Aquarius09
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Thoughts on Cancers and Aquarius
Posted by DevilPosted by aquarius09
Aquas keep themselves detached like Cancers until they’re sure about the person. When they are sure about the person they like, they fall hard and are very loyal and present to that partner the way Cancers are. That’s where the similarity ends.
Aquas is the only sign that doesn’t take advantage of you guys. Cancers are masochists. Consequently, they’re attracted to abuse, problematic individuals who need help, train wrecks and over all any sort of chaos. The only time Cancers are attracted to Aquas is when they realize they have major issues and they need help from someone who isn’t as emotional as them. Aquas are your guiding light. I’ve attracted quite a few obsessive Cancer dudes in the past and I can see why they were attracted to me even though we were so different like day and night.
I would hesitate to disagree but again comes the same problem of our personality. We need to be needed. The only thing an Aqua needs and cares about truly is themselves save for certain specific times. I'm not saying you cold but I need some emotional involvement for the relationship not to feel like rubbing two pieces of sand paper together.
Maybe some Pisces placements. Or a water/earth placements.click to expand
I will mention that the Cancer dudes in my past had Gemini or Leo placements. Water dominant Cancer could never survive me. I would be perceived as an ultra sand paper while I would feel like I constantly need a tissue paper around them.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by DevilPosted by aquarius09Posted by DevilPosted by aquarius09
Aquas keep themselves detached like Cancers until they’re sure about the person. When they are sure about the person they like, they fall hard and are very loyal and present to that partner the way Cancers are. That’s where the similarity ends.
Aquas is the only sign that doesn’t take advantage of you guys. Cancers are masochists. Consequently, they’re attracted to abuse, problematic individuals who need help, train wrecks and over all any sort of chaos. The only time Cancers are attracted to Aquas is when they realize they have major issues and they need help from someone who isn’t as emotional as them. Aquas are your guiding light. I’ve attracted quite a few obsessive Cancer dudes in the past and I can see why they were attracted to me even though we were so different like day and night.
I would hesitate to disagree but again comes the same problem of our personality. We need to be needed. The only thing an Aqua needs and cares about truly is themselves save for certain specific times. I'm not saying you cold but I need some emotional involvement for the relationship not to feel like rubbing two pieces of sand paper together.
Maybe some Pisces placements. Or a water/earth placements.
I will mention that the Cancer dudes in my past had Gemini or Leo placements. Water dominant Cancer could never survive me. I would be perceived as an ultra sand paper while I would feel like I constantly need a tissue paper around them.
Well I have an Aqua mom with a leo moon so I'm immune. I've had 25 years to get acclimated.
is she a bad mom?
I always think aqua women hate motherhoodclick to expand
LOL. You think Cancers with all their insecurities, lack of individuality and lack of restraint on their emotions make good mothers/parents because you guys represent motherhood or family. I have seen the most lousy Cancer parents who project their own insecurities and issues with life onto their children and destroy their psyche. Emotionally unfit people like Cancers usually make terrible parents even though they mean well. You guys TRY to be good parents but end up being detrimental and suffocating. Try having a Cancer parent as an Aqua. I see those poor Aqua kids in my family. Those are the aqua kids who lack confidence and feel entitled to love.
As for Aqua men and women being bad parents, we take the decision of having a child seriously because we just want to do right by that child. Aqua women try to make their children self-sufficient and ready for the cold world. We teach our kids to be independent with our so-called coldness so that they don’t become needy and clingy and dependent on someone for something. They are practical in their motherhood which takes away from the affection and coddling. I think that’s a good mother as opposed to the affectionate coddler of a mother who keeps loving their kid to the point of spoiling them. My Cancer moon sister in law is so loving and doesn’t want to see my nephew cry or sad, so when he wants something, she immediately gives it to him, takes toys from other’s kids. What is she teaching? Instant gratification and that he doesn’t have to share. Yeah, that’s toxic love, which is the love Cancers give.
Posted by Black-MambaPosted by aquarius09Posted by Black-MambaPosted by DevilPosted by aquarius09Posted by DevilPosted by aquarius09
Aquas keep themselves detached like Cancers until they’re sure about the person. When they are sure about the person they like, they fall hard and are very loyal and present to that partner the way Cancers are. That’s where the similarity ends.
Aquas is the only sign that doesn’t take advantage of you guys. Cancers are masochists. Consequently, they’re attracted to abuse, problematic individuals who need help, train wrecks and over all any sort of chaos. The only time Cancers are attracted to Aquas is when they realize they have major issues and they need help from someone who isn’t as emotional as them. Aquas are your guiding light. I’ve attracted quite a few obsessive Cancer dudes in the past and I can see why they were attracted to me even though we were so different like day and night.
I would hesitate to disagree but again comes the same problem of our personality. We need to be needed. The only thing an Aqua needs and cares about truly is themselves save for certain specific times. I'm not saying you cold but I need some emotional involvement for the relationship not to feel like rubbing two pieces of sand paper together.
