I was hanging out with a cancer woman a day ago having a good time. At the end of the day she suggested we hangout again but I told her that I would be busy. So today, I messaged her after finding out I would be free asking If she wanted to hangout, but she acted very distant and responded sarcastically. Did I do something to upset her?
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Hmmm, she probably assumed that you when you said you were busy that you had better things to do, or maybe suspects when you were freed up that she was an option. But like Arielle83 , It would be best to see what she said. To determine what is going on.
I told her I was able to make time and she only responded with "k?"
What can I do about this? Go through with the hangout, cancel, apologize etc?
How badly did i mess up?
How badly did i mess up?

Just ask her if she’d like to hang out again. How many days has it been since u talked to her? I had a guy message me two weeks after a first date saying he was surprised to not here from me. I was offended. Why didn’t YOU message me sooner. Then hes pissed i found someone else. I think men should court women. Because it shows you’re a man looking for something serious as opposed to the bs us girls deal with nowadays with a lot of men.
Yesterday, she wanted to hang out today but I told her I was busy since plans were up in the air and I didn't know what was going on until tonight. So i messaged her saying I was open to hangout tomorrow and she started giving one-word responses "k?" But won't say what's wrong. She may be moody too, I don't know.
Posted by moontomoonwithbug
What can I do about this? Go through with the hangout, cancel, apologize etc?
How badly did i mess up?
Lawd have mercy 🤦
Were you ACTUALLY busy? If so, then your TRUTH has weight to it.
You REALLY shouldn't read so much into her "k". It's all about ACTION.
Did you MAKE a plan towards how and where to hang out? That would've relaxed her KNOWING that you took INITIATIVE to plan something fun for her to enjoy WITH you.
It's that SIMPLE.
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