So I decided I'm going to marry this Cancer man...

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I've SLOWLY (for an aries, it's slowly, okay) been falling in deep "like" of a cancer man. I wasn't interested in him at first. But in the past two months our friendship has blossomed so much! We spend 2-3 days a week together and text on a daily basis. We're both on the same sports team so neither one of us has started anything "serious" with the other. I had no idea what his sign was, just that it was DIFFERENT then me and wayy different then any other guy I've gotten to know. But we CLICK, like crazy (either then when I am over zealously wanting an adventure and he is like "um no" but then I just go off and do it on my own, so it's okay) we're never bored together and I miss him when he's gone.

But I'm trying to take it as slowly as possible. I want this friendship stage to last a few more months. Just because I already think he is an amazing guy, and I want to be sure that the chemistry and love is really THERE before we start anything. I don't want to ruin our friendship, mostly (because it rocks!), but I also want to make sure neither him nor I are broken. I don't think he has any idea how much I like him because I joke about us (and everyone else on the team) all the time to keep the atmosphere close nit and drama-free within our group.

I found out he was a cancer about a week ago and obsessed over the Cancer board for the past 3 days now lol, so I've already read like every useful post made on cancers. I've never known anything about you guys because all the websites said we are incompatible -- so not true! Of course, I finally figured out his birth chart today, and he dies have a LOT of fire in it lol. What do you guys think?

Him:
Sun Cancer
Moon Aries
Mercury Leo
Venus Leo
Mars Leo

Me:
Sun Aries
Moon Virgo
Mercury Pisces
Venus Aries
Mars Cancer

**btw, I was being over dramatic in the topic title. 😉 how I love being an aries lol, this is only increased because my rising is also Aries... (I don't know his)
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I'm wondering. I've never detected any sort of moodiness/sensitivity from him at all. As Aries I expect to have offended him at least once by now. Do cancers hide their moodiness/sensitivity from friends or girls who they are trying to get with but haven't yet? I mean, I've known him for two months. And I spend a good 2-3 days a week with him (like friday we played a sports terinmate util 5 am, slept for an hour, then we went and bought rock band and played it all day, until at least 6 pm (we weren't alone, the rest of our 4 man team was there too.. then we spent all day together today, and we'll probably meet up twice this week to hang out, before the weekend.)) When you're that tired, it can't be easy to hide moodiness, but I swear, that's one thing he doesn't have.
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uhh.. youre 18 yr old aries wanting to get married? I understand we rush into things but please dont make this mistake, especially with Cancer, i had a friend who was cancer, i ended up blocking his phone number that's how fuking annoying it got.. he would call me and would be such an annoyance, and he wont do that until he gets comfortable with you, then he wont let you say a word, youll want to talk to him like i did, but once you started you didnt want to.. yes sometimes convos can be really good with them but trust me they are not our sign, dont even bother im serious, once he gets to know you and your flaws he will feed on them to make you miserable and make himself feel better
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Posted by KingOfAries
uhh.. youre 18 yr old aries wanting to get married? I understand we rush into things but please dont make this mistake, especially with Cancer, i had a friend who was cancer, i ended up blocking his phone number that's how fuking annoying it got.. he would call me and would be such an annoyance, and he wont do that until he gets comfortable with you, then he wont let you say a word, youll want to talk to him like i did, but once you started you didnt want to.. yes sometimes convos can be really good with them but trust me they are not our sign, dont even bother im serious, once he gets to know you and your flaws he will feed on them to make you miserable and make himself feel better



umm... I was joking 😉 that's what I said at the end of my post.

Maybe a cancer man / aries girl is different than aries man / cancer girl ? From all the reading I've done, I heard that's the only way it works if it ever does. *shrugs*

Looking past that aries moon, he was brought up on really good morals/values (not religious) like he doesn't ever drink, smoke, do anything illegal. I know that doesn't mean he won't cheat, but it gives me hope.
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Posted by KingOfAries
whats religious has to do with it, ive been brought up religiously but i do drink, im just not a fanatic, anyway, leave him girl you need to find a gemini or something



I'm just saying he was brought up on good values but not religious ones. I've noticed with some religious boys that if they don't stay religious, they ditch the values altogether. Just an observation. I really like his parents.

I had a horrible experience with a Gemini.

He's really bright and funny but I don't think he fully realizes it ( I LAUGH non-stop, with HIM and so does he..). He never has mood swings. Ever. I'm around him ALL the time, and I have never seen his attitude change. (either then being normal to tired, but even then he's always in a good mood??_). He has some insecurities (like he always has to wear a baseball hat lol) but he tries to hide them as best as he can. He's always slightly protective of me, always been there for me since the day we met??_ but not smothering or clingy. He always knows the right thing to say, but it's never what I expect. He's crazy and weird but he does in a way no one else could, and it's hilarious, and I love it. He is so his own person. He let's me be blunt and sharp, and never seems to get upset at my —meaness?? (in fact, he can be pretty mean himself sometimes 8p)

But I'm talking myself into a love wall. God I hate how easily I fall in love (BUT IT??s FOR REALZ THIS TIME (of course.. like last time and the time before??_). Truthfully, I just, I like him. A lot. And we get along really well. And anyone that's like that, I'm going to give a chance.
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I got too scared to ask him, even though it was just as friends, and now it's too late to buy tickets >_> oh well lol. (That's not like me at all btw ! aha)

I have another question for Cancer men, do you ever stay friends with ex gilfriends? I really don't want to lose him or our mutual friends over a relationship (if it doesn't work out), but I still want to try something more with him. It's scary! Have you ever stayed friends? How close was the friendship?
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Posted by KingOfAries
stop being horny -_- he isnt nearly as good, as dont wanna say, aries, but taurus for example.. gemini etc, water signs SUCK ASS



Dude, you do realize like every other one of his signs, either then the sun one, are fire signs, right? There's more to life then the sun sign. In fact, there's more to life then astrology.