Maybe some Pisces placements. Or a water/earth placements.
I will mention that the Cancer dudes in my past had Gemini or Leo placements. Water dominant Cancer could never survive me. I would be perceived as an ultra sand paper while I would feel like I constantly need a tissue paper around them.
Well I have an Aqua mom with a leo moon so I'm immune. I've had 25 years to get acclimated.
is she a bad mom?
I always think aqua women hate motherhood
LOL. You think Cancers with all their insecurities, lack of individuality and lack of restraint on their emotions make good mothers/parents because you guys represent motherhood or family. I have seen the most lousy Cancer parents who project their own insecurities and issues with life onto their children and destroy their psyche. Emotionally unfit people like Cancers usually make terrible parents even though they mean well. You guys TRY to be good parents but end up being detrimental and suffocating. Try having a Cancer parent as an Aqua. I see those poor Aqua kids in my family. Those are the aqua kids who lack confidence and feel entitled to love.
As for Aqua men and women being bad parents, we take the decision of having a child seriously because we just want to do right by that child. Aqua women try to make their children self-sufficient and ready for the cold world. We teach our kids to be independent with our so-called coldness so that they don’t become needy and clingy and dependent on someone for something. They are practical in their motherhood which takes away from the affection and coddling. I think that’s a good mother as opposed to the affectionate coddler of a mother who keeps loving their kid to the point of spoiling them. My Cancer moon sister in law is so loving and doesn’t want to see my nephew cry or sad, so when he wants something, she immediately gives it to him, takes toys from other’s kids. What is she teaching? Instant gratification and that he doesn’t have to share. Yeah, that’s toxic love, which is the love Cancers give.
blah blah blah . sure sure everyone wants a cold disciplinarian as a parentclick to expand
I sure as hell am glad I didn’t get a Cancer parent and that’s why I turned out to be self-assured woman. 💪🏼 My dad was an Aqua and mom is Cap. Great combo of confidence and fortitude. Otherwise, I’d be a weak self-doubting kid like my niece and nephew and friends.
A cancer man will manipulate and abuse an aquarius woman
Posted by Arielle83
My bff since high school is an aqua.
She is overly emotional and thinks every man wants her. Then she’d always wonder why I never hit on her or try to get her into bed.
She just had a baby last year and she’s a good mom, but she’s not as into it as she thought.
My ex MIL was an aqua. She liked gossiping and playing ppl off each other then acting like she never knew what was going on when confronted. Passive aggressive af. Playing victim. Snobby.
Aqua woman just always seem disturbed or upset or trying to grasp on to some sort of reality they made up in their heads.
I can see why they seek out cancer men. Cancer men are flirty and open. Aqua is guarded and detached, so any happy or cheeky friendly man is automatically assumed to like them.
Aqua men are hot to me when they seem to look like they’re into anonymous sex and have some dark creepy eccentric vibe to them.
Aqua women try too hard at being unassuming, but you can tell they just want you to pay attention to them.
As friends Aquarius and Cancers can get along great. But when love comes around it can become pretty difficult.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by J-hayPosted by Arielle83
My bff since high school is an aqua.
She is overly emotional and thinks every man wants her. Then she’d always wonder why I never hit on her or try to get her into bed.
She just had a baby last year and she’s a good mom, but she’s not as into it as she thought.
My ex MIL was an aqua. She liked gossiping and playing ppl off each other then acting like she never knew what was going on when confronted. Passive aggressive af. Playing victim. Snobby.
Aqua woman just always seem disturbed or upset or trying to grasp on to some sort of reality they made up in their heads.
I can see why they seek out cancer men. Cancer men are flirty and open. Aqua is guarded and detached, so any happy or cheeky friendly man is automatically assumed to like them.
Aqua men are hot to me when they seem to look like they’re into anonymous sex and have some dark creepy eccentric vibe to them.
Aqua women try too hard at being unassuming, but you can tell they just want you to pay attention to them.
As friends Aquarius and Cancers can get along great. But when love comes around it can become pretty difficult.
Ime I find them needy. I don’t get this cancer cling thin we are meant to have. Sure talking to the person regularly isn’t clingy. I have no desire to be around anyone for an extended period.click to expand
The problem is the stereotyping of Aquas and Cancers. Just like with Scorpios, I find that these stereotypes are often quite inaccurate. E.g. I've met Scorpios who buy into the whole "sexual being/sexuality" stereotype, but then there just as many, if not more of them, who are definitely not like that, and even get annoyed when they're pigeonholed into this.
It's the same with Aquas and Cancers.
We have Aquas who try to project the stereotype of being detached/aloof and knowledgeable/logical, but really they just end up being the opposite of that. I've met so many like that, it's rare to find an Aqua who will admit to being an emotional being. Because generally, to them, emotions = being weak.
And since you're a Cancer, you already know what the stereotypes are, and how it isn't always accurate.
