I am thinking of hitting up an old Virgo flame, the previous attempt about 3 years ago was very temperamental and ultimately failed. Now, we have grown up a bit more and I think we should try it again. thoughts? Good or bad idea?
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Posted by Arielle83No, I was seeing a Cap, it didn't work out.
I thought you had a gf?!
I have not been in a stable relationship for about 3 years now, girls have been coming and going.
Posted by rampartsWe wanted to hate fuck and kill eachother at the same time. It was true love, you can only hate that much when you truly feel infinite attraction.
Lol.
Describe the nature of the relationship? And your intentions now?
I would wife her without hesitation, one of maybe 2 women in my entire life that I have thought of like that. I wouldn't care if she ultimately tried to kill me or take my balls in a divorce, she would have been worth everything.
Posted by Arielle83Venus in Scorpio, she won't ask a goddamn thing. It's all dark and murky in there.
Ya then do it.
She might post a thread asking about "my cancer man came back, now what?"
Posted by rampartsI tested her out with a text yesterday, she responded and confirmed her phone number 😉.Posted by incandescentcancerGo for it. Do you wanna wait a little bit so it doesn't seem like the whole...it's a new year and im lonely so im gonna hit up an old flame vibe?Posted by rampartsWe wanted to hate fuck and kill eachother at the same time. It was true love, you can only hate that much when you truly feel infinite attraction.
Lol.
Describe the nature of the relationship? And your intentions now?
I would wife her without hesitation, one of maybe 2 women in my entire life that I have thought of like that. I wouldn't care if she ultimately tried to kill me or take my balls in a divorce, she would have been worth everything.click to expand
I will let it rest for like a month now....I have to screw with her head a little bit first because she is going to do the same.
Last time, we had a massive fight 3 years ago and she hooked up with a guy at a party in front of my eyes and took him home. I returned the favor exactly two weeks later, so that she knew we could both do it. All indications of a very healthy relationship ....lol.
Posted by busyeyes88Absolutely, how would I be a cancer male if I didn't do this. you got to make sure that everyone who had the misfortune to date you is never able to move forward or go back. That's how we do.Posted by incandescentcancerBad!! Jeez 2016 is a brand new year and you want to go back in time by 3 years? Smh!!!
I am thinking of hitting up an old Virgo flame, the previous attempt about 3 years ago was very temperamental and ultimately failed. Now, we have grown up a bit more and I think we should try it again. thoughts? Good or bad idea?click to expand
Posted by KoniuchaWhat? I wouldn't go back if it was a nice relationship.
Oh for the love of...
This was a train wreck and she still talk to me! That's true love I tell you!
Posted by Arielle83Miracle of love and all that....
BAHAHAHAHAHA YOURE HILAR
Posted by rampartsWe don't live in the same country anymore, it's not like we are going to see a broadway show next week. I just want to keep the simmer alive, I don't even care if she dates anyone right now. In the long run I want her to end up with me, that would be fun....lol.
Come on...a month is just cruel. You're setting a new standard for the relationship here...do you really wanna play games?
A week at the very most!!! You lose momentum and cause the other person to become disheartened when you wait that damn long.
If she's receptive don't play the waiting game.
Posted by KoniuchaWhat? Speak up woman, I know you really want to say something here. Spit it out! 😄
-_-
Posted by rampartsShe has Mars in Sag (4th house), Venus in Scorp (3rd house) and Moon in Aries (8th house) - Virgo Asc
How's the synastry? Spill it. What aspects are making the sex so great?
I have Mars in Gem (10th house), Venus in Cancer (11th house) and Moon in Cap (5th house) - Virgo Asc.
All that fire is awesome, I love it.
