Peace and Cancerian

Reading people too easily brings me trouble. How can I use it in a different way so that to avoid war enemies-- i can't help addressing their bs when they are trying to take advantage of some people.. I'm quiet but don't show me your dumbass or you'll hear what u don't want to hear... (>.< Sometimes its sad to be like this... It's not a peaceful life

Ever think of pulling the person they're trying to take advantage of aside and pointing out what is going on?

what if you are that person and you know you're right

im bad with my scorp rising

Well, call them on it in a non-combative fashion.
Even tones, don't accuse, frame it in terms of "look, I'm getting this impression that.." .
You get the idea.

thanks cancer ill take that..I wish im born that way it needs a lot of control to me.. pss.. my sharp tounge damn it. it depresses me too that i was able to know the person , but thats temporary.. Still.. Anyway, how would i stop this people from doing unpleasant thing.. Being nice wont do ,i hope u know what i mean. . . Thanks

Well, like a rattlesnake, you give them ample warning per my previous post.
If they persist, then let your stinger out.

yeah! 🙂 thanks i got that point, this is the case: the person was the one who accused and found out that his son is lying... .. whatta mess.. ahahaha.

simple: stay away of other people's lives...

I have no idea how to control that, cranberries.
If it makes you feel better I too have this problem and have zero self control when calling people out. When I try, it builds up and turns in to a bad bigger problem.

Posted by mz
simple: stay away of other people's lives...

Posted by crabberries

Posted by mz
simple: stay away of other people's lives...

they should be the one to stay away to mine.. 🙂

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i would say sth, but i am sure you'll snap at me...so...

Posted by CancerOnTheCusp
Well, call them on it in a non-combative fashion.
Even tones, don't accuse, frame it in terms of "look, I'm getting this impression that.." .
You get the idea.

+100

Also, it's easier if you try to understand it from their point of view... they might not even realize what they are doing. The more you can empathize and connect with them the more diplomatic you can be.

I understand what you're going through. Aries sun would make me all brash and blurt things out without thinking. It was pretty bad, where I was calling people stupid to their faces *smh* but if you learn to understand people and their perspective and connect you will get them to be more open and not on the defense, especially when you just attack them straight on.

Trust me I could have avoided so many fights if I had known this -_-

Cranberries I totally get where your coming from. I battle with voicing my opinion too sometimes. But lately, I realize it ain't so bad. We Cancers are very intuitive. If you feel something or someone isn't right, let it out. You'll find you be more happy & at peace if yiu do that. Holding things in is nevergood for Cancers

hahaha Tina its true that aries are known for being blunt..so aries and cancer are not good together bc of that opposite character.. and both are cardinal.. but u knw what my bff is an Aries born april 16.. 🙂 she turned to be nice now..really loyal

2BI3... Its true... It happened during childhood... really shy and too obedient haha.. are you like that also? haha.. but now its different, people would take advantage of u...

... Anyway don't worry people we're fair (**,)

@cranberries I am like what you said, but I would never let anyone take advantage of me. Im not all smiles & rainbows & shyt lol. I'll get a person told about themselves. But I try to be a gentleman

@cranberries I saw what you said about Aries people on page one. I actually like Aries woman. They are strong, assertive, & beautiful. I wouldn't count them out as a potential match. I like their personality traits.

yep but not the rude one

@cranberries definitely not the rude ones lol. I can't stand mean rude azz people. They'll get cussed out quick lol. But I do like the thread you posted here. Just keep being you, never let anyone disrespect you. Have a good night 🙂

Posted by 2BlackIndian3
@cranberries definitely not the rude ones lol. I can't stand mean rude azz people. They'll get cussed out quick lol. But I do like the thread you posted here. Just keep being you, never let anyone disrespect you. Have a good night 🙂