If y'all want to know what Aquas are really like, just think of Leos, their opposites, but with a defensive layer of detachment. Leos will be in their feels, ready to express themselves (fire sign mentality). Aquas also have that, but they choose to repress it. They're not much different.
Posted by bumboklatt
Its possibly the least in common which is why it works on a human level. Once the true personalities come out it can be difficult.
Unless the astrological houses have good synastry
Houses are 50% and most people overlook that
Because it usually doesn't fit their personal agenda.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by aquarius09Posted by Black-MambaPosted by aquarius09Posted by Black-MambaPosted by DevilPosted by aquarius09Posted by DevilPosted by aquarius09
Aquas keep themselves detached like Cancers until they’re sure about the person. When they are sure about the person they like, they fall hard and are very loyal and present to that partner the way Cancers are. That’s where the similarity ends.
Aquas is the only sign that doesn’t take advantage of you guys. Cancers are masochists. Consequently, they’re attracted to abuse, problematic individuals who need help, train wrecks and over all any sort of chaos. The only time Cancers are attracted to Aquas is when they realize they have major issues and they need help from someone who isn’t as emotional as them. Aquas are your guiding light. I’ve attracted quite a few obsessive Cancer dudes in the past and I can see why they were attracted to me even though we were so different like day and night.
I would hesitate to disagree but again comes the same problem of our personality. We need to be needed. The only thing an Aqua needs and cares about truly is themselves save for certain specific times. I'm not saying you cold but I need some emotional involvement for the relationship not to feel like rubbing two pieces of sand paper together.
Maybe some Pisces placements. Or a water/earth placements.
I will mention that the Cancer dudes in my past had Gemini or Leo placements. Water dominant Cancer could never survive me. I would be perceived as an ultra sand paper while I would feel like I constantly need a tissue paper around them.
Well I have an Aqua mom with a leo moon so I'm immune. I've had 25 years to get acclimated.
is she a bad mom?
I always think aqua women hate motherhood
LOL. You think Cancers with all their insecurities, lack of individuality and lack of restraint on their emotions make good mothers/parents because you guys represent motherhood or family. I have seen the most lousy Cancer parents who project their own insecurities and issues with life onto their children and destroy their psyche. Emotionally unfit people like Cancers usually make terrible parents even though they mean well. You guys TRY to be good parents but end up being detrimental and suffocating. Try having a Cancer parent as an Aqua. I see those poor Aqua kids in my family. Those are the aqua kids who lack confidence and feel entitled to love.
As for Aqua men and women being bad parents, we take the decision of having a child seriously because we just want to do right by that child. Aqua women try to make their children self-sufficient and ready for the cold world. We teach our kids to be independent with our so-called coldness so that they don’t become needy and clingy and dependent on someone for something. They are practical in their motherhood which takes away from the affection and coddling. I think that’s a good mother as opposed to the affectionate coddler of a mother who keeps loving their kid to the point of spoiling them. My Cancer moon sister in law is so loving and doesn’t want to see my nephew cry or sad, so when he wants something, she immediately gives it to him, takes toys from other’s kids. What is she teaching? Instant gratification and that he doesn’t have to share. Yeah, that’s toxic love, which is the love Cancers give.
blah blah blah . sure sure everyone wants a cold disciplinarian as a parent
I sure as hell am glad I didn’t get a Cancer parent and that’s why I turned out to be self-assured woman. 💪🏼 My dad was an Aqua and mom is Cap. Great combo of confidence and fortitude. Otherwise, I’d be a weak self-doubting kid like my niece and nephew and friends.
There’s nothing wrong with people who self doubt, it means they want to be certain and care about the outcome.
People who believe they are so confident and are so sure in their decisions, are usually only thinking about how the outcome will affect them.
Love how you turned this into another thread where you judge everyone in your life as being so beneath you.
Yet, you seem very risk averse. Always judging everyone’s life, relationships or how much you think they want you.
This is your thread now.click to expand
You’re actually a case in point to what I say about Cancers. You pretend to be this untouched, unaffected, detached Cancerian when really you’re like this catty, insecure chick that gets her panties in a bunch when someone doesn’t entertain you and private messages other chicks to talk shit about users, more particularly other women who have offended you. The mere fact that you continue to address me after I have dissed and dismissed you is proof in the pudding. In fact I muted you. How am I seeing this and why are you still addressing me when I want nothing to do with your toxic self? Talk about obsessed.
You used to message me about how some users on here are obsessed with you. Dude, it’s you who is obsessed with them and now that I am on that list, you’re obsessed with me. This Aqua wants nothing to do with you. Stop seeking my attention.
Last I checked this was a public post about Cancer and Aquas. I gave my opinion on the matter. Your typical butthurt, overly sensitive Cancer self took offense and made this about me...yet again. Typical.
Posted by 7thHousePosted by aquarius09Posted by 7thHousePosted by aquarius09Posted by Black-MambaPosted by aquarius09Posted by Black-MambaPosted by DevilPosted by aquarius09Posted by DevilPosted by aquarius09
Aquas keep themselves detached like Cancers until they’re sure about the person. When they are sure about the person they like, they fall hard and are very loyal and present to that partner the way Cancers are. That’s where the similarity ends.
