur interest is peaked,lol. Ah well when the taurus find u ,uummm not near perfect he gonna go unto the next one,yup dat's life ,dat's walgreens,lol.

My interested is peaked? Duh. He would be a decent guy,if it werent for the hot and cold crap. It wasn't til he found out about the Taurus that he started it. Before he couldve cared less whether I hung out with him or not. And about the Taurus,yup and I'll do the same.

Posted by aquavita
and would you PLEASE stop making Yourself look like the MOST desired BAGEL. u may fool some but not all. u look like a "big classy" DOUGHNUT with all u wrote. being a bagel takes a little more class. i wish i could EXPOSE all of you , leos. your dirty little internal secrets. 🙂 cheers!

Oh,and btw I said I still had Taurus because I can talk to more than one guy at a time. I'm just 20.

Taurus wasn't a back up. I liked the taurus before I even knew the cancer existed but it wasn't until the cancer found out taurus was interested back when you start the hot and cold that's what I was saying. before he even knee the Taurus guy he said he's fine with being my friend and that he wasn't interested so he wasn't a backup he was just my friend. the cancer I liked him in the past and rejected it so I moved on what was I supposed to do? trust ne cancer wouldn't be heartbroken because he knew what he was doing,and he didnt like me enough to ask me on a date or even tell me he liked me,so in my mind he didnt like me at all. Hes immature and incapable of handling his emotions in the right way. I gave him many chances and he didnt speak up. Thats it.

Trying to find out how to web the cancer ? Actually I was uninterested in him for a while but I just want to find out why he was acting crazy all of a sudden. Wasnt about jealousy at all I thought he didn't care anymore so I moved on but we were friends which is what HE told me. I think you dont understand what im saying.

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Posted by ReddmannScorch
huh?well why u discussing him,here. Ur interest is peaked,lol. Ah well when the taurus find u ,uummm not near perfect he gonna go unto the next one,yup dat's life ,dat's walgreens,lol.

because she is a typical leo. first she played "eh victim" ( oh he called me "fat"). but in her mins she is "bigand calssy" even at 20 she thinks nothing less of herself. it is all about HER by the way. "if she doesnt have the cancer she still has the taurus". that s LEO for u. that s why i feel bad for every cancer with a leo. leo are with people not from love but from love for themselves. it is the fakest* love ever. u like their bodies reddman scorch? well if u dont, yu ll get so much hatred and scorn u ll have to next time. but some cancers are masohist if not all of them, for love they ll do anything. i despise leo. 🙂 hi fat bitch! u re not "big and classy". u re fat and not very smart. p.s. i DO like FAT people. and yes i call them "BIG". but only if they re nice.

Excuse me? When did I say I was most desired? The cancer TOLD ME HE DIDNT like me. It wasn't til I moved on when he started all the back and forth shit. Learn to read. I've told the Cancer and I liked him and got rejected back in March. Suddenly I move on,and he wants to be around me. Then he hates me. Then he wants to hang out. He couldnt make up his mind! All the while, he knew I was into the Taurus anyways! I said "lol, big and classy" because I found the statement funny. I don't think I'm big, but I am classy. Stop worshipping Cancers,and learn how to fucking read.

leo u just shit yourself. and yes , "u only 20" . i know how to make a leo shit themselves.

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Yet you didn't address anything regarding the cancer clearly telling me he didn't like me and then me moving on goodbye.

Posted by aquavita
mgmt love, is this "management" love? sounds about right for a leo love department. look, little girl, stop trying to cover what s going on here. u re good at it. no doubt. but why waste time of tohers to figure out something u claim u said goodbye to?

mgmt is a band that I like. I'm saying goodbye to you, because at this point, you're not helping. You're insulting me based of false info that I've spent ttime typing out, and you just decided not to read. You made me shit myself? If that means you made me mad,you did. For the SPECIFIC reason I posted in the sentence above. I'm not trying to cover anything up, I went to sleep, it's a new day. Am I supposed to still be mad? I'm only 20, but how old are YOU aquavita? Jesus.