SmartOnTheRocks
@SmartOnTheRocks
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Posted by SmartOnTheRocksI feel for you. And recognise cancer behavior from your story..too sweet but no real investment.
I nearly broke my virginity to a cancer. We clicked. He was so sweet and understanding and loyal. He spoiled me. To the moon and back. bought me hoodies with my name and his name on. I loved him. He was so sweet and loyal and always wanted the best from me. Then he cheated on me with my pisces best friend at that time. He took her virginity because she was willing to open her legs so easily.
Well I couldn't forgive him but we still remained friends and we used to pray together. I could never handle another cancer after that. The pain was too intense. I had a crush on 1 but he was taken and they married now.
The girl friends I had I always told them they were stupid in love. They gave it up so easily because a guy said they beautiful or are sweet. The guys didn't even have to try hard to get 1. It used to make me mad because they mostly sweet. And everytime there was a fight in the group they always the 1st to cry.
recently I met a guy who is a cancer we hung out and had fun then Im there were no cabs for me to go home. literally from 1am till 4am the guy tried to get in my pants. We fought about it he got naked and begged and pleaded to the point he wanted me to sleep outside if I don't give it up. I said okay and ended up locking him outside in his boxers.
He was now begging for me to open I opened around 4 am and left at 5 am. He still calls till today but ain't no way will I ever see him again. I got turned off at his narcissistic behavior.
Good character they loving and sweet and organized. Good listeners and caring.
Bad characteristics they don't have back bones. portray narcissistic behavior and can be rude unnecessarily
Posted by SmartOnTheRocksEhh, he didnt cheat on you because she was willing to open her legs easily.He cheated on you because he wanted to and would have anyway.That's what it is about cheaters. So your bestie is not the only main evil here. Also,its funny how you wrote just as bad stuffs about your piscean ex. But anywho..yeah,some cancerians do end up being rude unnecessarily.It's moreover either their mood swings or the fact that they want to appear emotionally strong to themselves by behaving so.
Then he cheated on me with my pisces best friend at that time. He took her virginity because she was willing to open her legs so easily.

Posted by SmartOnTheRocksI believe this! Broken things flock to me because I am slightly tarnished but I am a healer and nurturing person by nature.
lol you attract who you are. Maybe it's me and how I portray things but that's just my experience. helping me also to look back. so much positive energy now I can't wait to meet Mr positive

Posted by KinglyCrabOh, I'm just talking about cancers in my circle. I just have yet to meet an optimistic one.Posted by aquarius09My bad . I accidentally clicked +1 even as I don't agree. We are fucked up individuals but who isn't in this age. The guys you met are the large portion of what men are today due to social conditioning and other bullshit. It effects everyone from men to women. People in general are just more weird, unmotivated, lazy and feel like they should have everything. Don't generalize.
I'm no spineless doormat but I attract them in bulks. I know why and it's because I'm everything they are not. Astrology says they like sweet, nurturing women, and for flings and short term things they do, but in the long run and what they usually end up with is a fiesty hitler type of a woman. I can list you all the cancer dudes in my life and they all ended up marrying or in long term relationships with women who have them on a tight leash. LOL. I work with this Cancer older gentleman and all he does is whines about shit. He's always expecting me to be nice and nurturing with him, but he can't help come back for more "abuse" I give him becuase I mostly can't stand him. I spoke to him briefly about astrology and cancers. He was adamant about how he likes nice and timid women and I strongly disagreed with it. Then I asked him who he's married to and that just made my day. Ironically, he's married to an Aquarius. I stand corrected.
These men just whine and whine and whine and there's just so much whining a person can listen to or be sympathetic about.click to expand


Posted by SensitiveBluesThat's cause you chose a Virgo and he chose an Aqua. Just wrong turns. That's all.Posted by aquarius09im for sure not optimistic.Posted by KinglyCrabOh, I'm just talking about cancers in my circle. I just have yet to meet an optimistic one.Posted by aquarius09My bad . I accidentally clicked +1 even as I don't agree. We are fucked up individuals but who isn't in this age. The guys you met are the large portion of what men are today due to social conditioning and other bullshit. It effects everyone from men to women. People in general are just more weird, unmotivated, lazy and feel like they should have everything. Don't generalize.
I'm no spineless doormat but I attract them in bulks. I know why and it's because I'm everything they are not. Astrology says they like sweet, nurturing women, and for flings and short term things they do, but in the long run and what they usually end up with is a fiesty hitler type of a woman. I can list you all the cancer dudes in my life and they all ended up marrying or in long term relationships with women who have them on a tight leash. LOL. I work with this Cancer older gentleman and all he does is whines about shit. He's always expecting me to be nice and nurturing with him, but he can't help come back for more "abuse" I give him becuase I mostly can't stand him. I spoke to him briefly about astrology and cancers. He was adamant about how he likes nice and timid women and I strongly disagreed with it. Then I asked him who he's married to and that just made my day. Ironically, he's married to an Aquarius. I stand corrected.
These men just whine and whine and whine and there's just so much whining a person can listen to or be sympathetic about.
true story. very pessimistic.click to expand
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Well I couldn't forgive him but we still remained friends and we used to pray together. I could never handle another cancer after that. The pain was too intense. I had a crush on 1 but he was taken and they married now.
The girl friends I had I always told them they were stupid in love. They gave it up so easily because a guy said they beautiful or are sweet. The guys didn't even have to try hard to get 1. It used to make me mad because they mostly sweet. And everytime there was a fight in the group they always the 1st to cry.
recently I met a guy who is a cancer we hung out and had fun then Im there were no cabs for me to go home. literally from 1am till 4am the guy tried to get in my pants. We fought about it he got naked and begged and pleaded to the point he wanted me to sleep outside if I don't give it up. I said okay and ended up locking him outside in his boxers.
He was now begging for me to open I opened around 4 am and left at 5 am. He still calls till today but ain't no way will I ever see him again. I got turned off at his narcissistic behavior.
Good character they loving and sweet and organized. Good listeners and caring.
Bad characteristics they don't have back bones. portray narcissistic behavior and can be rude unnecessarily