Aquas is the only sign that doesn’t take advantage of you guys. Cancers are masochists. Consequently, they’re attracted to abuse, problematic individuals who need help, train wrecks and over all any sort of chaos. The only time Cancers are attracted to Aquas is when they realize they have major issues and they need help from someone who isn’t as emotional as them. Aquas are your guiding light. I’ve attracted quite a few obsessive Cancer dudes in the past and I can see why they were attracted to me even though we were so different like day and night.
I would hesitate to disagree but again comes the same problem of our personality. We need to be needed. The only thing an Aqua needs and cares about truly is themselves save for certain specific times. I'm not saying you cold but I need some emotional involvement for the relationship not to feel like rubbing two pieces of sand paper together.
Maybe some Pisces placements. Or a water/earth placements.
I will mention that the Cancer dudes in my past had Gemini or Leo placements. Water dominant Cancer could never survive me. I would be perceived as an ultra sand paper while I would feel like I constantly need a tissue paper around them.
Well I have an Aqua mom with a leo moon so I'm immune. I've had 25 years to get acclimated.
is she a bad mom?
I always think aqua women hate motherhood
LOL. You think Cancers with all their insecurities, lack of individuality and lack of restraint on their emotions make good mothers/parents because you guys represent motherhood or family. I have seen the most lousy Cancer parents who project their own insecurities and issues with life onto their children and destroy their psyche. Emotionally unfit people like Cancers usually make terrible parents even though they mean well. You guys TRY to be good parents but end up being detrimental and suffocating. Try having a Cancer parent as an Aqua. I see those poor Aqua kids in my family. Those are the aqua kids who lack confidence and feel entitled to love.
As for Aqua men and women being bad parents, we take the decision of having a child seriously because we just want to do right by that child. Aqua women try to make their children self-sufficient and ready for the cold world. We teach our kids to be independent with our so-called coldness so that they don’t become needy and clingy and dependent on someone for something. They are practical in their motherhood which takes away from the affection and coddling. I think that’s a good mother as opposed to the affectionate coddler of a mother who keeps loving their kid to the point of spoiling them. My Cancer moon sister in law is so loving and doesn’t want to see my nephew cry or sad, so when he wants something, she immediately gives it to him, takes toys from other’s kids. What is she teaching? Instant gratification and that he doesn’t have to share. Yeah, that’s toxic love, which is the love Cancers give.
blah blah blah . sure sure everyone wants a cold disciplinarian as a parent
I sure as hell am glad I didn’t get a Cancer parent and that’s why I turned out to be self-assured woman. 💪🏼 My dad was an Aqua and mom is Cap. Great combo of confidence and fortitude. Otherwise, I’d be a weak self-doubting kid like my niece and nephew and friends.
If I didn't know you are an aqua based on your username, I'd think you're a Leo. You're so full of shit. 😂 Clearly, you're not God's gift to humanity. Even putting people, like your own family, down to put yourself in a pedestal. Insecurity at its best. You must be around such a bad bunch that you're the one that's doing so well.
GET OVER YOURSELF.
I see you’re still obsessed with me, self imposed victim.
Self imposed victim? You're disgusting. Also, you're not that amazing for me to be obsessed with you. I'm just calling you out for your nasty behavior. Yuck. You make me wanna vomit right now 🤮click to expand
You’re transparently pathetic. I know exactly the kind of victim you are. You provoke someone by harassing them when they have told you to stay away from them and when they finally resort to giving you your own medicine you cry victimhood. I’m a stranger on the internet and you keep chasing me and commenting on my shit all because you can’t swallow my opinions. I’ve come across your recent delusional posts on some other threads too, but do you see me commenting on them and calling you out on how delusional you are? Nope, because I don’t give two shits about you. Stop “calling me out.” Stop addressing me. I don’t like you. Stop seeking attention from me.
Posted by Arielle83Posted by aquarius09Posted by 7thHousePosted by aquarius09Posted by Black-MambaPosted by aquarius09Posted by Black-MambaPosted by DevilPosted by aquarius09Posted by DevilPosted by aquarius09
Aquas keep themselves detached like Cancers until they’re sure about the person. When they are sure about the person they like, they fall hard and are very loyal and present to that partner the way Cancers are. That’s where the similarity ends.
Aquas is the only sign that doesn’t take advantage of you guys. Cancers are masochists. Consequently, they’re attracted to abuse, problematic individuals who need help, train wrecks and over all any sort of chaos. The only time Cancers are attracted to Aquas is when they realize they have major issues and they need help from someone who isn’t as emotional as them. Aquas are your guiding light. I’ve attracted quite a few obsessive Cancer dudes in the past and I can see why they were attracted to me even though we were so different like day and night.
I would hesitate to disagree but again comes the same problem of our personality. We need to be needed. The only thing an Aqua needs and cares about truly is themselves save for certain specific times. I'm not saying you cold but I need some emotional involvement for the relationship not to feel like rubbing two pieces of sand paper together.
