Taurus man, how to sucessfuly date Cancer woman ?

Hello dear all cancer women, I need your advice.
Everywhere online they say that Taurus-Cancer relationship is one of the best , that will make friends jaleous !
Add water to earth and it grows wonders .. stable and grounded Taurus perfect for Emotional Cancer...

I am a real Taurus , full of passion and when i like you, I ll show it to you ! .. but seems that all my first & second dates fail with Cancer woman, I can't explain why.
I never yet been able to move to a relationship stage, and it is a pity cuz each time I really think it could be a life long story ...
I feel it would be all ok once we had sex, maybe not true , but until then it is so hard to get there.. it is like the interrest is gone.
Other zodiac signs seem easier. my experience is longterm relationship with Scorpio & geminy both much much easier to start. I always like Cancer but how can i get this relationship to start ?
Thank you.

What are you doing on the second date?

Thank you for ready my post 🙂 On second date I like to have a nice experience , usually involving nicer food or showing 3 or 4 of my favorite places around the city (with great view or music or fantastic food..some art expo). whereas they might just want to be casual with just a beer and easy food. That is my take on this so far , that it shows too much interrest which is not so a good thing in general, could be my problem here ?

Posted by SensitiveBlues
you're boring we'll call you when we're 78

haha ! (kills me)... am usually seen not boring at all ! ( I practice martial art, teach swing dancing on the side, love outdoor, quite many stories to tell ... I lived in US, France, China)
but maybe in a way, those cancer may have not felt it interresting enough for them. It s possible.
or i miss the timing ? and then they loose interrest ie boring ?

You think you can make it work after sex? That's not a real relationship.

You showing things off would definitely turn me off on the first few dates. Seems you're trying to hard

Posted by CalmCrab22
You think you can make it work after sex? That's not a real relationship.

You showing things off would definitely turn me off on the first few dates. Seems you're trying to hard

Thanks CalmCrab22 for your answer.

It is not about sex itself as I have a genuine liking for that cancer, with belief it would be a long term relationship. I feel I need sensuality & intimacy to come quite early, though i can be patient. not a must.

That is the thing , I dont show off, it is who I am, I want to give you the best. And experience things together, like art expo whatever, a good way to share each other ideas..
So you think that it come across as fake and non genuine if it is too elaborate or seems prepared.?

I one time recall to have prepared a picnic in a botanical garden which happened to have oceans of tulipes that day...I pict best fresh fruits from the market & small bottle of champagne/juice hidden in my bag ..
That went so wrong ! i can't believe. ! she was cancer.

I like Bulls, thought it was suppose to be the best match of the zodiac. The last Bull I dealth with pull ed so many shenanigans I am now keeping Bulls at a distance until they prove they are about more than using women as voyeurs while they jack off on webcam.

Posted by TauroMale
i completely understand wanting to have sex first, i feel the same way the beginning of relationships for Taurus is slow and worry sum and if you got intimate it would make each other comfortable and have a bond that wouldn't need pointless words and stupid "stages"

Exactly how I feel.

Posted by TauroMale
i completely understand wanting to have sex first, i feel the same way the beginning of relationships for Taurus is slow and worry sum and if you got intimate it would make each other comfortable and have a bond that wouldn't need pointless words and stupid "stages"

This really depends on the chemistry, people involved and frame of mind. Usually doesn't go over very well for the woman.

JimmyChoo shoes can you post both of your charts please.

Cancer and Taurus will always get along but not right away. So take the time, and if Taurus are moody give them space. When cancer are moody I'll do the same. Lol works out..

Depends on the person. If you're an asshole, bye bye.....no amount of wooing or romantic dates would make up for that.

@OP- Hm so for Cancer to feel an attachment they have to have sex first, then friends, & then lovers. Lol. I have both placements so I have felt that if the chemistry atm is good then yeah I get super interested in sexual experience or attractive with it. Only to get sucked back to reality because if I do go fwb or flings first. It almost never works long term. Because I never got to be friends thoroughly. So can detach and be butthurt but I move on regardless. Even if I build a solid foundation first then decide to have sex. It still might not work after sex. So which one do you go for.

Posted by JimmyChoo
Thank you for ready my post 🙂 On second date I like to have a nice experience , usually involving nicer food or showing 3 or 4 of my favorite places around the city (with great view or music or fantastic food..some art expo). whereas they might just want to be casual with just a beer and easy food. That is my take on this so far , that it shows too much interrest which is not so a good thing in general, could be my problem here ?

Ok so you asked her what she's into instead of assuming she's geriatric?

Posted by JimmyChoo

Posted by SensitiveBlues
you're boring we'll call you when we're 78

haha ! (kills me)... am usually seen not boring at all ! ( I practice martial art, teach swing dancing on the side, love outdoor, quite many stories to tell ... I lived in US, France, China)
but maybe in a way, those cancer may have not felt it interresting enough for them. It s possible.
or i miss the timing ? and then they loose interrest ie boring ?

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You're trying too hard son.

Just because you do a lot of fun things doesn't mean you're not boring (and I'm not saying you ARE boring). Cancers aren't fully impressed by fun interests. Interests can be something that brings people together in a "we have that in common" way, but what really catches our attention with people is the content of what goes on in their heads. We like deep discussions about complicated stuff. Also, for the romantic partner we're feeling to see if there's chemistry. We're also picking apart that person's character, watching how they treat the staff at a restaurant, their friends and family, etc. If we're not feeling it, we're not feeling it, end of story.

As much fun as your dates sound, and you've put in some amazing thought for the structure and atmosphere of the date, there has to be content, which is the interaction between the two people on the date. Cancers are emotion, so we're feeling, reading and analyzing the person we're dating, and we like stimulating conversations.

Adding that Crabs can't be bought or bribed. Doesn't matter how much you spend, if we don't feel it, we aren't interested.

@moonartist your responses to a few posts i be like wow...thats what i would say. To the PO u seem like a great guy, for us cancers u have to take it slow then build up. We love mental connection if u can capture my mind u will get my heart...then from there go in for the kill and go all out like u do. We cancers feel and analyze atleast i do. For me its all about how i feel. Then if u pay attention and whoa me your good. If cancers arent 100 sure of u we lose interest quick and we will let u know etc.

If you are all about sex, this will be off putting.
Let's start with romance and respect.