Cancer ex calling from a different number ?!

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by 2thinkalike on Thursday, January 14, 2016 and has 12 replies.

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@2thinkalike
10 Years

So after deciding to move on with my life and forget about my Crab and all his family /business drama a while back ( my decision wasn't mutual btw, he never agreed or answered my msgs where I made it clear it's over and I had enough ) since yesterday I start getting calls from a number that I don't know , I answer but the person on the other line is just listening for a while and shuts down ).. it happened 3 times yesterday and 2 times today .
Based on the area code , it matches his city .
We haven't spoken since beginning of December , a month back. I was mad and blamed him for many things . Since then he just sent me Merry Christmas greetings and I didn't reply.
This man will ever undetstand that it it's over ? He's too sure of himself I'll accept him back at some point in the future ?
Why he never literally agreed with my decision to break up ? He just keeps quiet .. he creeps the hell out of me..
Shall I block him ? But in the same time I'm curious of what's next .. soooo confused... •🔫

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@2thinkalike
10 Years

I dumped him because I had no choice.. he told me to have patience , but there's a limit that I cannot cross . We had a great time and I'm sure he feels damn sorry but his situation is not easy . He's divorce takes time , lots of money and businesses that he has to take care not be taken away from him , plus kid custody .
Everything was going smoothly until she found out about me and she started creating us problems . So in order for him to fix the mess we decided to take it slow for some time . He told me the lawyers are doing a great job . I was waiting for 3 months . In December I said very hurtful mean things to him and he knows I'm right but he didn't admit the break up .. he keeps quiet ..

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@Shaniajam
10 Years1,000+ Posts

I'm shocked to hear cancers come back. Mines never did. He blocked me from seeing his public posts and I had stopped going there.... It finally gave me enough courage to block him from every aspects of my life. I'm sorry to be the one to say it but.... MAKE HIM SQUIRM lol the little crabby patty magets lol hahaha

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@Shaniajam
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by 2thinkalike
But did he tell u "it's over" ? How a cancer man breaks up? slowly detaching? Vanishing ?

He never broke up. I challenged him to call me to end it and of course he side stepped I told him we were done and I would never return. He read it and never responded. Not sure if he wanted that to happen or not. We haven't spoke since. I've finally blocked him. And don't feel bad about it. He may pop up.... I won't look for it.

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@2thinkalike
10 Years

It was an experience that I will never repeat that's for sure.. first because I don't have enough patience , second , even if he's freshly divorced he has lots of issues to fix with himself.. I don't need that $ #! ¥