Maybe some Pisces placements. Or a water/earth placements.
I will mention that the Cancer dudes in my past had Gemini or Leo placements. Water dominant Cancer could never survive me. I would be perceived as an ultra sand paper while I would feel like I constantly need a tissue paper around them.
Well I have an Aqua mom with a leo moon so I'm immune. I've had 25 years to get acclimated.
is she a bad mom?
I always think aqua women hate motherhood
LOL. You think Cancers with all their insecurities, lack of individuality and lack of restraint on their emotions make good mothers/parents because you guys represent motherhood or family. I have seen the most lousy Cancer parents who project their own insecurities and issues with life onto their children and destroy their psyche. Emotionally unfit people like Cancers usually make terrible parents even though they mean well. You guys TRY to be good parents but end up being detrimental and suffocating. Try having a Cancer parent as an Aqua. I see those poor Aqua kids in my family. Those are the aqua kids who lack confidence and feel entitled to love.
As for Aqua men and women being bad parents, we take the decision of having a child seriously because we just want to do right by that child. Aqua women try to make their children self-sufficient and ready for the cold world. We teach our kids to be independent with our so-called coldness so that they don’t become needy and clingy and dependent on someone for something. They are practical in their motherhood which takes away from the affection and coddling. I think that’s a good mother as opposed to the affectionate coddler of a mother who keeps loving their kid to the point of spoiling them. My Cancer moon sister in law is so loving and doesn’t want to see my nephew cry or sad, so when he wants something, she immediately gives it to him, takes toys from other’s kids. What is she teaching? Instant gratification and that he doesn’t have to share. Yeah, that’s toxic love, which is the love Cancers give.
blah blah blah . sure sure everyone wants a cold disciplinarian as a parent
I sure as hell am glad I didn’t get a Cancer parent and that’s why I turned out to be self-assured woman. 💪🏼 My dad was an Aqua and mom is Cap. Great combo of confidence and fortitude. Otherwise, I’d be a weak self-doubting kid like my niece and nephew and friends.
If I didn't know you are an aqua based on your username, I'd think you're a Leo. You're so full of shit. 😂 Clearly, you're not God's gift to humanity. Even putting people, like your own family, down to put yourself in a pedestal. Insecurity at its best. You must be around such a bad bunch that you're the one that's doing so well.
GET OVER YOURSELF.
I see you’re still obsessed with me, self imposed victim.
This goes back to you thinking everyone is “obsessed” with you.
She probably thinks you’re self obsessed, if anything.
But you do claim a lot of people are obsessed or “territorial” of you, as of late.
If you honestly think she’s “obsessed”, I’m guessing everyone in your life, that you’ve accused this of, most likely wasn’t.
Maybe your confidence is blinding your perspective.
This is a good time to self reflect, or maybe even “self doubt”.
Not everyone can be obsessed.click to expand
The proof is in the pudding. Stop seeking attention from me. All I see is you addressing me and commenting on my posts, not the other way around. Stick to your typical style of talking shit in private messages about women who have offended your sensitive self. I don’t care to give you tissues anymore. LOL
Posted by 7thHousePosted by Arielle83Posted by aquarius09Posted by 7thHousePosted by aquarius09Posted by Black-MambaPosted by aquarius09Posted by Black-MambaPosted by DevilPosted by aquarius09Posted by DevilPosted by aquarius09
Aquas keep themselves detached like Cancers until they’re sure about the person. When they are sure about the person they like, they fall hard and are very loyal and present to that partner the way Cancers are. That’s where the similarity ends.
Aquas is the only sign that doesn’t take advantage of you guys. Cancers are masochists. Consequently, they’re attracted to abuse, problematic individuals who need help, train wrecks and over all any sort of chaos. The only time Cancers are attracted to Aquas is when they realize they have major issues and they need help from someone who isn’t as emotional as them. Aquas are your guiding light. I’ve attracted quite a few obsessive Cancer dudes in the past and I can see why they were attracted to me even though we were so different like day and night.
I would hesitate to disagree but again comes the same problem of our personality. We need to be needed. The only thing an Aqua needs and cares about truly is themselves save for certain specific times. I'm not saying you cold but I need some emotional involvement for the relationship not to feel like rubbing two pieces of sand paper together.
Maybe some Pisces placements. Or a water/earth placements.
I will mention that the Cancer dudes in my past had Gemini or Leo placements. Water dominant Cancer could never survive me. I would be perceived as an ultra sand paper while I would feel like I constantly need a tissue paper around them.
Well I have an Aqua mom with a leo moon so I'm immune. I've had 25 years to get acclimated.
is she a bad mom?
