Need help understanding a Cancer male

Hi, I'm new to this forum. Well, I'm a Capricorn, and I tend to attract Cancer guys (not surprising, considering we are zodiac opposites). I feel like they expect me to be more sensitive and intuitive than I really am, so they tend to communicate in indirect ways but I don't fully understand!

That is why I appeal to you for help. Recently I've been talking with this Cancer guy at work. He made it quite obvious he's attracted, and today he told me I was intimidating. He said that I intimidate him every time. And he repeated that like, about three times so I know he's trying to say something.

After, we went to lunch as a group. I didn't look directly at him, but I could tell that every time I made to almost look at him, he jolted subtly. He's hyper aware of me. The topic of relationships came up, and he was like "how are you not attached?" and "I'm not, obviously."

What is he trying to tell me? I can only think of two possibilities:
1. He's trying to reject me first because he's scared, or maybe he's physically attracted but turned off by my personality.

2. He's trying to tell me that he's hoping I will ask him out because at this rate, he's never going to make a move.


Also, I would like to ask for any tips you may have for me to keep in mind when dealing with cancers (even if it's not romantic, I will still interact with cancers anyway). I try my best, but you know, capricorns (or maybe it's just derpy old me) tend to be all 'eyes on the prize' and inevitably hurt cancers. I always end up hurting the cancers who were drawn to me. How can this be different?

If this is not the right forum, I do apologise, and I hope you may kindly direct me to the right one. Thank you.

you're on the right forum.

from what you write i think he likes you a lot but he's really chicken shit so you will have to take the reins on this, he's kind of telling you that with the whole "you intimidate me" thing. he probably doesnt have a lot of experience with women and probably can be easily hurt but also easily swayed unless he gets really defensive, in which case he'll need a lot of patience. he probably will need patience anyways and a guiding hand.

WoW! I can tell you're NOT young because:

1. You didn't say ANWAYS (word doesn't exist! It's ANYWAY) 😄
2. You used the word FORUM 😉
3. You're very kind by saying, "Thank you"

Kudos!!!! 🍹

Cancerians are VERY observing individuals. Why do you think they crawl back in their shell and "peep" out (all you see is their beady eyes). He's being CAUTIOUS! Cancer men, when they like someone (they like BEAUTY, and you must be some babe!) they observe to find out about this "intimidating" woman. They LOVE strong women (I've heard that they like women who cuss like sailors....maybe he HAS met a couple and this time, he sees how "kind, considerate, and lovely" a woman you are). THAT'S why he's intimidated by you. Take it with a grain of salt when he keeps telling you how "intimidating you are". (smile). It just means you are different and lucky the man that approaches you. Yes, I said approaches you. HE should be the ONE that approaches you; because that's what Cancer men do when they are really turned on by you (and he is).

Keep in mind that two zodiac signs that are NOT compatible CAN and DOES work. The vibe you present to him (and others) will just cause that to be true. I am Piscean and I "go with the flow". Cancerians are water signs and you have a sensitive, romantic man. He's a keeper! Stay positive, optimistic, and again, allow him to come to you. He will. Then he will be your knight in shining armor! 🤗 cyber hug!

Love,

Eva

PS: Keep us posted, and yes, LOL, you came to the correct "forum".