Posted by rampartsI love fiery women, that's what I keep going for. My first long term relationship was a Leo women, we were awesome together. I want fun, humor and great sex - I am personally not evry mushy etc. I am nice but not mushy.Posted by incandescentcancerCancer men, I swear. i think its a good match. I think Cancer men should date earth or air. You guys think you need mushy gushy emotions but you really need someone somewhat detached from emotions.Posted by rampartsWe don't live in the same country anymore, it's not like we are going to see a broadway show next week. I just want to keep the simmer alive, I don't even care if she dates anyone right now. In the long run I want her to end up with me, that would be fun....lol.
Come on...a month is just cruel. You're setting a new standard for the relationship here...do you really wanna play games?
A week at the very most!!! You lose momentum and cause the other person to become disheartened when you wait that damn long.
If she's receptive don't play the waiting game.click to expand
Posted by MlleFiskWhat do you think this is? 😉
😐
Dude... you should keep this thread on top for the women who spam your board with "i havent talked to him in X amount of years then texted/facedbooked/sent me a dick pick/called out of nowhere. What does he want?"
Posted by scorpx3 Highly disagree with you pursuing this relationship, but that's just my opinion...Why? I need reasons, how can I make up my mind otherwise!
Posted by rampartsWe actually get eachother very well, intuitively we both are very linked. We also however become violent with eachother....lol.Posted by incandescentcancerAll that square and opposition. Lol. You like a challenge I seePosted by rampartsShe has Mars in Sag (4th house), Venus in Scorp (3rd house) and Moon in Aries (8th house) - Virgo Asc
How's the synastry? Spill it. What aspects are making the sex so great?
I have Mars in Gem (10th house), Venus in Cancer (11th house) and Moon in Cap (5th house) - Virgo Asc.
All that fire is awesome, I love it.click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerPeople are exes for a reason, but if the drama between you two is what you like, go for it.Posted by scorpx3 Highly disagree with you pursuing this relationship, but that's just my opinion...Why? I need reasons, how can I make up my mind otherwise!click to expand
Posted by GreenteaShe is not an ex, we never fulfilled our relationship in the traditional sense. We have history together, it's unfulfilled....Posted by incandescentcancerPeople are exes for a reason, but if the drama between you two is what you like, go for it.Posted by scorpx3 Highly disagree with you pursuing this relationship, but that's just my opinion...Why? I need reasons, how can I make up my mind otherwise!click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerAhh, gotcha. So what were you guys?Posted by GreenteaShe is not an ex, we never fulfilled our relationship in the traditional sense. We have history together, it's unfulfilled....Posted by incandescentcancerPeople are exes for a reason, but if the drama between you two is what you like, go for it.Posted by scorpx3 Highly disagree with you pursuing this relationship, but that's just my opinion...Why? I need reasons, how can I make up my mind otherwise!click to expand
Posted by scorpx3I understand what you're saying. Below the toxicity there was also some goodness, which is why I am thinking about this. Maybe, both of us have just grown up a little bit? What do you think?Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by scorpx3 Highly disagree with you pursuing this relationship, but that's just my opinion...Why? I need reasons, how can I make up my mind otherwise!
If you're into toxicity, go for it. But your relationship sounds like it's doomed. I would like to believe, since it's been so many years, that things can be different for you two... But why be with someone who plays around with your head? And why are you playing with her head? It's absurd. Nothing feels right to me about it. Again, just my opinion, but take my two cents for what they're worth..click to expand
Posted by GreenteaI don't know what we were but we were intense. There was passion, we understood eachother. We will never forget eachother.Posted by incandescentcancerAhh, gotcha. So what were you guys?Posted by GreenteaShe is not an ex, we never fulfilled our relationship in the traditional sense. We have history together, it's unfulfilled....Posted by incandescentcancerPeople are exes for a reason, but if the drama between you two is what you like, go for it.Posted by scorpx3 Highly disagree with you pursuing this relationship, but that's just my opinion...Why? I need reasons, how can I make up my mind otherwise!click to expand
Posted by MlleFiskTrust me on one thing, he didn't marry her because he is a pushover, he married her because he knew he could manage her. Ultimately, Cancer men know how to handle women of any sign.