I always think aqua women hate motherhood
LOL. You think Cancers with all their insecurities, lack of individuality and lack of restraint on their emotions make good mothers/parents because you guys represent motherhood or family. I have seen the most lousy Cancer parents who project their own insecurities and issues with life onto their children and destroy their psyche. Emotionally unfit people like Cancers usually make terrible parents even though they mean well. You guys TRY to be good parents but end up being detrimental and suffocating. Try having a Cancer parent as an Aqua. I see those poor Aqua kids in my family. Those are the aqua kids who lack confidence and feel entitled to love.
As for Aqua men and women being bad parents, we take the decision of having a child seriously because we just want to do right by that child. Aqua women try to make their children self-sufficient and ready for the cold world. We teach our kids to be independent with our so-called coldness so that they don’t become needy and clingy and dependent on someone for something. They are practical in their motherhood which takes away from the affection and coddling. I think that’s a good mother as opposed to the affectionate coddler of a mother who keeps loving their kid to the point of spoiling them. My Cancer moon sister in law is so loving and doesn’t want to see my nephew cry or sad, so when he wants something, she immediately gives it to him, takes toys from other’s kids. What is she teaching? Instant gratification and that he doesn’t have to share. Yeah, that’s toxic love, which is the love Cancers give.
blah blah blah . sure sure everyone wants a cold disciplinarian as a parent
I sure as hell am glad I didn’t get a Cancer parent and that’s why I turned out to be self-assured woman. 💪🏼 My dad was an Aqua and mom is Cap. Great combo of confidence and fortitude. Otherwise, I’d be a weak self-doubting kid like my niece and nephew and friends.
If I didn't know you are an aqua based on your username, I'd think you're a Leo. You're so full of shit. 😂 Clearly, you're not God's gift to humanity. Even putting people, like your own family, down to put yourself in a pedestal. Insecurity at its best. You must be around such a bad bunch that you're the one that's doing so well.
GET OVER YOURSELF.
I see you’re still obsessed with me, self imposed victim.
This goes back to you thinking everyone is “obsessed” with you.
She probably thinks you’re self obsessed, if anything.
But you do claim a lot of people are obsessed or “territorial” of you, as of late.
If you honestly think she’s “obsessed”, I’m guessing everyone in your life, that you’ve accused this of, most likely wasn’t.
Maybe your confidence is blinding your perspective.
This is a good time to self reflect, or maybe even “self doubt”.
Not everyone can be obsessed.
She thinks calling her out on her bullshit is being obsessed with her. Such a low life. She thinks she's so important that she's worth obsessing about when as a matter of fact, she's just being called out because she's putting other people down to lift herself up. She was raised by an Aqua and a Cap. But she didn't turn out to be a nice person. Not her parents fault though. She's just so insecure that she has the need to make other people look insecure when they are not. She masks her insecurity and self doubt by telling everyone how amazing she is vs people around her. But people who continously say that are the ones who are most insecure. Insecure about their lives, their looks, their achievements and so they tend to talk shit about people around them to make themselves feel better. This user Aquarius09 is exactly that kind of person. Maybe it helps her sleep at night if she's able to put other people down because it's the only chance she has to make herself feel better.
Even talking shit about her own friends and relatives. So laughable. I can't wait to see where life takes her with her attitude. No wonder she's almost in her mid 30's and still single. In fact, still obsessing about the relationships of people around her because no one would even bother dating her. Such a lonely life 😂click to expand
This actually reminds me of incels and their coping mechanism. They put most women down to avoid rejection, will not date a woman because she's not rated 7 or more, because that's how they see themselves (false sense of bravado, because without it, life is not worth living, e.g. Elliot Rodger).
Posted by 7thHousePosted by aquarius09Posted by 7thHousePosted by aquarius09Posted by 7thHousePosted by aquarius09Posted by Black-MambaPosted by aquarius09Posted by Black-MambaPosted by DevilPosted by aquarius09Posted by DevilPosted by aquarius09
Aquas keep themselves detached like Cancers until they’re sure about the person. When they are sure about the person they like, they fall hard and are very loyal and present to that partner the way Cancers are. That’s where the similarity ends.
Aquas is the only sign that doesn’t take advantage of you guys. Cancers are masochists. Consequently, they’re attracted to abuse, problematic individuals who need help, train wrecks and over all any sort of chaos. The only time Cancers are attracted to Aquas is when they realize they have major issues and they need help from someone who isn’t as emotional as them. Aquas are your guiding light. I’ve attracted quite a few obsessive Cancer dudes in the past and I can see why they were attracted to me even though we were so different like day and night.
I would hesitate to disagree but again comes the same problem of our personality. We need to be needed. The only thing an Aqua needs and cares about truly is themselves save for certain specific times. I'm not saying you cold but I need some emotional involvement for the relationship not to feel like rubbing two pieces of sand paper together.
Maybe some Pisces placements. Or a water/earth placements.
I will mention that the Cancer dudes in my past had Gemini or Leo placements. Water dominant Cancer could never survive me. I would be perceived as an ultra sand paper while I would feel like I constantly need a tissue paper around them.
Well I have an Aqua mom with a leo moon so I'm immune. I've had 25 years to get acclimated.
is she a bad mom?
