Cancer/Leo Cusp Hate Thread

Cancer/Leo Cusp Hate Thread

She's on the Cancer side, plus has a Cancer Moon.

Selfish bytch is about as intuitive and sympathetic as a fucking coconut.

@EmotionalAries

My boyfriend is a Leo, but Cancer cusp...... these two mixed dont seem to know who they are.
But my daughter is a Gem, Cancer cusp.... what an amazing angel, this works well.

Posted by MissFisk

Posted by Wynter
Selfish bytch is about as intuitive and sympathetic as a fucking coconut.

hahahahahha!! You fucking slay me, Wynter.

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(She's one of teh Managers at work% -})

@Montgomery

13 Years10,000+ Posts

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@CancerOnTheCusp

12 Years5,000+ Posts

Hey now, lets not be hating too much....

Some poor limpy bastard at work with a sore back wanted to leave his shift 10 min early, he was hurting.

😢

She sez "sure! get outta here! but take the trash out first!" (a 15 minute job)

What a bleep.

Posted by Montgomery

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dammit....now I'm gonna be singing that all day 😄

Now this should make for an interesting board.

What is her birthday, Wynter?

How old is this woman? Is she married? children?

Also, does this woman hate men? Does she have penis envy issues and shit like that?

Posted by EmotionalAries
My boyfriend is a Leo, but Cancer cusp...... these two mixed dont seem to know who they are.
But my daughter is a Gem, Cancer cusp.... what an amazing angel, this works well.

Tell me more about this boyfriend of yours.

Does he have conflicted emotions often? How long have you been with him?

July 22. On the days that she works we all are forced to listen to every minute detail of how she spent her life on her off days.

She has zero interest in the personal lives of any of her colleagues, or the peons.

I think she does hate men, now that you mention it. She reprimands/talks to her house-husband/sperm-bank like he's 5 years old.

She sounds like a narcissist straight out of hell, Wynter.

Usually these types cannot handle being in a relationship or marriage with a strong man, be it based on his experience, background or intelligence.

What they usually marry into is a Beta male who cannot stand his ground in arguments or discussions.

This type of woman also insists that she is always right, and that ANY male who dares to put her in her place is probably something to be destroyed.

What you said is spot on, lol. She has her Beta Male, and they are perfect together.

Grrr...

I get to work, ask if anyone watched the blood moon last night?

Canleo sez, nope, I don't see it.

*crickets*

@Cancerbabe

13 Years

my bf/ex/bf/ex.... ugh i dont even know what he is is a canceleo.... july 23.... always so conflicting... one day he wants to be single and do his thing and get all the "bad bitches".... next day he wants to do the hubby thing and do everything right by me... i love him and hate him at the same time... i want to take care of him and just leave him alone all the same....... ugh lol

Conflicting is right. A spurt of false compassion followed immediately by regret.

Coldhearted it seems, and spur of the moment emotions.

Exactly, Wynter.

Very, very ruthless people. Especially the females.

There is nothing wrong with them that a solid punch in the head cannot fix, especially if done in front of a large group of people she knows.

@AnyaRosa

12 YearsVirgo

Gosh! There must be a good side to canceleo. I for one is dying to know as I know a canceleo but I can't stand her. I tried to like her but gosh it's tough. By nature, I don't like people who is hot one minute then cold the next.

Ok. So, is there any good side to this canceleo? I refuse to believe that there is none.

The only time the Can/Leo sounds sincere is when she is talking about her family.

Hahaha! Yes...whine, then preen.

Ugh

Omg, this creepy bitch is power-tripping.

She giggles when she has someone written up...gah

What a bytch :/

@lisabethur8

14 Years50,000+ Posts

interesting topic/comments.

wonder if the males are different, but don't know the cuspers, a couple days before or after,
but the leo-cancer combo is very kind/sweet on men. Maybe on the women it comes out dominant.

@RoseTheTaurus

14 Years500+ Posts

Insecurity and Ego do not mix very well, their whole being is driven by fear and narcissism. It's easy to feel bad for them when you realize that they are scared ALL THE TIME. They are constantly afraid others will see their insecurities and their weaknesses. So they bully, they rage, they condescend. An ex cancer friend with a Leo stellium always reminded me of this lesson from lifeguard training. Basically, when attempting to save a drowning person, be aware that in their fear they will try and save themselves by pushing you under water. You can't really fault them this fear, but obviously don't let yourself be drowned...actually I feel this way about all water signs, now that I think about it.lol

Fucking tyrant.

Fucking dooshbag tyrant.

Grrr.

Somebody kill me.

@AnyaRosa

12 YearsVirgo

@Wynter: spill it out friend. What does the tyrant do today?

Hahaha! More like...how phony was she acting today.

Well, she's been working a different dept lately so not much to report.

@VirgoDragirl

12 Years1,000+ Posts

Wynter,

I just posted a question on can/leo cusps. If you can provide some insights, it will be great. This been bugging me for years. It is time to put it to sleep now.

@EmotionalAries

Posted by ScorpioFish

Posted by EmotionalAries
My boyfriend is a Leo, but Cancer cusp...... these two mixed dont seem to know who they are.
But my daughter is a Gem, Cancer cusp.... what an amazing angel, this works well.