Cancer men and their fascination with strong-headed women.
I knew one who dated a first decan, Neptunian Aries. Cheated on her then broke up with her. Next serious relationship was with a Sag who used to throw things and slapped him during drunken fits. He married her. lmao.
Crazies.
Posted by rampartsThe out of reach part is a very interesting comment. Do you genuinely think that we end up wanting what we will never have and therefore will be permanently unfulfilled?Posted by MlleFiskIt's both sexes sometimes...wanting what they can't have. Cancer women don't want to be sited on either. They love men who are just out of reach
Cancer men and their fascination with strong-headed women.
I knew one who dated a first decan, Neptunian Aries. Cheated on her then broke up with her. Next serious relationship was with a Sag who used to throw things and slapped him during drunken fits. He married her. lmao.
Crazies.click to expand
Dude, better to try and say, "Oh well," than not try and always wonder "What if..."??
I say go with guns blazing.
But please. Don't go hiding on her for weeks at a time. It makes some of us depressed and confused. Five to seven days, tops.
Another country, huh? I love how you love that challenge!
I say go with guns blazing.
But please. Don't go hiding on her for weeks at a time. It makes some of us depressed and confused. Five to seven days, tops.
Another country, huh? I love how you love that challenge!
Posted by MlleFiskLOL! Some Cancer men deserves to get slapped. I'm sure there were a few women who would've loved to do that, the Sag actually did.
Cancer men and their fascination with strong-headed women.
I knew one who dated a first decan, Neptunian Aries. Cheated on her then broke up with her. Next serious relationship was with a Sag who used to throw things and slapped him during drunken fits. He married her. lmao.
Crazies.
Posted by GalOnTheCuspYeah, I need to find some balance. Here is the thing, I haven't spoken to her in two years. I messaged her for new years and she responded soon, confirmed her phone number etc.
Dude, better to try and say, "Oh well," than not try and always wonder "What if..."??
I say go with guns blazing.
But please. Don't go hiding on her for weeks at a time. It makes some of us depressed and confused. Five to seven days, tops.
Another country, huh? I love how you love that challenge!
I have lived in 7 countries myself and travelled to like 35, I don't think of time and distance around the world as most other people do. If it works I will do what needs to be done to put us both in the same place.
Posted by MlleFiskShe is beautiful in a very statuesque sense.
Between "managing" women and wanting something unattainable... it sounds like just a game for your ego's sake. You werent even in an established relationship with her, so i'm slightly baffled what it is really you want to achieve from this.
Posted by incandescentcancerViolent woth eachother? Passion..Chemistry..Posted by rampartsWe actually get eachother very well, intuitively we both are very linked. We also however become violent with eachother....lol.Posted by incandescentcancerAll that square and opposition. Lol. You like a challenge I seePosted by rampartsShe has Mars in Sag (4th house), Venus in Scorp (3rd house) and Moon in Aries (8th house) - Virgo Asc
How's the synastry? Spill it. What aspects are making the sex so great?
I have Mars in Gem (10th house), Venus in Cancer (11th house) and Moon in Cap (5th house) - Virgo Asc.
All that fire is awesome, I love it.click to expand
If you didn't have a "relationship", how could it be this intense. Imo, you did have a relationship, just wasn't official perhaps?...what makes you think it'll be any different with a title?
Posted by GreenteaThat's violent....lol. No matter what someone did, you can't say stuff like that. I can't imagine if you heard a man going around saying a woman deserves to be slapped.Posted by MlleFiskLOL! Some Cancer men deserves to get slapped. I'm sure there were a few women who would've loved to do that, the Sag actually did.
Cancer men and their fascination with strong-headed women.
I knew one who dated a first decan, Neptunian Aries. Cheated on her then broke up with her. Next serious relationship was with a Sag who used to throw things and slapped him during drunken fits. He married her. lmao.