I always think aqua women hate motherhood
LOL. You think Cancers with all their insecurities, lack of individuality and lack of restraint on their emotions make good mothers/parents because you guys represent motherhood or family. I have seen the most lousy Cancer parents who project their own insecurities and issues with life onto their children and destroy their psyche. Emotionally unfit people like Cancers usually make terrible parents even though they mean well. You guys TRY to be good parents but end up being detrimental and suffocating. Try having a Cancer parent as an Aqua. I see those poor Aqua kids in my family. Those are the aqua kids who lack confidence and feel entitled to love.
As for Aqua men and women being bad parents, we take the decision of having a child seriously because we just want to do right by that child. Aqua women try to make their children self-sufficient and ready for the cold world. We teach our kids to be independent with our so-called coldness so that they don’t become needy and clingy and dependent on someone for something. They are practical in their motherhood which takes away from the affection and coddling. I think that’s a good mother as opposed to the affectionate coddler of a mother who keeps loving their kid to the point of spoiling them. My Cancer moon sister in law is so loving and doesn’t want to see my nephew cry or sad, so when he wants something, she immediately gives it to him, takes toys from other’s kids. What is she teaching? Instant gratification and that he doesn’t have to share. Yeah, that’s toxic love, which is the love Cancers give.
blah blah blah . sure sure everyone wants a cold disciplinarian as a parent
I sure as hell am glad I didn’t get a Cancer parent and that’s why I turned out to be self-assured woman. 💪🏼 My dad was an Aqua and mom is Cap. Great combo of confidence and fortitude. Otherwise, I’d be a weak self-doubting kid like my niece and nephew and friends.
If I didn't know you are an aqua based on your username, I'd think you're a Leo. You're so full of shit. 😂 Clearly, you're not God's gift to humanity. Even putting people, like your own family, down to put yourself in a pedestal. Insecurity at its best. You must be around such a bad bunch that you're the one that's doing so well.
GET OVER YOURSELF.
I see you’re still obsessed with me, self imposed victim.
Self imposed victim? You're disgusting. Also, you're not that amazing for me to be obsessed with you. I'm just calling you out for your nasty behavior. Yuck. You make me wanna vomit right now 🤮
You’re transparently pathetic. I know exactly the kind of victim you are. You provoke someone by harassing them when they have told you to stay away from them and when they finally resort to giving you your own medicine you cry victimhood. I’m a stranger on the internet and you keep chasing me and commenting on my shit all because you can’t swallow my opinions. I’ve come across your recent delusional posts on some other threads too, but do you see me commenting on them and calling you out on how delusional you are? Nope, because I don’t give two shits about you. Stop “calling me out.” Stop addressing me. I don’t like you. Stop seeking attention from me.
Excqueeezzzeeeee meeeeee LOL I don't cry victim around you. Lol if anything, you're the one crying victim now. Claiming I'm chasing you around and obsessed with you. You are laughable. Are you crying now? You must be pissing in your pants at the moment since you think I'm chasing you. 😂 You won't comment on my posts because you have no shit against what I say. Your brain cannot handle it. So you don't dare respond LOL
I don't need your attention. But you're the one seeking validation today. Unfortunately, all of us can see how shit you are as a person. How you put people down constantly to prove how good you are. That you even put friends and relatives down, call them insecure, weak just so you can make people think you are strong. You're trash. And nobody likes you. So stop praising yourself because no one else will.
Have a great day!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂click to expand
TL;DR except for the last sentence. That statement “nobody likes you” is a weak remedial insult made by your every day weak ass sycophants like you when you have nothing better to say. I don’t care to be liked by random strangers on the internet but it reveals that you do. Don’t project your weaknesses on me. Thanks. Bye.
Posted by 7thHouse
"Self-imposed victimization, begins after the fact, when you continue to blame or bemoan the circumstances and therefore give up doing what you can to improve."
I don't think I fall in this category. Once abused by an ex (since you loooovvveeee repeating this to me as your form of trying to ABUSE Me because you got nothing else to say) , I got out and got married and now with kids and quite happy. So in other words, my life did improve. 😂😂😂😂😂
@aquarius09 you can't even categorise me properly? Holy shit. 😂😂😂😂😂
It would probably do you well to just ignore people who have no first-hand experience in such situations. Witnessing something, hearing stories about it, is very different from actually experiencing it.
"Always the bridesmaid, never the bride."
Posted by 7thHousePosted by Ram416Posted by 7thHouse
"Self-imposed victimization, begins after the fact, when you continue to blame or bemoan the circumstances and therefore give up doing what you can to improve."
I don't think I fall in this category. Once abused by an ex (since you loooovvveeee repeating this to me as your form of trying to ABUSE Me because you got nothing else to say) , I got out and got married and now with kids and quite happy. So in other words, my life did improve. 😂😂😂😂😂
@aquarius09 you can't even categorise me properly? Holy shit. 😂😂😂😂😂
It would probably do you well to just ignore people who have no first-hand experience in such situations. Witnessing something, hearing stories about it, is very different from actually experiencing it.