Tell me more about this boyfriend of yours.

Does he have conflicted emotions often? How long have you been with him?

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He rides more on the Leo side, but has alot of emotions. He's an analizer about everything, thinks alot. He has to play both sides then decide on something. He's very passionate, I think he has inner struggles, but Leo normally wins.

@resurrection

12 YearsPisces

omg thats describe my leo ex I only discovered now that she is a cancer/leo cusp !

-phoney compassion makes many hates her, she once told me i cant understand why some girls hate me while i am very nice and compassionate, i told her maybe they think you are fake, I was trying to show her the flaw so she can correct it but she didnt !

-unstable emotions, one day she is enthusiastic funny text me the whole day then the next day she is isolated i text her or call her but she dont reply or reply after 5 hours!

-she was not interested to listen to my ideas or stories, but when its about here she jump excited into the conversation.

-I was really concerned about some of her health issues and her poor diet but when i try to talk to her into it she just say ahh thanks for the good information but she dont try to even consider it as a choice.

-She get irritated when i stand my ground when we argue.

-She is an was and will always be right! she never admit that a choice or position she took was wrong.

@VivaciousVirgo

12 Years

Seeing as half my family are on the cusp...

The women. They're egotistical, overly emotional and annoying because they over react to everything. They'll turn on you so fast you they leave you reeling. They make no sense- their actions make no sense, I am fairly convinced half the time they even know they're not making sense but they want to be in charge of the crazy train anyways. The only way you can survive them having an off day is to just let them get their way even if it defies all logic, because if you don't it really unsettles them and puts them on edge (hello tyrant). The irony is they're easy to dominate if you make them feel insecure. It's like they can't decide where they stand in any of it. Are you the life and soul of the party or are you the quiet one near the buffet table? Make up your mind already! But they're charming, so you forgive them.

The men. They're lovely, confused, deeply thoughtful, creative and imaginative. Just don't come to them with your emotional problems, they can't deal with them without either being affected or disinterested.

They both have a way of making you feel very needed and special BUT there's a short time limit before they get bored of you and want to move on to paying attention to something else. So just take all the loving and then after half an hour give them a breather or you wear their patience quickly. They're kind of firework people who can light up your world really quickly and give you lots of interesting information, but when it comes to you doing the same for them they are definitely wearing shades.

I'd also add, I think they give really awful first impressions. They appear how they think they should, but if they haven't even got to grips with that... I really wouldn't bestow judgement on someone on this cusp before you've engaged properly with them.

I was expressing my concern about ebola in the US:

2 weeks ago:

Wynter: Omg, ebola is here this thing is going to get out of control! Fuck
Can/Leo: Oh, be quiet! You're NOT going to get ebola! There is no way, we are too carefull...blahblah

Today:
Can/Leo: OMG, people I know were on that airplane that nurse was on!
Wynter: You worried now?
Can/Leo: What are you talking about? I never said..blahblahblah

Lying, back-peddaling piece of shit. Never owns up to her bullshit.

@CancerLeoDynamite

13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by RoseTheTaurus
Insecurity and Ego do not mix very well, their whole being is driven by fear and narcissism. It's easy to feel bad for them when you realize that they are scared ALL THE TIME. They are constantly afraid others will see their insecurities and their weaknesses. So they bully, they rage, they condescend. An ex cancer friend with a Leo stellium always reminded me of this lesson from lifeguard training. Basically, when attempting to save a drowning person, be aware that in their fear they will try and save themselves by pushing you under water. You can't really fault them this fear, but obviously don't let yourself be drowned...actually I feel this way about all water signs, now that I think about it.lol

^I agree with this. I think for many cancer-leo cuspies depending on how dominant Leo is, it is extremely difficult to accept the insecure vulnerable cancer side. Deep insecurity shows itself in many, usually obnoxious ways.

It doesn't need to be that way though.
Personally I prefer to cover my insecurities with jokes and silliness rather than nastiness but that took some maturity on my part.
I also pride myself on being able to accept my flaws, to myself and others.
That took many dedicated years of working on myself, and becoming a person I like.
Acceptance of ones flaws is not an easy task for the cancer-leo.

I cannot possibly describe how embarrassing my watery emotions were, to my cancer side growing up. I HATED that part of me, I wanted to bury it 6 feet under. I didn't want ANYONE to know I had a vulnerable side, an exploitable side and so I mistakenly confused nastiness for strength.

This is very likely what your much hated cancer-leo boss is doing.
It's no excuse.

I'm sorry you're dealing with that personality type, it's a real pain.

@prettyladii

17 Years1,000+ Posts

Cancer/Leo cusp in the house. Love us or hate us, we're great and no fucks are given.

@canerleo101

Posted by EmotionalAries
My boyfriend is a Leo, but Cancer cusp...... these two mixed dont seem to know who they are.
But my daughter is a Gem, Cancer cusp.... what an amazing angel, this works well.

I'm a cancer/Leo cusp and I know exactly who I am. I have never had an identity crisis.

@canerleo101