Crazies.click to expand
Posted by MlleFiskShe have any scorp placements? One of my Sag friends can get like that...real mouthy and tempermental.Posted by GreenteaMeh. I dont condone violence from either sexes. That Sag was lucky this guy doesnt hit women because she was the hugest bitch when drunk.Posted by MlleFiskLOL! Some Cancer men deserves to get slapped. I'm sure there were a few women who would've loved to do that, the Sag actually did.
Cancer men and their fascination with strong-headed women.
I knew one who dated a first decan, Neptunian Aries. Cheated on her then broke up with her. Next serious relationship was with a Sag who used to throw things and slapped him during drunken fits. He married her. lmao.
Crazies.click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvShe would get cold with me and withdraw, I would get drunk and mad. The more mad I get the more she provoked me. It was a vicious cycle, we both did a lot of damage to eachother's self respect.
What was the issue or the constant fighting about
Posted by incandescentcancerSome women do, doesn't mean they should. I dont condone what she did at all, but I'm sure she did what some women felt like doing.Posted by GreenteaThat's violent....lol. No matter what someone did, you can't say stuff like that. I can't imagine if you heard a man going around saying a woman deserves to be slapped.Posted by MlleFiskLOL! Some Cancer men deserves to get slapped. I'm sure there were a few women who would've loved to do that, the Sag actually did.
Cancer men and their fascination with strong-headed women.
I knew one who dated a first decan, Neptunian Aries. Cheated on her then broke up with her. Next serious relationship was with a Sag who used to throw things and slapped him during drunken fits. He married her. lmao.
Crazies.click to expand
Posted by GreenteaViolent woth eachother? Passion..Chemistry..Definitely passionate and high on chemistry, very intense at a basic level. She would like stare at me from across the room and I would kn ow she was looking at me, I would say something subtle and she knew it was meant for her. It was crazy. At the same time, we also did things to hurt eachother because we knew that would hurt the other person.
If you didn't have a "relationship", how could it be this intense. Imo, you did have a relationship, just wasn't official perhaps?...what makes you think it'll be any different with a title?
Posted by ImpulsvThe girl I am talking about had Scorp placements, she wouldn't say a word. She knew how to plunge a knife into my heart and twist it over and over again without saying a word. The worst part was no one else knew what she was doing except the both of us. Crazy, isn't it?
Nanana no Scorpio placement we don't get mouthy
It's all sag fire shit
Posted by ImpulsvShe isn't cold at all, just pretends to be. Last time, our timing was off and both of us were younger. I think now we have both grown up a bit more. I don't know if it will turn out any better, might be another massive screw up.Posted by incandescentcancerMmm so have u matured enough to handle her coldness n set ego aside. Otherwise u might start something when timing is off the. Really ruin possibility to make it work.Posted by ImpulsvShe would get cold with me and withdraw, I would get drunk and mad. The more mad I get the more she provoked me. It was a vicious cycle, we both did a lot of damage to eachother's self respect.
What was the issue or the constant fighting about
Shit why do water sign love the emotionally controlled cold earth signsclick to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerOmg lol. Cancer man virgo woman. Never failsPosted by rampartsI tested her out with a text yesterday, she responded and confirmed her phone number 😉.Posted by incandescentcancerGo for it. Do you wanna wait a little bit so it doesn't seem like the whole...it's a new year and im lonely so im gonna hit up an old flame vibe?Posted by rampartsWe wanted to hate fuck and kill eachother at the same time. It was true love, you can only hate that much when you truly feel infinite attraction.
Lol.
Describe the nature of the relationship? And your intentions now?
I would wife her without hesitation, one of maybe 2 women in my entire life that I have thought of like that. I wouldn't care if she ultimately tried to kill me or take my balls in a divorce, she would have been worth everything.
I will let it rest for like a month now....I have to screw with her head a little bit first because she is going to do the same.