"Always the bridesmaid, never the bride."
That's so true. What I do wonder about though, is why she kept coming back to my shared past on here that I was abused by my ex. Its funny that she looks at it like some form of damage on me. When I look at it as a sign of strength. I'm proud I survived that experience. I wouldn't be in my happy state, appreciating my family especially my kids, if I hadn't gone through that. I'm not a victim. I'm a survivor. There's a huge difference. 🙂click to expand
Risk-averse people will often do that. They look to other people's experiences to prove why they are risk-averse. And bring it up often to convince themselves that they should remain risk-averse.
Just my opinion, that's no way to live if you want to experience life and people for personal growth. But I guess some people just don't want to grow. *shrugs*
Lol I’m just reading this forum since my boyfriend is an Aqua.
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTown
I'm a Cancer with kids and my mom is an Aquarius. Don't get me started on them being mothers. Sure they get a lot done, will do duties (clean house every 15 minutes ), and plot no evil like others, but that's where it ends. I don't ever remember my mom being with me as a child. Ever. Not a single hug all your life. I am shocked it did not affect me except for the fact I have no relationship with her even though I see her almost every day.
If there is anyone who thinks Cancers are bad parents, it's Aqua women. My mom and my Sag ex (both are ironically the most detached in the Zodiac) can't understand why kids love and chose me. What they don't know is that having a clean house, showering, money, car, education, toys can be purchased, but Cancers are the best at providing what money can't buy, and that is mostly what kids need. The rest can be obtained.
As far as dating an Aquarius woman, I'm not sure if I can last 5 minutes from the time we meet. They are pretty, but I'm not sexually attracted. Maybe it would be different if I slept with one, but I doubt it. Two different people, no ones fault.
I like Aqua men as friends though.
Sag detachment is very underrated
I'm aqua moon and I APPROVE of cancer moon
Love them
I love cancer 😀
Love them
I love cancer 😀
Posted by IAteMyGrandmaInMonkeyTownPosted by ELIGAB
Sag detachment is very underrated
What you mean?click to expand
Not being in the present due to them being so conceited....... lol...
Posted by Arielle83Posted by virgoOPPP
A cancer man will manipulate and abuse an aquarius woman
Cancer men can cut a weak woman at her heart strings.click to expand
oooh cold
but yeah i don't see a weak woman surviving a cancer man OR a cancer woman
you have to be EXTREMELY STRONG to be with a cancer
lol
My Aqua ex and I agreed the other day, we’re still besties. We spend 1 or 2 days a week doing stuff with our kids, it’s great.
He needs to be with someone all the time. Parents, buddies, gf or his family but only on his terms. As soon as one of these groups starts wanting more of his time or becomes too emotionally taxing he bails and on to the next.
I need long periods of time by myself. I can handle any emotion someone has but only in small doses. Then they need to go away.
I’m dating one now and notice he and my ex both like to rant. What’s up with that? I think Aqua men like Cancer’s humour, sense of adventure and ability to get shit done.
I find both signs value independence and can be detached but in different ways.
My Aqua ex and I agreed the other day, we’re still besties. We spend 1 or 2 days a week doing stuff with our kids, it’s great.
He needs to be with someone all the time. Parents, buddies, gf or his family but only on his terms. As soon as one of these groups starts wanting more of his time or becomes too emotionally taxing he bails and on to the next.
I need long periods of time by myself. I can handle any emotion someone has but only in small doses. Then they need to go away.
I’m dating one now and notice he and my ex both like to rant. What’s up with that? I think Aqua men like Cancer’s humour, sense of adventure and ability to get shit done.
I find both signs value independence and can be detached but in different ways.
This thread is a case study on the effects and subsequent aftermath of the "Cancer Man Left Me" syndrome happening to an Aqua woman.
Posted by virgoOPPPPosted by Arielle83Posted by virgoOPPP
A cancer man will manipulate and abuse an aquarius woman
Cancer men can cut a weak woman at her heart strings.
oooh cold
but yeah i don't see a weak woman surviving a cancer man OR a cancer woman
you have to be EXTREMELY STRONG to be with a cancerclick to expand
Can confirm. I have a bigger dick then my husband.
Posted by nikkistarPosted by virgoOPPPPosted by Arielle83Posted by virgoOPPP
A cancer man will manipulate and abuse an aquarius woman
Cancer men can cut a weak woman at her heart strings.
oooh cold
but yeah i don't see a weak woman surviving a cancer man OR a cancer woman
you have to be EXTREMELY STRONG to be with a cancer
Can confirm. I have a bigger dick then my husband.click to expand
celebrate that BDE vibe 🎈🎈
Posted by Black-Mamba
i love crab threads where @aquarius09 posts cause ya'll know there's going to be hurt feelings and drama
my leo moon approves
LOL. True. I thoroughly enjoyed it too. Shows why I’m half fire (Sag)
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