I spent the day with him (alone). No flirting. A lot of joking.
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The guy actually has more fire than you in his chart, and you have a Mars in Cancer so it looks like you have some good aspects with each other. I would have personally recommended for you to ask him to the senior ball but if that's impossible now, maybe you could consider meeting up over there if you still can buy tickets.

At the very least I would recommend you go for it.

Posted by DramaQueenOfAries
stop being horny -_- he isnt nearly as good, as dont wanna say, aries, but taurus for example.. gemini etc, water signs SUCK ASS



And of course you would be an expert on knowing how to suck ass, eh DramaQueen?

I also find it ironic how you say that, yet one of your favorite philosophical quotes from that Aries forum is taken directly from Henry David Thoreau who's ::gasp:: a Cancer. Y'know one of those water signs with the eww cooties?

I'm surprised your head hasn't exploded from the cognitive dissonance yet
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Posted by DarkCancerian
The guy actually has more fire than you in his chart, and you have a Mars in Cancer so it looks like you have some good aspects with each other. I would have personally recommended for you to ask him to the senior ball but if that's impossible now, maybe you could consider meeting up over there if you still can buy tickets.

At the very least I would recommend you go for it.




We almost went to vegas yesterday. It must be all the fire but we can't stay away from each other and when we're together we'll do any idea that comes up. I'm sure the prom won't be necessary to get us together... and I still want to take it slow for a minute longer.

This is the first guy I've ever really liked, like all my previous boyfriends, I haven't loved them. I've loved the way they made me feel but not things about them, and that doesn't last long. I'm being careful.

His sun in Cancer makes that easy 😄 it's still sooo hard not to flirt when the opportunity comes along..
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Just spent the past 40 hours with him, again. We were hanging out with our team just in case that rapture thing happened, playing video games and what not. It sort turned into a 12 hour mock cuddle session between him and me at the end lol, there are only two comfy chairs to sit in and I chose to sit with him, okay! I ended up sleeping on him for like an hour and then we just spent the rest of the time playing video games in the same chair and watching movies... gawd, I can't stand how much I am falllllling for him. He cuddles so cute, even though we're 'just friends' (for now).

The more time I spend with him the more I like every single part of him.

This whole situation is becoming so adorable, that however we become official, it will just have to be one of those kodak moments. It's not going to happen because someone is drunk or horny, that's for sure.

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Posted by AiryBri
Just spent the past 40 hours with him, again. We were hanging out with our team just in case that rapture thing happened, playing video games and what not. It sort turned into a 12 hour mock cuddle session between him and me at the end lol, there are only two comfy chairs to sit in and I chose to sit with him, okay! I ended up sleeping on him for like an hour and then we just spent the rest of the time playing video games in the same chair and watching movies... gawd, I can't stand how much I am falllllling for him. He cuddles so cute, even though we're 'just friends' (for now).

The more time I spend with him the more I like every single part of him.

This whole situation is becoming so adorable, that however we become official, it will just have to be one of those kodak moments. It's not going to happen because someone is drunk or horny, that's for sure.



I love this style of getting to know someone. I hate, hate 'official' stuffy dates. Just being with someone, enjoying the time and taking opportunities when they come up (like that same chair lounging) is the best!
Or maybe I just don't want to grow up?

Anyway, it sounds like you two are enjoying each other 🙂 good luck!
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Posted by happykitsune
Curious to see how this turns out. Cancer men are generally touchy/sweet to just friends. Every cancer I've known who likes me will just come out and ask me out. Those who aren't interested will still be affectionate with you. It's just how you are. What worries me is that he hasn't asked you out yet. Sooo I wanna see what happens. Keep us posted



He asked me to be official after we spent the day together yesterday and said we're going on a "real date." It was really cute. He said he should have asked me out a longg time ago but he was afraid to ruin things
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Curious to see how this turns out. Cancer men are generally touchy/sweet to just friends. Every cancer I've known who likes me will just come out and ask me out. Those who aren't interested will still be affectionate with you. It's just how you are. What worries me is that he hasn't asked you out yet. Sooo I wanna see what happens. Keep us posted
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He asked me to be official after we spent the day together yesterday and said we're going on a "real date." It was really cute. He said he should have asked me out a longg time ago but he was afraid to ruin things

Yay 🙂 Good deal! A lil late on asking you, but his reasoning was legit. Congrats!
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Posted by AiryBri

Him:
Sun Cancer
Moon Aries
Mercury Leo
Venus Leo
Mars Leo

Me:
Sun Aries
Moon Virgo
Mercury Pisces
Venus Aries
Mars Cancer


You struck gold with all that Leo haha! The energy is super compatible between your charts. And you have a Virgo Moon which is best Moon position😛
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Yeah I know, I love virgo moons!

It's still going well... 😛

😄 😄 😄

I'll keep you guys updated.