Last time, we had a massive fight 3 years ago and she hooked up with a guy at a party in front of my eyes and took him home. I returned the favor exactly two weeks later, so that she knew we could both do it. All indications of a very healthy relationship ....lol.click to expand
Posted by rampartsYep. What she said!Posted by incandescentcancerCancer men, I swear. i think its a good match. I think Cancer men should date earth or air. You guys think you need mushy gushy emotions but you really need someone somewhat detached from emotions.Posted by rampartsWe don't live in the same country anymore, it's not like we are going to see a broadway show next week. I just want to keep the simmer alive, I don't even care if she dates anyone right now. In the long run I want her to end up with me, that would be fun....lol.
Come on...a month is just cruel. You're setting a new standard for the relationship here...do you really wanna play games?
A week at the very most!!! You lose momentum and cause the other person to become disheartened when you wait that damn long.
If she's receptive don't play the waiting game.click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvWeelll, I don't know, my girlfriend has a scorpio moon. My other sag friend isn't that way at all, she's happy go lucky drunk and doesn't like to start trouble.
Nanana no Scorpio placement we don't get mouthy
It's all sag fire shit
Posted by ListenlearnteachRight?!... it's like they met their match in the drama dept.Posted by incandescentcancerOmg lol. Cancer man virgo woman. Never failsPosted by rampartsI tested her out with a text yesterday, she responded and confirmed her phone number 😉.Posted by incandescentcancerGo for it. Do you wanna wait a little bit so it doesn't seem like the whole...it's a new year and im lonely so im gonna hit up an old flame vibe?Posted by rampartsWe wanted to hate fuck and kill eachother at the same time. It was true love, you can only hate that much when you truly feel infinite attraction.
Lol.
Describe the nature of the relationship? And your intentions now?
I would wife her without hesitation, one of maybe 2 women in my entire life that I have thought of like that. I wouldn't care if she ultimately tried to kill me or take my balls in a divorce, she would have been worth everything.
I will let it rest for like a month now....I have to screw with her head a little bit first because she is going to do the same.
Last time, we had a massive fight 3 years ago and she hooked up with a guy at a party in front of my eyes and took him home. I returned the favor exactly two weeks later, so that she knew we could both do it. All indications of a very healthy relationship ....lol.click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvOh yeah, it was. We did bad things to eachother and forgave eachother in 5 mts. It was nuts, I think deep down we both knew how the other person ticked.
Haha she is ur mirror
When u connected that deep the slightest thing hurts like a mofo
Posted by ListenlearnteachFor me it particularly works because of the Cap Moon (me) - Virgo (sun (her) - trine.Posted by incandescentcancerOmg lol. Cancer man virgo woman. Never failsPosted by rampartsI tested her out with a text yesterday, she responded and confirmed her phone number 😉.Posted by incandescentcancerGo for it. Do you wanna wait a little bit so it doesn't seem like the whole...it's a new year and im lonely so im gonna hit up an old flame vibe?Posted by rampartsWe wanted to hate fuck and kill eachother at the same time. It was true love, you can only hate that much when you truly feel infinite attraction.
Lol.
Describe the nature of the relationship? And your intentions now?
I would wife her without hesitation, one of maybe 2 women in my entire life that I have thought of like that. I wouldn't care if she ultimately tried to kill me or take my balls in a divorce, she would have been worth everything.
I will let it rest for like a month now....I have to screw with her head a little bit first because she is going to do the same.
Last time, we had a massive fight 3 years ago and she hooked up with a guy at a party in front of my eyes and took him home. I returned the favor exactly two weeks later, so that she knew we could both do it. All indications of a very healthy relationship ....lol.click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvThese are just general thoughts at the moment, I am not sure how to approach this.
Oh just read ur response about making her wait to mess with her head before she messes with yours
Nope ur not ready drop
It.
U were talking wanting her to be ur wife
U will destroy all chances with that ego mentality
N by ego mentally I mean fear n self protection
I am open to advice.
