dumbass cancer

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You should be mad at yourself for being so f***ing stupid. DId you really think he'd show up with the money the next day... really?

You got conned and that has nothing to do with the dude's sign....

My dad's an attorney and sees this all the time. Call a lawyer.

Posted by hotmumma
Am I crazyyyyy?

yes

LOL......
I dunnooo... I miss himmmmmm tho....

Next time someone asks you to ask your friends/relatives for money when you already tell them that you yourself don't have any, tell him to GTFO. This guy being so pushy from the get-go should've told you something...he doesn't care, he just wanted your cash.

Annnnnnd he knew he could get it from you. Don't let him do this to you anymore. It's degrading and embaressing.

There are plenty of Crabs in the Sea. How could you possibly forgive him? Desperate much. Do you think it could possibly be the same around him now? Xo :/

Had the same Issue with a cancer guy couple months ago. Over a hundred bucks. I have a bad mouth for wishing bad on others and it happened to him, twice. It scared the shit out of him the first time shit I said came true. N you think he learned the first time. I don't put stuff like this on cancers. It happens with all signs. But you can't go around being nice to motherfuckers men just cause you want love. Especially if they not doing nothing for you. Just say fuckem all and hold your own down.

It is only a spot of money, it is how he went about it that is f'd up. A little desperate for what ever type of crack he was dealing. Sex crack, cuddle crack...we have all been there too. Taken a fair amount of BS to get that good feeling you get from a particular person. A douche bag is a douche bag and they are not fun to be around anyways.

Posted by hotmumma
cancergemini- I'm not desperate lol do I sound desperate ? lol..... I have other men in my life that a could date but I choose not to, as I don't think they are right for me and my daughter and I seriously liked this guy and I just thought there was something there with him.. I trusted him enough to come into my home, meet my child and yea just thought we both wanted the same thing and understood each other.. I'm just over the dating shit and just wanted it to work out with him... but yea your right I don't think it would be the same.. I couldn't trust him at all and I guess it wouldn't work out anywayz with no trust there. Been thinking about everything he did and there were a lot of signs he was gonna fuck me around anyways, I guess I choose to ignore it stupid me lol
oh welllll I've decided to get over it and move on. plenty more crabs in the sea lol

Pheonixbluez- its soooooo good to hear someone has been through the exact same thing! what happened with this dude? do u still talk to him? I know ey I was doing so much for this guy and I got nothing back. I'm learninggggg the do's n don't in this dating thing, learning from my mistakes.

Thanks everyone who replied to me 🙂 xoxox

Let's just say do good on to those who do good onto you. After he took my money than threatened me after giving him two more weeks on top of the four weeks to pays me back, I confronted him about it after the two weeks and he threatened me. I never spoke to him or called him again. I was done, took it as a lost and moved on. I have a bad habit of hearing a sob story and always want to help. It's a learning progress to have to changes something that's a core part of your being. But it's a necessary change for me.

Posted by thomas1214

Posted by hotmumma
LOL......
I dunnooo... I miss himmmmmm tho....

oooh my god just seriously shut up. omg i was used and blah blah blah .. but .. buuut i miiiiisssss hiiiiimmmmm.. no wonder you get used and dont tell me this isnt the first time.

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lol I like this...
but nah seriously I have never had this happen before.. I don't let it happen, I'm not the kind of person who will let people take me for granted, I would tell em to get fucked! but for some stupid reason I wanted to help this guy and be there for him.... but ye I'm over it.. karma is gon get him anyhow.....

geminicancer- I wanted his cuddles lol. Every time I saw him I had an urge to jump on him and cuddle him.. He was like a big cuddly teddy bear. lol

Posted by elihope69
how much money was it? u need to try to pay your uncle back. and forget about this loser. lessend learned never let anyone borrow money. ever. give it away but never lend it. youll always b dissapointed.

yup it was 180 he owes me... n ye my poor uncle is very upset I havn't been able to pay it back yet :/

Posted by Pandybear
Well do you know any of his close friends? Family? Maybe people he rooms with?

nope,, he lives about an 1hr from me. I have met a couple of his friends but ye I don't know them that well enough to ask them about him.

Posted by WynterBourne
"donkey cancer"

LOL 😛

seriously, i lol'd. donkey is my new cuss word

but why take him back.
you can accept the apology and leave it at that, but why would you trust him again?

I never said i was going to take him back. I sent him a email back sayin thanks for apology your forgiven.. and that's it.. Only thing i want from him now is my money and hopefully he is sorry enough to give it back.

A Cancer man for you in the flesh! If you seriously recieved sorry email, be thankful. Knowing a Cancer for exerience apologizing id unlikely because he can't see the problem as be as being "wrong".

I am willing to bet he in his mind, you owe it to him for sexual reimbursement. This situation with your description of this man being "fat" sound like a Cancer man I know who has pulled this whole sabotaging "act" on alot of ppl!

You live in TN? If so leave his "fat, sloppy ass alone. If not Cancer men do this stupid ish to the exact " T". He doesn't care you have a kid either. He will deliberately make you depressed.

What sign are you? Leave his fat ass alone. Urgh this has happened to the best of us. I feel your pain. Lol

In first paragrah-typo, on cell tying. I meant knowing a Cancer man from experience apologising id unlikely.

Well don't feel bad or be hard on yourself. It has happened to the best of us. Trust, a hard, bitter pill to swallow. Leave him alone, move on.
Get uncles money the best way you can. You borrowed it and he trusted you. Can't rob Peter to pay Paul.
Uncle is family. Ish pisses me off just hearing about it. He will always be the same. Selling you sob stories for you to "buy" in return.
Demanding the money is just a playoff fact because you may still want connection. Cut off, leave alone and move on. Life isn't designed to completely waddle in misery. It happens to the best of us.