I need help now. My mind is racing. My friend met this dude at this race she went to last weekend. He's her type all the way. He sounds like he makes 6 figures too. Anyways she just met him in Sunday and they've already been on 3 dates! I have NEVER seen her move so fast and be so open with someone new. She gets over wxcited when she mentions him and asks me questions about if he's a good guy or not. I feel like she is out to meet Prince Charming since the passed 2 niggas been some shut. She was never into nice guys but now she has like 7 lined up. But she's never moved this fast. She took a picture of him at the race and even posted it on Facebook. You can't tell she's singling him out cuz she posted other random pictures. I bet she did that to ask her girlfriends for their opinion of him without having to send it out to her group of friends.From the little she told me sounds like he is smitten too. I need help! All the dates they been on dude had to think hard and plan for that in advance or pay extra money to pull that off last minute so I know he fucks hard with her. I don't think she's had sex with him because she likes being friends first but she hasn't been on 3 big 5 hour dates in one week. Plus this is the last week at the job that stresses her out where she takes care of patients so now she's going to have a lot of free time to see people and have fun. Plus it's getting warm and she loves doing a lot of fun shit 24/7. Now all she is doing is working for the political stuff she does and is perfecting her book and business. The publishing company that is publishing requires that she travels a lot starting in April. Plus she's up and coming. You'll probably hear about her on tv by next year or the next 2 years. So saying all this she loves for her partner to get into her work with her and her book is one of the most ingenuous mind blowing books out here and I know this dude can possibly get close enough to her to experience it all with her. The behind the scenes stuff most people don't get to see. It's sad but I wish she was still at her job so she can be busy and tied up. I also snuck a peak at a statement receipt that was laying around and u saw her savings amount _??_ and she definitely doesn't need to work right now. She is so modest is crazy! She could be living in a nice ass house in my area but you'll never know it. I knew she had money but damn! I feel like she's growing up and getting out and I don't want to be left behind. I'm happy she mi
Help! Cancer might have found The One
I'm happy she might have found true love but I can't help but feel salty about it. Help me. Dude is like 6'4 cut but slim and he's Italian and Korean and he makes bank. Plus he's smitten with her. Help me. Plus she got driven to the point where she doesn't give a fuck about impressions and what other people think and she's back to her wild happy go lucky over the top self. So i just know he'll fall for her. Her sag ex and 4 other people are fond of her too but she still looks like she's just back out there dating around for fun but this looks like she's way interested. Dudes keep giving her gifts and try to impress her. Some even started writing to her and doing special things she loves. Dude took her to NASA and had a night time picnic at their planetarium and named a star after her. I know she came off of that. This is the dude she met ON SUNDAY!!
FML. It's more than game I can tell. I think his heart is already tied up or soon will be. The other 2 dates-they had a lunch date INSIDE the monument and and went kayaking. The other they had a improv date and they were improving together at like a diner lounge scene. He even gave her a pet name already and he's always calling her and texting and she Tex's and calls right back. We were chatting and she saw he was calling and was like oh g2g he's calling me. She never has been the type for that sort of thing. And she she has game better than most men so I bet she knows it's real. I'm just a little sad but I am happy for her. I just don't know if she will stay as close to me because no dude that's in love with her will have me around because most people get possessive of her. I mean she's a beautiful brilliant strong woman I knew this day would come but I'm just not ready for it. I need help coping.
Posted by Kodak375
Guess the dude got game.
😄 that's what i thought.
was an enjoyable read though.
aw, you might have lost her for good.

Sorry to hear 😢 hope you can cope with that and well.. stay open minded. Wishing you all the best
Thinktoomuch I said she has been over her sag ex for years now. He's not over her. I'm not trying to be with my cancer we already cleared that up months ago I know she don't want me. I know I will never be able to sweep her off her feet. I'm asking for help with coping with her having her happy ever after when I still want her. All I am hoping for now is a steady friendship.
Thanks AND. Tough life.
Thanks AND. Tough life.
Posted by lisabethur8Posted by Kodak375
Guess the dude got game.
😄 that's what i thought.
was an enjoyable read though.
aw, you might have lost her for good.click to expand
Lost her for good as a friend—
Good question ksam. I was learning how to focus on me then this thing flipped my world. I'll get over it. Hopefully her sag ex beats him up and the dude runs away. Lol I'm terrible. I know that will never work because she took everything away from him and he has every reason to behave and be respectful. Damn
I did say that and I do think that's true but what does that have to do with my situation? And I think you are talking about the other aqua dude she was talking to. They were never in a official relationship because he couldn't commit. Yea I should distance myself

Do stuff to take yr mind off it,like i am.
Posted by Koniucha
Is that you in your profile pic lisa?
no, but she's a double aqua.
is that you, koniucha in your pic?
Posted by KoniuchaPosted by lisabethur8Posted by Koniucha
Is that you in your profile pic lisa?
no, but she's a double aqua.
is that you, koniucha in your pic?
Yes, that is meclick to expand
it's very mysterious. love the soft colours.

You are going to drive yourself insane trying to figure out why she doesn't see you as an option.
Maybe if you actually tried dating other women you might have the same love and happiness in your life.
Maybe if you actually tried dating other women you might have the same love and happiness in your life.
LM and TTM I know she doesn't want anything with me and I've know that for months now. That's not my problem. My problem is coping. How do I cope? I have been dating women and it's not the same at all. Not even a close second. But I am going out tomorrow so well ser

I also started to see other people again! I wrote the cancer today sayin that I finally need an answer and the truth. Told him that once its done its done for me and that he should speak up now before I'm gone. I txted that WHATEVER the truth is I'd accept it as long as he is honest with me but I wont take this shitty behavior any longer. I said that I'll put his book he lend me in his mailbox soon, so he gets that I'm dead setious about blowing it off if he doesnt speak up. So in the meantime I meet other people (no dates per se)
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