Posted by rampartsTrue. I would necessarily put it that way but I get it.Posted by incandescentcancerI don't know the psychology behind the behaviors...just something I've observed.Posted by rampartsThe out of reach part is a very interesting comment. Do you genuinely think that we end up wanting what we will never have and therefore will be permanently unfulfilled?Posted by MlleFiskIt's both sexes sometimes...wanting what they can't have. Cancer women don't want to be sited on either. They love men who are just out of reach
Cancer men and their fascination with strong-headed women.
I knew one who dated a first decan, Neptunian Aries. Cheated on her then broke up with her. Next serious relationship was with a Sag who used to throw things and slapped him during drunken fits. He married her. lmao.
Crazies.
I've said this before-Cancers are described as little puppies who want to be petted all the time and will come every time you call them for love and affection. Wrong. Cancers are like cats who will interrupt whatever the hell you're doing to demand attention when they want it but if you try to hold them too tight or pet them too much they get pissed and hiss and scratch you to let you know "look bitch I don't fucking need your shit...but you can still fill my food bowl and clean up my shit box"click to expand
Posted by starwarsROFL.Posted by incandescentcancerTHIS IS SO TRUE GOD DAMNPosted by busyeyes88Absolutely, how would I be a cancer male if I didn't do this. you got to make sure that everyone who had the misfortune to date you is never able to move forward or go back. That's how we do.Posted by incandescentcancerBad!! Jeez 2016 is a brand new year and you want to go back in time by 3 years? Smh!!!
I am thinking of hitting up an old Virgo flame, the previous attempt about 3 years ago was very temperamental and ultimately failed. Now, we have grown up a bit more and I think we should try it again. thoughts? Good or bad idea?click to expand
Posted by ImpulsvI agree.
Oh just read ur response about making her wait to mess with her head before she messes with yours
Nope ur not ready drop
It.
U were talking wanting her to be ur wife
U will destroy all chances with that ego mentality
N by ego mentally I mean fear n self protection
I also don't even think it's fear...if it's fear then why would they be bold enough to hurt eachother before. It's ego imo. Games to gain control over the other.
Posted by incandescentcancerTrine. So she doest put up with your shyt and you respect it after you do it. Makes sensePosted by ListenlearnteachFor me it particularly works because of the Cap Moon (me) - Virgo (sun (her) - trine.Posted by incandescentcancerOmg lol. Cancer man virgo woman. Never failsPosted by rampartsI tested her out with a text yesterday, she responded and confirmed her phone number 😉.Posted by incandescentcancerGo for it. Do you wanna wait a little bit so it doesn't seem like the whole...it's a new year and im lonely so im gonna hit up an old flame vibe?Posted by rampartsWe wanted to hate fuck and kill eachother at the same time. It was true love, you can only hate that much when you truly feel infinite attraction.
Lol.
Describe the nature of the relationship? And your intentions now?
I would wife her without hesitation, one of maybe 2 women in my entire life that I have thought of like that. I wouldn't care if she ultimately tried to kill me or take my balls in a divorce, she would have been worth everything.
I will let it rest for like a month now....I have to screw with her head a little bit first because she is going to do the same.
Last time, we had a massive fight 3 years ago and she hooked up with a guy at a party in front of my eyes and took him home. I returned the favor exactly two weeks later, so that she knew we could both do it. All indications of a very healthy relationship ....lol.click to expand
Posted by rampartsLOL....I have never seen cancers described like this but hey the shoe fits.Posted by incandescentcancerI don't know the psychology behind the behaviors...just something I've observed.Posted by rampartsThe out of reach part is a very interesting comment. Do you genuinely think that we end up wanting what we will never have and therefore will be permanently unfulfilled?Posted by MlleFiskIt's both sexes sometimes...wanting what they can't have. Cancer women don't want to be sited on either. They love men who are just out of reach
Cancer men and their fascination with strong-headed women.
I knew one who dated a first decan, Neptunian Aries. Cheated on her then broke up with her. Next serious relationship was with a Sag who used to throw things and slapped him during drunken fits. He married her. lmao.
Crazies.
I've said this before-Cancers are described as little puppies who want to be petted all the time and will come every time you call them for love and affection. Wrong. Cancers are like cats who will interrupt whatever the hell you're doing to demand attention when they want it but if you try to hold them too tight or pet them too much they get pissed and hiss and scratch you to let you know "look bitch I don't fucking need your shit...but you can still fill my food bowl and clean up my shit box"click to expand
Posted by starwarsTurn off the filter setting on your personal settings. I read it exactly as you typed it.
what the hell is sparkle motion? really dxp? when will you stop sugar coating my swearings! smh
Posted by ListenlearnteachTrine. So she doest put up with your shyt and you respect it after you do it. Makes senseI respect her a lot and she respect me too, I know that. It isn't respect, I think it's about control.
Posted by starwarsI don't want her to kick my balls and I don't want to cunt punt her either....lol.Posted by Greentea+1Posted by ImpulsvI agree.
Oh just read ur response about making her wait to mess with her head before she messes with yours
Nope ur not ready drop
It.
U were talking wanting her to be ur wife
U will destroy all chances with that ego mentality
N by ego mentally I mean fear n self protection
I also don't even think it's fear...if it's fear then why would they be bold enough to hurt eachother before. It's ego imo. Games to gain control over the other.
I think she will kick your balls hard this time, warned you!click to expand
Posted by scorpx3If you're fully aware that the both of you are going to play mind games again, then no, both of you have not grown up a little bit. Don't chase after the intensity of an affair or relationship or whatever. Pursue what makes you happy. You'll find love that way. Love isn't hurting each other, which you two seem to do to each other more often than not. That's not love, and that's a disgusting shade of passion. I get it if you're into BDSM which I'm kinky enough to be down for to a degree - but hurting the other's feelings and disrespecting them? Not on my watch...Your points are great, I am going to think about it.
I sincerely think this is unhealthy for the both of you. Even with the way you're describing your situation now, it doesn't seem you've grown out of former perspectives of this relationship. You don't want something different; it seems you want the same vicious cycle again. Don't make it an ego thing, or else you'll hurt yourself. Don't go after someone who's so "statuesque" and arrogant that she'd hurt you for her pride/ego. Why do you want that—
Maybe, we haven't grown up at all, the only way to find out will be to test it out again and see what happens. You're right about one thing for sure, I definitely do not want the same vicious cycle.
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Dear All, My first post here and I hope you can help me. I have been dating the most wonderful cancer man for 3 months now. He has really swept me off my feet and where I was initially afraid, he really took my fear away and made me believe I was it
I'll be brief with this post. I need to know what to do, I'm at my wits end. I can handle the disappearing if he needs space. But I need to know why he's acting like this. He still contacts me/responds, but it sounds so cold lately. Every time I say somet
The cancer man I was dating for 4 months send me a xmas text today, after 2 month of NC. It just said: Hello (my name), merry christmas, I Hope, all is good with you and I Hope, you can enjoy some relaxing holidays. Some of you might remember my earlie
Hi everyone so I've been dating this guy a couple of months, he's a Cancer and I'm an Aquarius. It's been a whirlwind romance and God we fell in love ridiculously fast. Everything was so effortless and we were inseparable. We never fell out over anything.
A Cancerian Ode to Han Solo https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JncgoPKklVE
Should I sent my Cancer crush a Merry Christmas Text? Would they like it? We have been intimate and going out. Thanks
Addictive. That is all. :-)
Hi all, this is my first post. First off I am a Capricorn male: Sidereal time: 07:09:58 UTC Sun in Capricorn at 17° 39'. Moon was in Cancer at 29° 09'. Mercury in Sagittarius at 25° 17'. Venus was in Pisces at 04° 07'. Mars in Pisces at 10° 29'
When a cancerian guy says he wants to take things so...cause he is scared of being emotionally attached to me again and doesn't want to be affected by my actions..... and then makes little effort to contact me. But when I do see him.... He is all lovey d